I dislike the use of the term “broad minded adults” as if anyone who objects to commercialised sexual violence is just silly, childish and narrow minded.
Your whole post sounds like you are trying to defend users of violent




, and deflect from the fact that it’s mainly men who do it.
There is a lot of research that




changes the brain. It is also associated with sex crimes. It is no coincidence that men like WC are often found to have an extreme




habit. The sexual reward is an extremely strong motivator, but like a drug they need more and more extreme stimulation to get excited.
There is a huge difference between violent films: (1) violent films are not intended to be masturbated to. (2) No one is really hurt in violent films, whereas




workers really are penetrated, beaten etc. It is NOT fantasy, AT ALL. (3) the women in




are often traumatised, physically and psychologically.
As for your other points, female on female




is orchestrated by men, for men. (So is women dominating men). As someone who used to be attracted to women, I can assured you that none of us like female on female




. It is a joke among lesbians. Oh: and the




actresses are still traumatised by selling their bodies even if they perform with women, or perform by dominating men.
Women do not have anywhere near the same interest in extreme




as men do, or in




in general. I don’t see why “we mustn’t forget” your personal opinion that “women do it too”. Even if we did, why on earth would it be relevant to the point at hand: that extreme




is associated with male sexual violence? Not that it’s true.
As for “extreme”, if something is illegal when sex is not involved (eg choking, beating, coercive and controlling behaviour) then it is extreme.
Lots of people consider the legislation a success.