VA - Couple & two teens found murdered, Farmville, 15 Sept 2009 #6

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  • #721
This makes me think more about Emma. I wonder if she held an unusual position of control in the family dynamic.

I know this little girl, Ivy. She's about 13 now. When she was 10 and hanging out with my foster daughter, I used to hear stories about her from the other little girls--about how, at sleepovers, she would force them to sleep in scanty clothing, in front of the air conditioner in summer, or open window in winter, so that they were freezing and couldn't sleep all night. And on and on. Somewhat comical stories, since Ivy was just 10. (Wonder what she's up to these days....)

A personality like that can cow a lot of people who are of normal dominance themselves but are more submissive than this über-dominator.

I wonder if Emma might have been exercising that aspect of her personality on Sam, never dreaming that he had such potential for rage rising out of his submissiveness.

Purely speculation on my part, imo, imho, jmo, etc. (as GXM says).

Based on the text she posted on her Vampire Freaks page, I don't see her as a passive personality at least...

But this gets into some speculative areas about analysis of emotional content in texts.

See: http://www.liwc.net/index.php
 
  • #722
Based on the text she posted on her Vampire Freaks page, I don't see her as a passive personality at least...

But this gets into some speculative areas about analysis of emotional content in texts.

See: http://www.liwc.net/index.php

Ha! Great, I just had to open the link.... I can't believe you just did this to me--I have to get some work done here today!
 
  • #723
Ha! Great, I just had to open the link.... I can't believe you just did this to me--I have to get some work done here today!

I aim to please... ;)

This is the sort of stuff I mess about with professionally. Have fun!
 
  • #724
The spirit of Longwood is the pride you have for your school.


As my daughter's said, some ppl are just too old to relate to college kids and their thinking.
I believe I fit this category.

Respect maybe.....Do not step on your school.
Just a saying...................Maybe, kinda like step on a crack and break your mother's back?

I can understand school pride, but some of this "spirit of Longwood" seems beyond that. I went to Virginia Tech. I love the school. However, other than certain sensitive events that Blou addressed, I don't have a problem with people talking about anything related Tech. I would defend the school if I heard someone giving bad information about it, but I would not be as offended as it seems some people have been with regard to Longwood.
 
  • #725
I aim to please... ;)

This is the sort of stuff I mess about with professionally. Have fun!

Well... that's sort of true for me, too. But it is NOT what I need to think about today. That's okay, though--you do redeem yourself with the ability to pique my interest.
 
  • #726
This makes me think more about Emma. I wonder if she held an unusual position of control in the family dynamic.

I know this little girl, Ivy. She's about 13 now. When she was 10 and hanging out with my foster daughter, I used to hear stories about her from the other little girls--about how, at sleepovers, she would force them to sleep in scanty clothing, in front of the air conditioner in summer, or open window in winter, so that they were freezing and couldn't sleep all night. And on and on. Somewhat comical stories, since Ivy was just 10. (Wonder what she's up to these days....)

A personality like that can cow a lot of people who are of normal dominance themselves but are more submissive than this über-dominator.

I wonder if Emma might have been exercising that aspect of her personality on Sam, never dreaming that he had such potential for rage rising out of his submissiveness.

Purely speculation on my part, imo, imho, jmo, etc. (as GXM says).



Yes, I just quoted myself. :o

But anyway, Wadahoot, and I think maybe others, have mentioned Emma's power over at least her father. Maybe she/they will comment further on the personality dynamics of Emma and others.
 
  • #727
I don't even remember if this link has been posted, but it gives insight as to when a couple of the bodie's condition when found. " There's some indication that there might be more to the story than just horror-enthralled rapper gone mad. Reports say that two of the bodies were in advanced stages of decomposition. Did McCroskey have a partner at first, one whom he may have violently turned on? Did he separate his victims and let some live longer? It appears the murders occurred sometime between Tuesday night and Thursday morning; Mark Niederbrock was last seen Wednesday evening, and by Thursday McCroskey was answering the front door by himself." quoted from the link...http://www.truecrimediary.com/index.cfm?page=cases&id=105


I read that blog, too. I think she asked pretty good questions there, based on the evidence as reported. Two possibilities in how things went down.
 
