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@katydid23 and was she actually headed for beach, or was the way she was going just a route home?
What I don't quite get, is what was happening from 2 am until 10 am the next morning? Did she stay up all night and talk with friends at the party? Or were they drinking? Or did she take a nap?
I am trying to get a handle on what kind of 'condition' she was when she left that morning. Was she rested and calm? Just wanting a nice walk on the beach?
Or was she up all night partying and was tired and hungry?
Her fb says she was in a relationship from 12th Decemeber. Not heard anything mentioned about that.
I don't really understand the insinuations that there was something off about the party. I mean, there may have been, or something may have happened there that affected her mood or state of mind, but all the surface indications are that it was just a normal party.
My all-night partying days are (probably) over, but I haven't got dementia yet and can well remember staying up half the night on a regular basis, never mind for NYE/Hogmanay. Alice is young, free and single. What's so odd about heading out for some fun after staying in to listen to the bells with her family? The way people are talking, it's as if some of us don't understand what parties are.
And yes, she did tell her family she was planning to go out at 2am. It's all in the link I posted: Twin brother begs sister to come home after vanishing from Edinburgh NYE beach party
We lack a lot of information both about Alice and about the other people there, don't we. Does she drink? Does she drink to excess? And what kind of drunk is she? Garrulous, amorous, tearful, sleepy? Does she use drugs recreationally? Is she on any medication that might interact badly with alcohol etc? How well did she know the other people there and what kind of people are they? Was there likely to be some joker slipping ketamine into people's drinks? She may have been in a complete state by the morning, or she may have crashed on a sofa for a couple of hours and just been tired and in need of a fry-up. We don't really know, and a fair bit of that isn't our business, but it may make a difference to what happened next in terms of her ability to think straight, make good decisions or defend herself.
I really hope plenty of people who were at the party and on the street and beach the next day have come forward so that police can build up a picture of the circumstances that surrounded Alice's last known movements. But there may well be other things in Alice's life that we also don't know about, which might equally have influenced what happened next.
JMO
Yes you are right. I don't think I meant that there was something weird about the party, more the timeline of the missing report.
If you didn't know where someone was, but you knew they went to *a party*, you would surely assume their last location was that party, not at home.
But perhaps that is a police thing, eg police would only release the info that she was 'last seen' at 2am because that was when the family (who made the report) last saw her.
Yes you are right. I don't think I meant that there was something weird about the party, more the timeline of the missing report.
If you didn't know where someone was, but you knew they went to *a party*, you would surely assume their last location was that party, not at home.
But perhaps that is a police thing, eg police would only release the info that she was 'last seen' at 2am because that was when the family (who made the report) last saw her.
Re- “..but it must be said that the local folk upthread thought the tide would be against a successful suicide of that nature”. That's a new one on me. Never knew that drownings were dependant on tidal conditions. If people can drown in a couple of inches of bath water, I don't think tides will make any difference as to whether sea water gets into the lungs or not.
I do still feel she may be found safe though.[/QUOTE said:I sincerely hope you are right, but personally, I don't harbour any optimism, based on my understanding of the circumstances & what has been publicised so far in the media. I also take into account the actions of LE - the custodians of far greater knowledge & awareness of the situation than that made known to the general public. I feel that they will continue to deploy & direct their resources in a most thorough & appropriate manner - & that no expense or effort will be spared in their search to locate Alice.
...I originally mentioned that the tide was coming in at 10am. (My recollection is high tide was around 1pm) and things being swept shoreward was what I was trying to infer.
I don't mean to insinuate anything about the party. I simply want to understand what her mood was when she left. As far as we know, it was the last place anyone has seen her safe and sound. So it makes me wonder if she was upset in any way when she left.I don't really understand the insinuations that there was something off about the party. I mean, there may have been, or something may have happened there that affected her mood or state of mind, but all the surface indications are that it was just a normal party.
My all-night partying days are (probably) over, but I haven't got dementia yet and can well remember staying up half the night on a regular basis, never mind for NYE/Hogmanay. Alice is young, free and single. What's so odd about heading out for some fun after staying in to listen to the bells with her family? The way people are talking, it's as if some of us don't understand what parties are.
And yes, she did tell her family she was planning to go out at 2am. It's all in the link I posted: Twin brother begs sister to come home after vanishing from Edinburgh NYE beach party
We lack a lot of information both about Alice and about the other people there, don't we. Does she drink? Does she drink to excess? And what kind of drunk is she? Garrulous, amorous, tearful, sleepy? Does she use drugs recreationally? Is she on any medication that might interact badly with alcohol etc? How well did she know the other people there and what kind of people are they? Was there likely to be some joker slipping ketamine into people's drinks? She may have been in a complete state by the morning, or she may have crashed on a sofa for a couple of hours and just been tired and in need of a fry-up. We don't really know, and a fair bit of that isn't our business, but it may make a difference to what happened next in terms of her ability to think straight, make good decisions or defend herself.
I really hope plenty of people who were at the party and on the street and beach the next day have come forward so that police can build up a picture of the circumstances that surrounded Alice's last known movements. But there may well be other things in Alice's life that we also don't know about, which might equally have influenced what happened next.
JMO
I don't mean to insinuate anything about the party. I simply want to understand what her mood was when she left. As far as we know, it was the last place anyone has seen her safe and sound. So it makes me wonder if she was upset in any way when she left.
It may have nothing to do with the party itself. But it is a possibility, in my opinion, that she went to the beach and may have entered the water that morning. I just don't know for sure.
If she had a great time with her friends, was upbeat and excited about the New Year, then I doubt she went for a long swim. But if it was a depressing night and she felt hopeless about her future, for some reason---maybe a bad relationship and some lingering emotional trauma, etc, then New Years morning may have been a time she decided to change her life dramatically.