TX - 'Lori Ruff', Longview, WhtFem UP9863, *General Discussion and Theories* #3

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  • #341
Great work on the bankruptcy info.

I have EDS, and there's no reason to think FLEK has it. The reason posters were suggesting Marfans was because she is tall, but EDS is not linked to stature. Yes, she had a genetic marker for heart disease, but the one type of EDS that causes heart issues has a specific facial type and *small* stature.
 
  • #342
I think I figured out the conditions of LEK's speeding ticket. A bit of Googling uncovered this page: http://www.speedingticketcentral.com/Texas-speeding-ticket.html

On that page there is a paragraph that explains, "In some circumstances, you may request Texas deferred adjudication from the Court. If you have a good driving record, and you are not currently on deferred disposition, you may make a request of the Court. Deferred disposition means you will be placed on probation for a period of up to one year. If you successfully complete the probationary period without receiving a moving violation anywhere in the State of Texas, the original charge will be dismissed. As part of deferred disposition, you are required by law to take a defensive driving course unless you can present proof to the Court that you have had a defensive driving class in the twelve months preceding the date you were given your ticket. You must also provide the Court with proof of insurance. For this reason we recommend that you take the online traffic school and save your Texas speeding ticket deferment."

Her final appearance in court was almost 1 year after her first appearance. In the end, the citation was dismissed, so officially it is not on her driving record. And this appears to be a special case of the Texas legal system that, in pre-Internet days, would not be common knowledge to the average person -- thus LEK did benefit some from hiring an attorney.

IMHO, this suggests that, even after 4 years, LEK was still very much an outsider in her new hometown. Someone with a more developed social network might have learned of this way to keep a speeding ticket off her record thru word of mouth.

Interesting thoughts, llywrch. I grew up in the D/FW area and *everyone* knew about deferred adjudication, especially as teenagers.

(and welcome! I live in the mid-valley now and I've been enjoying your posts) :)
 
  • #343
I also have EDS along with a bunch of other not so fun things. It isn't something that you can look at someone and tell they may have it. Mine was diagnosed after ruling out many things first and I also underwent genetic testing with a geneticist.
 
  • #344
I have edited (with asterisks) some posts containing the full name/address of individuals who may not be related to this case. We do NOT include names and addresses and personal information of persons who are not KNOWN to be connected to a case.
 
  • #345
I also have EDS along with a bunch of other not so fun things. It isn't something that you can look at someone and tell they may have it. Mine was diagnosed after ruling out many things first and I also underwent genetic testing with a geneticist.

Exactly, well-put.
 
  • #346
The discovery of a JP living down the street from FLEK could easily explain that name being on the notes page. Identifying JP could be a critical puzzle piece in this mystery, but it may also have nothing to do with FLEK's identity. The notes page really resembles actual scratch paper with an accumulation of (possibly) unrelated things jotted down, rather than an intentional document created as a riddle to her identity. If this is the case, she could have simply written down her neighbor's name for some mundane reason.
 
  • #347
The discovery of a JP living down the street from FLEK could easily explain that name being on the notes page. Identifying JP could be a critical puzzle piece in this mystery, but it may also have nothing to do with FLEK's identity. The notes page really resembles actual scratch paper with an accumulation of (possibly) unrelated things jotted down, rather than an intentional document created as a riddle to her identity. If this is the case, she could have simply written down her neighbor's name for some mundane reason.

I believe that everything written in Lori's notes were very significant. It's the location of the notes, in a place where her husband was refused entry, that lead me to that conclusion. I write notes to myself all the time, little insignificant pieces of information, which have very little lasting importance. I leave them on the table. Everyone in the household has access to them. I usually want them on the table so that they remind of something, such as what I will need to get when I go into the city, or what to take with me.

It is interesting in the note that Jennifer Perkins is printed partially in lower case letters and partially in upper case letters. Just now, looking at the notes, I see that pattern through out her notes though. The name of Perkins is popping up twice, with regards to Ben Perkins, and then Jennifer Perkins. I keep a the notes in a word document, so I can refer to them easily.

It seems to me that the notes are a comfort place for Lori, where she can revisit her past, and see where she has come from. It would be like a photograph ablum to her. Being that she had to dissociate herself from her past to a great extent, perhaps, she just wanted to keep her past close.

Anyways, I could be wrong. It's all conjecture. It's just my thoughts.
 
  • #348
Great work on the bankruptcy info.

I have EDS, and there's no reason to think FLEK has it. The reason posters were suggesting Marfans was because she is tall, but EDS is not linked to stature. Yes, she had a genetic marker for heart disease, but the one type of EDS that causes heart issues has a specific facial type and *small* stature.

What I've been trying to do is to sort out a consensus of the most plausible theories that people before me have proposed. About LEK's possible Marfan, it was proposed not only because of her height, but the shape of her hands, bad eye sight (as shown by the restriction on her driver's license), & possible scoliosis (so AstroKitty claimed to see). But then rae100 argued she didn't have Marfan, & wdmcmahan suggested she had EDS. And later in the Marfan's thread you added, "EDS is possible, but I'd think we'd have medical history showing frequent dislocations or pain." And her bankruptcy records showed she had seen a doctor who specialized in chronic pain issues.

