ETA: Duh, I forgot to respond to your question about why he wanted her out of the car. So sorry. It could be a similar situation - at that point, after what has transpired, his preference was to have her out of the car. For whatever reason, he maybe felt safer. Many people question that, but until one really puts themselves in that situation, it's hard to understand. I'm not sticking up for him, please understand. Just trying to voice the experience that in that given situation, that is going downhill, he wanted her out of the car, out of concern for the reaction he was getting from her. He's entitled to ask her. I'm already anticipating some here will disagree with that, and think I'm finding "safety" as his excuse. No...I'm saying that at the time, he may have been asking himself why he's getting such the reaction from her, and doesn't know and would feel better pulling her out (bad choice of my words in this point!). There's a reason why traffic stops are hazardous, and it's because there is much unknown of the person and their items in their vehicle.