It is complicated - have drawn myself a little flow chart
So the younger children were 4 and 10 when she moved them over to Farnham - probably not a huge schooling problem for the little ones, but not great for the 10 year old.
Then moved back to Kent in May 2018 - elder child is 12 and presumably just moved up to secondary school, so had to switch schools mid term.
All friend comments I have read re SW say she was a devoted mother - so must have been something quite drastic to disrupt child's schooling and move in such a hurry.
Leanne Edwards, BLs girlfriend in 2015, is also a friend/pal of SW, and met up with her a few days before she vanished - at which time SW apparently made it clear to LE that she didnt want any connection with BL.
Not sure that means anything, I just found it interesting as the name comes up twice.
Yes, maybe it's best I keep my hands off the keyboard about that.
It *could* have gone something like this:
I haven't seen any detail about the new job. All the articles I've seen say she received a new job offer the day before but not what the job was or where.
I read a big article which quoted SW's BF, N saying she had moved in with him, along with her 3 kids, just before Christmas, when he had offered her a place to stay because something was wrong with her boiler. She ended up staying. He outlined the sleeping arrangements of the whole lot of them, and how the kids shared rooms. It said SW enrolled them in his local school.
Alyce can you find a link for the info that Leanne and SW were friends? I don't believe I've come across that article. (Also the fact she didn't want any connection with SW's ex!)It is complicated - have drawn myself a little flow chart
So the younger children were 4 and 10 when she moved them over to Farnham - probably not a huge schooling problem for the little ones, but not great for the 10 year old.
Then moved back to Kent in May 2018 - elder child is 12 and presumably just moved up to secondary school, so had to switch schools mid term.
All friend comments I have read re SW say she was a devoted mother - so must have been something quite drastic to disrupt child's schooling and move in such a hurry.
Leanne Edwards, BLs girlfriend in 2015, is also a friend/pal of SW, and met up with her a few days before she vanished - at which time SW apparently made it clear to LE that she didnt want any connection with BL.
Not sure that means anything, I just found it interesting as the name comes up twice.
Just in case Alyce is offline it's in this article
It seems that from way back in 2015, the 'ex' had his mind set to seek custody of the kids. He may not have had a leg to stand on, but he wanted to pursue it and raise funds for a lawyer. Perhaps it had already gone to court, and the visitation and custody and support arrangements had already been laid out? But I remember reading that once SW moved in with N, her ex had issue with that, and how quickly she had moved the kids in with this new boyfriend, when she had really just met him not too long before moving in. So that could perhaps have re-fuelled his efforts to once again seek custody - he may not have had a reason the first time, but figured this was 'cause' to get custody if he could prove poor decision-making from SW? He (the ex) probably tormented her during the time she lived with N, so much so, that she ended up giving up and thinking, okay, well I'll show him, and I'll go live in the same house, and see how he likes THAT... (since the home belonged to both of them). Is that possible?
I found that interesting as well. N says only the his 3 year old was with him that night. Too young to be counted on as a reliable witness. It also suggests that the 3 and 9 year olds may have two different moms, since why wouldn't they both visit at same times? Then I start thinking.... if N had two exes, which resulted in two separate children, is he difficult to get along with? We haven't really heard much about N, other than from him himself.
