Pixies, I don't know if I've ever heard this before about what you've had to endure. I'm so sorry.
It's all in the past now Jeana but thank you. I'm over it.
My parents were very young when I was born (18,15) and they did the best they could but had no real clue about things like this. In my extended family there were female molesters and males. Really sick stuff but it ended with ME.
I confronted all of them at the reunion and my kids will never know them. I have ended the "family tradition" of being molested. It stopped with me.
Sounds sick, eh?
But it explains my hatred of all child abusers and molesters!
It's all in the past now Jeana but thank you. I'm over it.
My parents were very young when I was born (18,15) and they did the best they could but had no real clue about things like this. In my extended family there were female molesters and males. Really sick stuff but it ended with ME.
I confronted all of them at the reunion and my kids will never know them. I have ended the "family tradition" of being molested. It stopped with me.
Sounds sick, eh?
But it explains my hatred of all child abusers and molesters!
I'm beginning to think I should live in Texas!
Good for you!! You have the satisfaction of not hiding or being ashamed.I cannot even imagine having to look at those pictures.
I would go insane, I believe.
I agree that it is often the families that abuse these children. Molestation runs in families, my mother and I were both molested by an uncle, along with all the female cousins. NO ONE stood up to protect us, even our own mothers. I finally brought it up at a family reunion in front of everyone...DRAMA!! But it got the message out plus thekickin he got later on by a husband of one of his many victims made me happy.
He is no longer around children and lives a very lonely life outside the family. When I see him out I often yell "PEDOPHILE PERVERT" even at the grocery store. I want everyone to know what he is! Sadly, everything he has done happened in the late 70's early 80's so there is no way we can put him in jail.
Sweet!
I must confess...I started a new job earlier in 2008, and we have one employee who focuses on the computer forensics/investigations for kiddie. He's worked there several years, but only became certified this year. Therefore, local agencies (as well as within our own agency) send him their child
cases. Although he's the one doing the actual forensics investigations, I get to review all his case reports. This is a new area for me - I thought I'd seen a lot in the last 15 years, but I have to say I'm almost surprised on a weekly basis.
The whole culture and subsurface community of this cr*#. And one thing that is so commonthat gets me is how often the FAMILY is sharing so much of this stuff. :furious: Like...does it come up at Thanksgiving dinner or what?!?!?! :furious: "Hey, Dad...I've got kiddiepics of my daughter...want me to send them to you?!?!?!" (Yeah, that would make it the father sending the pics of the granddaughter to the grandfather! That was this week's case.)
So...I like the message this judge sent![]()