GUILTY TX - Jackson Farrey, 6 mos, El Paso, 15 Nov 2013

[Kaliste]

I've seen a couple references to them possibly having an 'open' relationship or being poly, and I have to say that I doubt that is the case here. Of course, it's entirely possible, but heres my take as someone who happens to be poly/open.

We(hubby and I, as well as everyone else I've met so far) take very clear and strong lines to indicate our relationship status. POF does not allow for those in our types of relationships to be open about it, so OKC does tend to have(in my experience) more honesty than many dating sites.

Not only is my status set to "married"(there are other options as single, available<-- usually means married/dating but open, seeing someone,etc.) but my first line of my profile indicates my marital status WITH a link to my spouses profile. As well as numerous references(and even photos of the two of us together)

Now, I happen to truly be on there for friends, it's nice to find other people in our... 'situation' to talk to. My boyfriends wife is on there for dating however, as is my husband. Their, and every profile of anyone I've met indicates their clear married/dating status, and often an explanation of exactly what they are looking for. emotional/sexual relationship, just sexual,etc.etc.

Being poly/open successfully is all about honest communication, between ALL participants. And I do mean all. I spend a lot of time with my boyfriends wife, we have become quite close and discuss everything from our breakfast routines, to what we like in bed, to issues with scheduling amongst ourselves. I may not be in a relationship with her, but for all intents and purposes I am.

WOW I ramble way too much.

Now of course, these people could be doing it... 'badly'. and he could have just given her permission, or any number of other things. I also think he could easily be just as guilty as her, simply because she is 'out there' more doesn't mean a lot, imo, yet.

ETA: for clarification purposes, boyfriend is a bad choice of terminology, but that's kind of irrelevant to the discussion at hand! LOL It's the easiest explanation I have for what he is though.

Thanks EllaBella! Very interesting stuff. I don't believe they were in an open relationship based on my take of her YouTube videos regarding military wife life. I think she's just selfish and likes the attention she gets from dating sites.

IMO

 

[Kaliste]

AWOL = Absent Without Leave...he didn't return when he was supposed to and didn't have permission to be gone.

Dishonorable Discharge = The worst kind of discharge a soldier can get. Having a DD renders a soldier ineligible for ANY and ALL veteran's benefits. It also wreaks havoc on employment.

Court Martial would be the procedure and ultimate punishment (handed out by the military) and usually accompanied by brig time AND a Dishonorable Discharge.

The reason I believe the military has the upper hand here...well, right now, Dad is only under the thumb of the military. While a Dishonorable Discharge sucks, it's nowhere near as bad as a court martial. The military could bargain with Dad and offer to kick him out of the military with a DD and a no return RE (re-enlistment code) in exchange for info on Baby Jackson. His alternative for not cooperating could be court martial in which he'd face brig time.

Thanks Malia! Can I ask what "brig time" is? I guess I could google that

ETA: I googled! Looks like it's Military Jail time.

 

[meanmaryjean]

Brig = Jail

 

[Amster]

TMI.......

Poor little baby. I pray he is safe somewhere.....lease:

 

[zwiebel]

She had a curfew as part of her five year probation. Doesn't sound like she was sticking to it.

His rank in the army is 'specialist'. This is a new one to me. Just wondering if that could be something to do with ordnance/explosives and hence the police vehicle with the grenade on the side? Maybe they thought munitions could be inside the home?

http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24553631/el-paso-police-prepare-search-home-farrey-family


I went to sleep last night and kept seeing the face of the baby sleeping on the carpet in my dreams. He looked like a newborn, and so, so pale......I can't tell you how glad I am the military are going to be able to hold the father. They have the best chance of finding out where baby Jackson is, I think.

If baby Jackson had died through choking or suffocation while being neglected, I think Mom would have reported it, as she could have said it happened while she was sleeping or something. I think something very bad has happened to this little one, and the parents do not want him to be found for that reason.

 

[zwiebel]

'Neighbours tell us they've never even seen the children'

'It's deja vu for many.....in 2011, a two-year old, Joanna Castillo, died just down the street..'

http://www.ktsm.com/news/farrey-familys-west-el-paso-home-becomes-crime-scene

 

[MaliaMansly]

Thanks Malia! Can I ask what "brig time" is? I guess I could google that

ETA: I googled! Looks like it's Military Jail time.

You're welcome and yes, it's Military Jail.

 

[MaliaMansly]

She had a curfew as part of her five year probation. Doesn't sound like she was sticking to it.