But this is all conjecture. The possibilities are important because of two reasons. (1) It may be one way that a birth name is found for LEK, that someone constructing a family tree to to better understand their genetic heritage might wonder what happened to "cousin L", & looking for someone who might have Marfan's or EDS identify her. (2) Knowing this gives us a better understanding the person LEK.

Of course all of this is a collection of theories, but some theories contradict others. If she had Marfan's or EDS, how likely was she to be a dancer at a "gentlemen's club"? Or receive a certificate in "Solo Flight of a Buckeyed-Powered Parachute"? And I'm inclined to dismiss the report that LEK was a dancer as a rumor her male friend had heard about her, possibly to explain why she had breast implants. Further, if she did have one of these conditions, possibly undiagnosed, this might have been a factor that contributed to her mental breakdown & suicide.

Lastly, if I have offended you or anyone else in speculating that she had EDS or Marfan's, I apologize. My interest is simply in trying to understand the person who abandoned her birth name & took the name Lori Erica Kennedy.
 
  • #349
Interesting thoughts, llywrch. I grew up in the D/FW area and *everyone* knew about deferred adjudication, especially as teenagers.

Well, I'm assuming that she didn't grow up there. Every locale has its peculiarities that only locals know. For example, here in Portland, since Meter Maids don't work Saturdays -- at least at one time -- one can park in many places for free. But only locals who are up on such things would know that.

(and welcome! I live in the mid-valley now and I've been enjoying your posts) :)

Thanks. "Mid-valley"? As in Willamette? Then howdy, neighbor!
 
  • #350
If she did have EDS I do feel for her. I'm 39 and it's taken my left knee, right shoulder, much of my right hip and I can feel my left hip starting to give some. It's certainly not the worst disease to have but not kind to one who has it either.

Most times a DX of EDS will not be a singular disease a person has. Many times people woth EDS also have POTS, and both are very common in people with Chiari Malformation and or MS. Nit to say that's an inclusive list, but rather to point out its often times just one of many problems the sufferer will have.

It would be very interesting to know if the pain specialist was her only specialist or doctor she seen, how often and how many surgeries she had. How often she had to attend PT. And what medications she was on.

Sorry for the random unorganized thoughts, I'm rambling but the EDS theory just has me thinking a lot.

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  • #351
I was googling some of the addresses recently mentioned on here and this website popped up. Has anyone ever seen this? If you put in an address it tell you who has lived there and what their previous addresses are. Perhaps it could be useful in our search for LEK identity?

http://www.myrelatives.com/address-lookup/tx/bedford/h/highway-121/2420

This is the first time that I have seen such a website. I would like to try entering addresses connected with Lori Kennedy on this site. I wondered if this was a free site.
 
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http://www.myrelatives.com/d/lori-kennedy/31945258

Punching in LEK generated this listing for 1978 Oak Creek #16. The listed phone number comes back to the apartment building, and there is an Ameritrade email address.

There was also this email: [email protected]

I am guessing that "KEWL" is Lori E. Kennedy initials backwards. So, what is the "W" that is thrown in there? Is it from her old name? And if we read "web" backwards, are those also someone's initials. .... Like her old name? Hmmm....B.E.W ....or maybe W.E.B. ?
 
  • #354
http://www.myrelatives.com/d/lori-kennedy/31945258

Punching in LEK generated this listing for 1978 Oak Creek #16. The listed phone number comes back to the apartment building, and there is an Ameritrade email address.

I'm not certain what to make of this information. It give two email addresses for LEK I haven't seen before, while omitting two we already know of, & one that I discovered but haven't seen mentioned before.(*) And the addresses are a mess: the Harwood address appears twice as "Marwood", & the dates that she lived at those addresses don't match our other sources.

(*) Sorry, I didn't mean to keep this tidbit of information all to myself, but since it concerned her consulting business, I didn't think it was important to post immediately. LEK had sent out recruitment emails from [email protected] from July 2007 thru August 2008 on behalf of An Eye for Detail, but haven't seen any mention of these emails.
 
  • #355
There was also this email: [email protected]

I am guessing that "KEWL" is Lori E. Kennedy initials backwards. So, what is the "W" that is thrown in there? Is it from her old name? And if we read "web" backwards, are those also someone's initials. .... Like her old name? Hmmm....B.E.W ....or maybe W.E.B. ?
I read it as sounding like cool, so I think thats why she has added the w to her initals, and web as in internet. I dont know if thays just my forign acent though.

I dont think she would have added clues to her email adresses, she tried so hard hide her old identity. Her passwords might be diffrent if she didnt think anyone would ever be able to get hold of them.

