I realize I am replying to myself, but here is a really good example.
Is this person a man or woman?
Great photo and I totally get where you are coming from regarding distinguishing gender while in uniforms. I am a female in the Army (my profile pic is me a few years ago) and 3years ago I comissioned from Formation Chief Warrant Officer (enlisted) to Major (Officer). I can't tell you how many times I have been called "Sir" - especially when wearng my combat uniform (fatigues) despite the stud earrings I wear. Here Enlisted are called by their rank (grade) ie: Chief or Sergeant etc, while Officers are called as "Sir" or "Ma'am".
I'll wager a guess at your photo being a
female. If I'm right, I'll explain why I think so (the 'tell' that I see ... ). I'll be disappointed in my years 35 years of military experience if it's a male.
I don't comment on this thread very often, but I'll put my two cents in IMO on the murderer of Missy and who/what I believe. My theory is that they are a "LARP" (we just call them "posers" or Walts" in the military) posing and trying to pass themselves off as someone with actual authority/credentials (in this case, a cop).
- Have built themselves up a 'wardrobe', fantasy as it may be. The lazy gate is an obvious sign that this individual has never served a day of their life in actual "uniform". Military personnel especially and those in LE, to a lesser extent, even veterans of those orgs, tend to carry themselves "with a distinct military manner" - we can pick each other out of crowds. There is absolutely zero of that visible with this individual;
- Fantasy - the lazy gait itself gives away that the individual has zero service in uniform and is "acting out a fantasy job". To me, they probably once dreamed of having "that fantasy job" in the military or LE but failed. Not that I think they ever even attempted Basic Training or Boot Camp, but that I do think they never even would have been selected for such even if they tried due to their lack of "ooommppphhh" (or laziness) in any single one of their physical actions/movement that I see when I watch the videos;
- But hey, one can dream, and so I think this individual was acting out a fantasy police patrol, dressed for the part, because they believe "they had the capability" to be successful at this in their own mind. I imagine this individual, if ever caught, will be seen to have a history of yakking about crime investigations/police procedures etc. If they also had an inkling for being in the military, then probably a paint ball player too. All the combined videos give me the feeling that they were acting out a "patrol" ... driving from one building to another, flashing lights to check something out, entering the church and tapping n doorways, opening doors to do a quick search ("clear the room") then moving on to the next down the hallways etc. A patrol or a "recce" (Recon);
- All the points above make me feel that Missy was an unintended victim or a victim of opportunity vice an actual target. They got
surprised during their 'posing' patrol expedition. If one is going to break into some place to "pose" as an officer doing a patrol, what safer/better place than an unoccupied church in the middle of a rainey, stormy night. Perhaps combined with thoughts of less chance of real security catching you, lesser "cameras" etc. They chose the church over the other location. The perp surprised and 'boosted' by a little rush of adrenalin when they experienced the 'unexpected';
- Missy herself: This perp's gait shows a distinct lack of physical ability, a laziness if you will, while Missy exhibited physical strength just by her employment (Boot Camps) and she'd have been dressed for her role that day. The perp had to have used a weapon, and I suspect Missy fought like hell, because otherwise she'd have kicked this perp's butt to next week one on one;
- I don't think extramarital affairs had anything to do with it. If the perp is female then her and Missy are two very different types of women. Husbands have 'types' and this perp doesn't qualify as even close to similar to Missy. No risk there. Likewise if the perp is a male - no history there as Missy wouldn't have found such a lazy individual to ever have been 'her compatable type' either;
- So, I believe the perp is a male and I base this one my thoughts from watching the videos and the 'wannabe' actions / posing that I see occur (dressed a LE / patrolling buidlings & hallways) taken by the individual. The overwhelmingly vast majority of individuals who pose as LE or military, and dress up the part, tend to be male and IMO, if this were a "lazy female poser" with a bad right knee then I don't think even the extra rush of adrenalin would have helped them overcome an obviously physically fit and mobile Missy.
I have two lingering questions in all of this:
1) That it has been stated that police believe that the individual may have had a cell phone etc. Have they ever pulled down cell tower records for that evening and logged and investigated all cell phones that pinged in the area at the time; and
2) Does the Church itself beam out wifi and, if so, have LE ever accesses the router to determine if any phones connected to it at the time in question. Some people set their phones to "automaticly connect" to wifi that they have accessed before. If this person was familiar with the church or had been inside it before, this is a possibility if it had wifi.