His rank in the army is 'specialist'. This is a new one to me. Just wondering if that could be something to do with ordnance/explosives and hence the police vehicle with the grenade on the side? Maybe they thought munitions could be inside the home?

http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24553631/el-paso-police-prepare-search-home-farrey-family


I went to sleep last night and kept seeing the face of the baby sleeping on the carpet in my dreams. He looked like a newborn, and so, so pale......I can't tell you how glad I am the military are going to be able to hold the father. They have the best chance of finding out where baby Jackson is, I think.

If baby Jackson had died through choking or suffocation while being neglected, I think Mom would have reported it, as she could have said it happened while she was sleeping or something. I think something very bad has happened to this little one, and the parents do not want him to be found for that reason.

The term, "Specialist" in this instance means that he's reached the 4th rank of an enlisted soldier in the Army. It's his pay grade (E-4), not his MOS (Military Occupation Specialty). HTH

ETA: http://www.military-ranks.org/army

 

[zwiebel]

The article I just linked also said police are searching the desert N.East of El Paso. My heart dropped when I looked at the map. Jackson's such a tiny baby, I just don't think there will be much chance of finding him if he is out there somewhere.

I hope one of the parents were foolish enough to take their cell with them, and Police have all the pings. I imagine Mom might not have wanted to let go of all the photos of herself I'm sure she has stored there.

I wonder what charges they could face if baby Jackson isn't found? Child abandonment?

 

[MaliaMansly]

"Police would not confirm reports late Tuesday that a baby had been found."

"A black and white car, with a grenade painted on the driver's side, sat in the driveway as police took pictures of it and the front of the house. The car was later towed."

"Police were also searching the desert in Northeast El Paso."

http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24553631/el-paso-police-prepare-search-home-farrey-family

This is first I've seen mention of alleged reports that a baby had been found. My heart is heavy that they're searching the desert. I have a bad feeling they found something in the car. I really hope dogs didn't alert on anything, because I'm seeing versions of Baby Caylee all over again! Where are you, Baby Jackson!?

 

[BunnyHop]

Watching and waiting......

Poor baby.

 

[SamanthaL]

Not what I wanted to find this hear this morning :-(

 

[sophiebelle]

Oh my. Hurts my heart even though I didn't think this baby was alive and well. Has anybody seen mention of any family for either of these two?

 

[Lots2Learn]

Was hoping for a press conference or something

 

[MaliaMansly]

Oh my. Hurts my heart even though I didn't think this baby was alive and well. Has anybody seen mention of any family for either of these two?

JF's dad posted on JF's FB back in December of last year.

 

[mayelf]

IF they have found a body and searched the exact right area my guess is either <modsnip> mom or <modsnip> dad started talking.

 

[The Cheese]

Police would not confirm reports late Tuesday that a baby had been found.

http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24553631/el-paso-police-prepare-search-home-farrey-family

Nothing on Twitter, but I'm keeping an eye on it.

 

[Davia18]

These stories anger me so much. I have a hard time spanking my kids, I don't know how people can be so evil and cruel and unhuman.
I hope the other baby ends up adopted by an amazing family whom is unable to have children. And he never knows this evil past he came from. JMO

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

She had a curfew as part of her five year probation. Doesn't sound like she was sticking to it.

His rank in the army is 'specialist'. This is a new one to me. Just wondering if that could be something to do with ordnance/explosives and hence the police vehicle with the grenade on the side? Maybe they thought munitions could be inside the home?

http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24553631/el-paso-police-prepare-search-home-farrey-family


I went to sleep last night and kept seeing the face of the baby sleeping on the carpet in my dreams. He looked like a newborn, and so, so pale......I can't tell you how glad I am the military are going to be able to hold the father. They have the best chance of finding out where baby Jackson is, I think.

If baby Jackson had died through choking or suffocation while being neglected, I think Mom would have reported it, as she could have said it happened while she was sleeping or something. I think something very bad has happened to this little one, and the parents do not want him to be found for that reason.

Per this article I need to make a correction to one of my above posts...

At the moment, Jenna and Jeffrey are both in the Delta County Correctional Facility in MI...

I had said they were arrested by two different government departments...

that has not happened yet...but LE and the military are working to get Jenna and Jeffrey back to El Paso... So I imagine there would be separate places of incarceration when this is eventually sorted out...

JMO

 

[skibaboo]

BREAKING NEWS - Sources: Body of missing 5-month-old baby found in desert

Sources close to the investigation have confirmed to the El Paso Times that the body of the missing 5-month-old Jackson Farrey has been found somewhere in the Northeast desert.
Police would not confirm that the baby had been found.

More- http://www.elpasotimes.com/latestnews/ci_24561201