VA - Anjelica "AJ" Hadsell, 18, Norfolk, 3 March 2015 #7

[Ontario Mom]

True enough, but..... If my daughter was missing and I could get my hands on a news microphone, I'd throw anybody and everybody under the freaking bus. PERIOD.

There wouldn't be enough busses... I don't even care. My kids come first.

 

[Ed79]

I wondered about her past as well. Maybe ZH will shed some insight into that, I'm not digging.


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[4 Free Speech]

Yes please share the warrant to the hotel... I did find this last night with regards to searches and hotel's and our 4th ammendment:

http://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-rights/search-and-seizure-and-the-fourth-amendment.html


What Does the Fourth Amendment Protect?

In the criminal law realm, Fourth Amendment "search and seizure" protections extend to:

A law enforcement officer's physical apprehension or "seizure" of a person, by way of a stop or arrest; and
Police searches of places and items in which an individual has a legitimate expectation of privacy -- his or her person, clothing, purse, luggage, vehicle, house, apartment, hotel room, and place of business, to name a few examples.
- See more at: http://criminal.findlaw.com/crimina...he-fourth-amendment.html#sthash.4SCgI9Vj.dpuf

 

[GigTu]

I don't think they are. I really wish they would go back out there. In the general area there are so many places to search. I don't know why they concentrated only on Battlefield. I'm assuming they didnt have any other info besides the clothing WH found.

It seemed as though they were pretty thorough. Anyway, I asked because if they were still searching there, I would say they need to look in the exact opposite direction.

But then I got to thinking, this person likes to play games and mock, and they think they are so smart, so maybe the direction to look is 90*, 2-5 miles from home.

 

[beetrice]

Her or WH' s brother, maybe??

2014 Norview Grad

 

[FindHG]

I'm wild guessing that he convinced different people to collude with him at various times, since AJ went missing, without their knowledge of the intent, and that LE is working it's way questioning through those sets of people, but the most difficult stage of this will be those closest and the last to see AJ at 7 am that can be completely confirmed? That may explain AJ's mom's reaction, as this process would seem inevitable and difficult, as more information reaches LE about the timelines and what not.

 

[LiveLoveLaughLiza]

They actually list his room on the warrant at the motel.

I missed the warrant. Can someone post a link, please?

 

[Mermy]

Am I the only one who caught wh say to not worry about his or his wives past it's about AJ . Wait her past has not been looked into as far as I know. We can't discuss much more. But it seemed to me like he specified "our" past.

I got the impression that WH was referring to people making comments about:

his past criminal record

and

JH's choices regarding dating him, cohabitating with him, allowing him around her children etc.

I'm not inside his head, but I came away with the impression that he was suggesting that people switch their focus back to *AJ* rather than *he did/she did or he/she shouldn't have* etc.

 

[hisjerseygirl]

If we can't move past WH with what little information we have, what makes you think LE can?

VERY well said. thank you for your common sense.

 

[Pisces22]

Talk about twisted.....

I wonder if an issue has arisen w/ WTKR3 specifically during recent weeks or if JF & the house would ban JFisher w/ WAVY10 too. At least that would make her reaction more understandable, especially given that missing people need the help of media & the public.

IMO the behavior & misplaced focus displayed via the BringAJHome FB page is not very welcoming to supporters and this incident w/ JH follows that same pattern in my mind. Very defensive, accusatory and controlling tactics...MOO of course. I want to be proven wrong, really. This family needs a hero to stand up and speak for AJ instead of focusing on the continuous need some have for the drama and in fighting.

I realize this is an unimaginable circumstance for most anyone and who's to say how we each may respond to that pressure. But there is so much interest and support out here for AJ that could be better used for bringing her home & rallying the troops to search. It breaks my heart when people won't get out of there own way to help themselves. It's sabotage but I think some people just don't know any other way & others are too busy protecting themselves or someone else to be able to see the forest for the trees.

JMO.

 

[Ontario Mom]

After watching that video, I can't come up with an explanation for JH words and actions either. Something happened, something was discovered, some new development happened that has shifted mindsets.