  • #728
I never have considered myself a horrorcor fan , but I do like some edgy groups..............


Including this song/video by Drowning Pool. It's worth struggling thru it just to check out the homeless man they got to play the psycho patient :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY_I6doz6Qk
 
  • #729
I don't think so...in both cases it's strangers staying at your house...where do you draw the line?...what kind of shirts are acceptable?....the difference is schools are involved with exchange students,at least they're not strangers you meet online...
Not all of exchange students were not "school exchange students" I did not police them to find out what religion they were, what music they listen too. It was totally a learning experience for my daughters that turned into a lifetime friendship.
My oldest at 17, played in Germany all summer. I never thought twice about it. She went there on her own, stayed in a rented apartment, and traveled the area. But then again, at age 15 she was driving me to the hospital for transplant surgery and taking care of her younger sister, paying the bills and being the responsible one until I could get back on my feet.
 
  • #730
Yes, I just quoted myself. :o

But anyway, Wadahoot, and I think maybe others, have mentioned Emma's power over at least her father. Maybe she/they will comment further on the personality dynamics of Emma and others.
Emma was spoiled. An only child. She had her parents wrapped around her little finger.
 
  • #731
I believe all students have the spirit of Longwood. It is their school.
Nothing to do with droppings.
Kinda funny saw a college kid today with his LU tie on and thought of you. Thought to my self "oh my, wonder why he is wearing that wicked tie, does he knows what it means" If you do not have school pride then I believe you should find another school.

My oldest daughter graduated top of her class. She was honored during graduation. She was picked because she was outstanding according to her professors. I am proud to say she landed a great job after graduation when her friends from other schools were begging to flip burgers.
She took care of a sick parent, worked 3 jobs and walked away from LU not owing a dime. She made her own luck. She was determined and she has a great love for LU.


See thats the thing that I think DM is trying to point out is that these symbols that freemasons, secret societies etc use all have real actual meanings behind them and some of them are not so good but 99% of those who belong to these groups have no idea what those symbols mean, to them its just something they use to identify themselves with and distinguish themselves from others but to those of us who study these things and understand these symbols and whose eyes have been trained to recognize and read them, they are sometimes indentifying themselves with things that are not so good and distinguishing themselves as someone who may be more than what they appear to be.
 
  • #732
We've had several exchange students too. But... none of them came completely self-identified with an obsession for horror and gore. They didn't walk in wearing shirts about "serial killin'" One could say that Debra Kelley should have had some idea what she was getting into, and made a choice to ignore the signs. Even embrace them. It is an interesting special circumstance to think about, at the least, don't you think?
Emma's room was decorated with SKR. She wore the clothes, the hair, and the jewelry that said horrorcore all over it. Her best friend was into horrorcore. Why would Sam's horrorcore look alarm her at all?
Maybe is is part of living in a small town without paranoia.
And as far as having a male over, the house is split into two parts it would be easy to put Sam in one half and her and her Mel in the other.
 
  • #733
Well.... I am convinced that you would do the same thing, I guess, Peace_gurl. I know that I would not.
 
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  • #735
Well.... I am convinced that you would do the same thing, I guess, Peace_gurl. I know that I would not.
Tapu, would you allow your children to listen to horrorcore?

I never had that problem, my girls are responsible and the only thing I would have to worry about is what jcrew outfit they wanted to save for next. Which dance or art school they wanted to attend. I was so busy in their lives I never had to doubt them. I was a lucky mom.
My girls are different than Em. Call my girls preppy.
 
  • #736
See thats the thing that I think DM is trying to point out is that these symbols that freemasons, secret societies etc use all have real actual meanings behind them and some of them are not so good but 99% of those who belong to these groups have no idea what those symbols mean, to them its just something they use to identify themselves with and distinguish themselves from others but to those of us who study these things and understand these symbols and whose eyes have been trained to recognize and read them, they are sometimes indentifying themselves with things that are not so good and distinguishing themselves as someone who may be more than what they appear to be.
Do you think that they mean that today? In the past maybe that is how it was taken but I assure you it does not mean that today. Do you think the commonwealth of Virginia would allow a state owned university to display symbols representing lynchings and cross burnings? Come on now people.
 
