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She said that she got to know the family quite well, which was a rarity. If she knew them quite well then perhaps she also knew that they'd appreciate the card and whether it was acceptable to send or not?But there was no norm as LL said because it was the only time she'd ever done it. She said it wasn't usual.
Also, there's a difference in sending a card if you get on well with the family and they like you vs if they are unhappy or not that close to you. A nurse doesn't get to decide she can send a sympathy card to a family - she needs to respect THEIR boundaries of what is acceptable.