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This was an opportunity for healing and the judge did it in the language of the victim's family. She is truly a wise woman and we are lucky to have her for a judge.
I can not agree more! I am atheist through and through, but I interact with very religious people daily. When they pray for me, or they offer me spiritual insight, I chose to see it in context, this is them sharing the most profound thing they hold dear, and I see it as the gift they intend, instead of needing to correct them, and dispute their belief.I'd like to just ditto youI'm atheist but was still touched. When I think of how Christians would act in this situation - this would be it, right? This is what their religious text teaches, no?
It doesn't get any better than this!This was an opportunity for healing and the judge did it in the language of the victim's family. She is truly a wise woman and we are lucky to have her for a judge.
Oh my.....what an amazing woman is this judge? And, BJ family? Saints on earth.
For those who are uncomfortable with the judge giving AG a bible? I’ll pray for you. She didn’t do this in her official capacity.....it was done in her human capacity.
I'd like to just ditto youI'm atheist but was still touched. When I think of how Christians would act in this situation - this would be it, right? This is what their religious text teaches, no?
You know what else....10 more years would not have rehabilitated AG but the brothers forgiveness and compassion and the Judge’s kindness very well could!
You’ve summed it up perfectly. Mutual Sorrow.I'm not christian but i absolutely was moved and loved how this played out today. His brother was amazing and strong and powerful in his statement, and in asking to give her a hug, and the mutual back and forth during the hug was so powerful. You could see it was REAL. This wasn't for anything other than mutual sorrow. And i think the family ASKED the judge to take her a bible... and i'm good with that too. Like i said, i'm not Christian, but i'm good with bringing it back to schools and letting everyone do whats in their own hearts... to the best of their ability.
Was the jury still present when the Judge did this? Was court still in session?The Judge told Amber “you haven’t done anything you cannot be forgiven for. You did a bad thing at a moment in time, what you do now really matters” and gave Amber her copy of the Bible to take with her.
I think the tricky part is that a judge should never really be speaking off the record to a defendant. I agree that the events of family and the judge after the court was recessed was incredible and mirrored the kind of person that Mr. Jean was said to be. (I go back to a time when people tried to smear this man about marijuana and making him look bad and I am sickened given who we now have gotten to know through family/friends stories.)
You don't need to pray for me but thank you for the offer. I do believe in the separation but can certainly respect your beliefs and the beliefs of the family and the judge.