This must be the twilight zone--WH, who is in jail, is asking for the media to help. The media shows up to do just that, and instead of using the few minutes to continue to get the word out, the cops get called. Something just doesn't add up.

DISCLAIMER: I am NOT being sarcastic when I say, she could be PMS'ing. Imagine for a moment... your kid is missing, your hubby gets busted for being a bonehead, the media is all over you... and then your cycle begins. Ladies, all y'all know what I mean, right?

Some women can't even handle that gracefully on the best of days, but with JH's circumstances, I cannot even begin to imagine. Yes, I'm being dead serious.

 

[Ed79]

Would love for Zach to give his input on this... I know one of his blog post kind of left some questions about JH in my mind


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[Momoffourboys]

DISCLAIMER: I am NOT being sarcastic when I say, she could be PMS'ing. Imagine for a moment... your kid is missing, your hubby gets busted for being a bonehead, the media is all over you... and then your cycle begins. Ladies, all y'all know what I mean, right?

Some women can't even that on the best of days, but with JH's circumstances, I cannot even begin to imagine. Yes, I'm being dead serious.

I adore you, OM! But...no. Just no. IMO.
That is no excuse for rejecting media attention for a missing child. There is no excuse.

 

[Happyshoes]

I wondered about her past as well. Maybe ZH will shed some insight into that, I'm not digging.


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I am sensing drugs somewhere in this case - were WH and JH users? Possibly AJ did some coke at school with friends. I'm not saying it's a deal gone bad, I am thinking more like WH got a $200 withdrawal so he could get some; entice AJ with it since she was on spring break. LE said her phone pinged at the hotel, right? I got the hinky meter when I saw JH's interview - seems to me, she doesn't want them to discover what it was all about. I just think WH wanted to be with AJ and things went south. so sad...

 

[CookieM]

It is so strange because on the BAJH fb page someone suggested maybe getting a spokesman and they responded that yes they already have one, but certain reporters are ignoring that and appearing at their home.
They have a spokesman??? I haven't seen anyone speaking out about AJ, but I am not local. I have only seen WH speaking out. Who is the spokesman? Have ya'll seen one? Can anyone link to anything this spokesman has said?

 

[FindHG]

DISCLAIMER: I am NOT being sarcastic when I say, she could be PMS'ing. Imagine for a moment... your kid is missing, your hubby gets busted for being a bonehead, the media is all over you... and then your cycle begins. Ladies, all y'all know what I mean, right?

Some women can't even that on the best of days, but with JH's circumstances, I cannot even begin to imagine. Yes, I'm being dead serious.

Is she old enough for menopause? Dead serious. It can be a tough for some women holding on to their youth with dear life, not that I assume she is one. A temper under these circumstances gets a pass from me, but AJ's interest is misrepresented there by her. All, I would think would be happy to listen to her when she sees fit, the public in general, but I'm sure her community and AJ's friends, at least. Everybody responds differently, it seems to me.

 

[runninglowonbananas]

It is so strange because on the BAJH fb page someone suggested maybe getting a spokesman and they responded that yes they already have one, but certain reporters are ignoring that and appearing at their home.
They have a spokesman??? I haven't seen anyone speaking out about AJ, but I am not local. I have only seen WH speaking out. Who is the spokesman? Have ya'll seen one? Can anyone link to anything this spokesman has said?

Probably a lawyer...jmo

 

[bessie]

No screenshots, please. Links only.

Thanks

 

[mamajaay]

No screenshots, please. Links only.

Thanks

Sorry Bessie. Trying to figure out how to link the conversation as a whole. I'll be back.

Edited:

Here is a link to the conversation I had with the bringAJHome Twitter account. I am extended family and this is all public, as my Twitter is not protected.

https://storify.com/TheMamaJaay/conversation-with-wtkr3-bring-aj-home-and-themamaj

 

[Ontario Mom]

I adore you, OM! But...no. Just no. IMO.
That is no excuse for rejecting media attention for a missing child. There is no excuse.

I was referring to the temper. It's possible. Probable? I'm not so sure, just trying to give the benefit of the doubt, you know?