When will people learn that tearing apart a childs parents(or adult for that matter) ONLY TRULY HURTS THE CHILD!!!! Yes sometimes children hafta to face cruel hard facts. In this case ALL that (imho) needs to be said is the jury found your dad guilty. Let them digest that. Let them heal from that. Let them mourn the whole situation. Thsi is the truth, that they will have to accept. Why not start them on the road to recovery, by starting with accepting the FACTS.. and the FACTS are an impartial jury of 12 americans/central texans found matt (arsewhole) baker guilty of murder.
maybe I AM partial. I just do not know anymore. What I do know from experience is when one side of a family tears the parent of a child apart, it slowly kills that child inside. I still deal with those scars daily. My family that raised me hated my dad.. they had reason to. BUT I should have never known their feelings. I can still remember my moms only brother, the uncle I love with ALL my heart crying and begging me NOT to find my daddy, telling me what a dead beat he was all about his drug and alcohol problems..what that uncle did not relaize is by telling me HOW bad my daddy was he was also telling me I was atleast half that bad, or that is what my 13 yr old heart and brain heard. Then as I got older, and NEEDED to find my daddy for my own sanity, it killed me inside to feel I was betraying the family that raised me. They spoke of daddy like he was satan in human skin...so in my head so was I. I feel to this day, ahd they only given me the facts..your dad has a drug and alcohol problem, I woudlnt have felt so worthless as a child and young adult. I know God is watching over Kensi and Grace, He was over me also, but I also fear the path the girl will have to take to get past the "knowledge"(from the lies told to thm) that their mom didnt think they were worth living for. Because it jsut is not true. The name she gave Grace is PROOF of her knowledge God was with her, and would carry her through all the hurt and pain of loosing Kassidy. Grace was proof from God that there WAS life after death of a child. Grace was a gift from God..
Anyway seems once again emotions has taken over me..I even walked away and took a bath and relaxed, but still the underlying anger of those girlls being told Kari commited suicide wont leave me. IF it had been true, that that would be the truth they had to live with, but is just is not. They ahve ahd four years to "adjust" to this lie, and how long will it take before they get to learn the truth and have to start all over.
I have tried hard to give MB's mom the benefit of doubt, but with the things she says it is hard. They say she is stoic, I wonder IF that emtionless face is actually hiding internal guilt of having rasied a murderer, then backing him 100 % as he lied to everyone he spoke to for the last four years!!
Anyway..still praying, and still KNOWING God is in control..and that is truly all that matters. he can and will heal those girls..