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  • #356
The resolution of the Grateful Doe case instantly made me think of LEK. Jason Callahan (aka Grateful Doe) wasn't identified because he wasn't reported missing. He often ran away and his family thought he was intentionally gone. Twenty YEARS passed before he was identified.
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sh...ch-missing-since-1995&p=12236532#post12236532
I think LEK's story must be similar. Either her family had no reason to report her missing or she has no living relatives. :twocents:
 
  • #357
It might be useful to do a summary of the theories about LEK: where she came from, why she changed her name, perhaps why she did some of the things she did. I've come up with a list of six of these theories, one or two of them admittedly implausible, but since the list is so short I went ahead & included them. Except for these few, all of them are equally likely, & only when we know more -- possibly more than we can ever learn -- will we know which one was the truth.

1. LEK was an illegal immigrant from Canada. In the 1980s, the border was a lot more porous than it is today, & there was nothing to prevent someone from Canada coming into the US to live any more than someone doing the same from Mexico. However, Congress passed a law (IIRC, PL-99-603 published in November 1986) that required all employers to provide proof of citizenship from all potential employees, which required illegal immigrants to either come clean -- or find another way to be a legal US citizen. Such as assuming the identity of a dead 2-year-old.

2. LEK escaped from a cult, the most often mentioned one being the FLSD, or some remnant of it. (Actually, this theory is mentioned so often, it could be considered theory "2a".) She lacked a birth certificate or other legal proof of being in the US, so she had to find another way to obtain legal proof she existed. And due to the nature of the cult, she made an effort to hide from its members out of fear.

One variant of it -- that LEK was an escapee from the Church of Scientology -- is not likely. People have left the CoS in droves for decades -- it has an amazing churn of membership -- & despite having a frighteningly effective intelligence section, the CoS doesn't go after former members, as long as they don't talk about the CoS. So there's no reason for LEK to hide were she a former CoS member.

3. LEK came from a commune -- as in a remnant of the 60's Counterculture -- that also failed to provide her an official birth certificate. These do exist, the one best known to me being the community of Takilma in Southern Oregon near Cave Junction. I suspect that other ones exist in Montana, Idaho, New Mexico & in other Western States -- at least into the 1980s.

4. LEK was hiding from someone; perhaps she witnessed a felony, or was involved as an accomplice, & fled for her safety. The theory that she was "hiding" depends on (a) her motivation for changing her name, & (b) her motivation for not wanting her marriage to Blake Ruff publicized. But both actions have other possible explanations, so I'm not convinced this theory is possible -- although I can't provide a definitive reason why this theory isn't the truth.

I think the fact that Agent Velling ran LEK's prints & image thru law enforcement databases & failed to get any hits proof that LEK wasn't wanted for any crimes. While it's possible she may have committed one or more felonies, if so she escaped detection for them & had no need to change her identity. And arguing that she committed a felony, was not suspected of it but did not know this, yet went into hiding anyway is wandering off into Silly Conspiracy Theory Land. (Or as others in this forum used to call it, "Days of Our Mustard".)

5. LEK changed her name to "start her life over" -- as a break from her past. There are some signs in what is known of her life that this may be the case, points where she tried to "paper over" her past, to provide a fictional story so she need not tell the truth: her fabricated Letter of Recommendation from a boss in Thailand, & the entry in her resume for the years July 1992-January 1998. (She could have simply stated she graduated from college in December 1997, but it was important to her to account for those 5 & ahalf years.)

I admit I favor this theory because I know of several women who have changed their first names for this reason. Especially because a number of thee women I know had mental issues. But one could consider that the theory LEK changed her name to start over because of mental issues she was not successfully dealing with a subset of this theory -- say "5a".

6. LEK was living under a fake name because she was a sleeper agent for the KGB or another foreign power -- the theory the Ruffs are credited for. (But I don't know just how seriously they believed this theory; since LEK seemed to have dropped out of the blue sky, they may have simply joked about it.) This the one theory we safely dismiss. Had there been any possibility this might be true about LEK, Agent Velling would never have asked for help from the general public: long before he reached that point, I'm certain that someone from the US intelligence community would have taken over his investigation, & all that we would then have is a dead thread on Websleuth about a woman whose name could not be mentioned.

So have there been any other theories about LEK that I overlooked in this summary? Serious ones, please: no need to argue she was a stranded passenger from some extraterrestrial space ship, or any other theory just as silly.
 
  • #358
I read it as sounding like cool, so I think thats why she has added the w to her initals, and web as in internet. I dont know if thays just my forign acent though.

I dont think she would have added clues to her email adresses, she tried so hard hide her old identity. Her passwords might be diffrent if she didnt think anyone would ever be able to get hold of them.

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It is definitely "cool web" as far as I'm concerned, "kewl" isn't unusual and there isn't reason to suspect it's a code.
 
  • #359
It is definitely "cool web" as far as I'm concerned, "kewl" isn't unusual and there isn't reason to suspect it's a code.

Heh. "Kewl" is how I spell "cool" when I'm being sarcastic. As in, "That k-rad kewl elite dood hacked my account on Twitter, & spammed all my friends with Viagra ads."
 
  • #360
I'd love to see details of the court session where "Becky Sue Turner" asked a judge allow her to change her name to Lori Erica Kennedy. I would be very interested to hear what reason she gave for wanting to make that change. Surely it must have raised a few eyebrows to want to make such a thorough change of all three names to another seemingly random choice of name.
 
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