This is highly offensive and dismissive of Sandra Bland's family, in my opinion. First of all, when someone you love has mental health issues - even when you are trained to see warning signs - it is woefully easy to misinterpret signs. One can be in denial, or blame themselves, or hope external circumstances are the cause of their loved one's troubles - your feelings for the person color how you perceive the situation. As the mom to a mentally ill teen, I gotta say it took me a long time to accept the signs we were seeing (and my husband has over 10 years experience in mental health himself) - now that we've accepted that our daughter desperately needs help we can't give her, we're up against the odds in other ways. We can't afford private counseling yet CAMHS is under severe financial strain with some children and teens waiting months for treatment. In the meantime, as is common with untreated mental health illnesses, the situation is devolving. I can't predict that my daughter won't be stopped by police officers and questioned; I can't predict she won't cop one of her infamous attitudes; and I can't predict if she will attempt to take her life. I do KNOW that if my daughter is ever detained, I would expect the facility she is housed in to keep her safe, even if that means safe from herself.
Apologies for the personal anecdotes.There's a larger legal issue here though and that's that the jail assumes immediate caretaking for the person arrested. It is their legal duty to ensure the safety of inmates so I'd like to know why there were plastic bags in the cells at all? In 90% of hangings it is common, household items used (such as plastic bags). Was the intake procedure handled correctly? Was there trained staff able to deal with any mental health issues that arose? Was Sandra made aware of that and did she have access to such staff? Why do the handwritten notes on her mental health status and the computerized version differ? Why are there no notes that her self-harming was recognized? Why wasn't greater scrutiny paid to her having suffered recent losses and attempting suicide earlier this year?
So yeah, if I were in Sandra Bland's family's shoes, I'd be asking a lot of questions too. If it turns out the jail did not follow procedures correctly and she died as a result of such failures, even if by her own hand, I'd absolutely support her family in seeking financial compensation because that may well be all they can do to help ensure this never happens to anyone else. It would be no different than any other wrongful death suit to me. I don't see it as 'blood money' - I see it as possibly the only way of righting a wrong. We can only learn from our mistakes when we recognize them as mistakes. I'm quite certain no amount of 'blood money' can possibly fill the hole Sandra's passing has left in their hearts.
JMO
ETA: I've lost the post, but it is actually a misconception that all self-harmers hide their wounds and scars. The majority do but by no means all. I believed the same thing - until I got smacked back to earth with a teen daughter who is atypical - she has deliberately wounded herself in visible areas or chosen clothing that almost seems to highlight her self-harm. JME
BBM
Thanks a lot BritsKate for taking the time to write this. You're much more tolerant than I am.