  • #737
Well.... I am convinced that you would do the same thing, I guess, Peace_gurl. I know that I would not.

Seriously.

I can't imagine why Dr. Kelly decided to OK that.
 
  • #738
See thats the thing that I think DM is trying to point out is that these symbols that freemasons, secret societies etc use all have real actual meanings behind them and some of them are not so good but 99% of those who belong to these groups have no idea what those symbols mean, to them its just something they use to identify themselves with and distinguish themselves from others but to those of us who study these things and understand these symbols and whose eyes have been trained to recognize and read them, they are sometimes indentifying themselves with things that are not so good and distinguishing themselves as someone who may be more than what they appear to be.

Signs and symbols only have the meanings that are assigned to them by convention. They do not exist in a world of their own where they have either significance or power. They exist as signs and symbols only by the implicit agreement of their users.

Take the word "cat" for instance. If any two of us, we all seem to be fluent in English, were to have a conversation about the fuzzy little pet that likes to push his way onto my lap while I'm at my computer, we could use the word "cat" to refer to him without any explanation or discussion of the word's meaning.

By convention, the word "cat" can refer to fuzzy little mammals of a particular type. We can modify it with any number of other words that are by convention allowable: "fuzzy cat", "my cat", "pain in the 🤬🤬🤬 cat", etc.. Those meanings exist because we have a complex structure of which they are a part which has evolved to allow us to communicate with one another.

That structure itself only exists through the active participation of a particular group of people acting together in a particular context, at a particular time. None of those things are fixed, and actually are constantly in flux but they are all more or less necessary for any mark, object, sound, or collection of any of those to be a symbol or a sign.

"Cat" as described above is actually two different things, because I wrote of a conversation. The set of marks use to write "cat" is itself associated with the sound we use in conversation to refer to that animal again by convention only. It is also flexible, since we would likely still recognize it even if spoken in any of the wide range of accents that participants on this forum might have. That sound pronounced køt or kat, according to my Apple dictionary, could also be associated with spellings such at khat or ghat and could refer to any number of other things depending as usual on where, when, and among whom it's being used. If we prepend another descriptor, like Hobie to cat, we refer to a sailboat.

"Cat" then, we can easily see means nothing on its own. It has no history, it has no baggage. The same is true for signs and symbols in general. The chief distinction between signs and symbols is that signs are entirely abstract while symbols have some sort of recognizable relationship to what they are used to symbolize. A stop sign is a sign because there is nothing other than convention that associates red octagons with stopping. Red can be a symbol of sacrifice, because sacrifice not uncommonly involves the spilling of blood, blood is red, and so on.

It is also clear that stop signs have nothing to do, unless we were to go through some complex rhetorical gymnastics (of course not unknown in these parts), with sacrifice. Red then can be seen to carry no universal symbolic meaning. The same is true of any other symbols. Their meaning only exists by agreement. If we don't agree, they don't mean anything and they can't accidentally or unintentionally have meaning either.
 
  • #739
Do you think that they mean that today? In the past maybe that is how it was taken but I assure you it does not mean that today. Do you think the commonwealth of Virginia would allow a state owned university to display symbols representing lynchings and cross burnings? Come on now people.

Of course they still mean that, does the crucifix around your neck change meaning with time. The symbols have a meaning, the same meaning they always had but generations have been dumbed down to it and have no idea what it means. The symbol of the US Senate for example is that of Fascism but nobody knows that anymore so it isnt an issue.

Note the fasces symbol at the bottom, same exact symbol used by Mussolini's Fascist Party. Still has the same meaning but since nobody studies such things or cares it goes unnoticed.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8qPXK8RKDI&feature=player_embedded
 
  • #740
Seriously.

I can't imagine why Dr. Kelly decided to OK that.

I can't imagine either. It sure wouldn't happen in my house either, male or female. And if a kid wanted to spend the night, i sure would have to know alot about that individual plus talk with the parents. No matter the age. That was a mighty big risk to allow a 20 year old to fly across country to be with Emma! And to have him stay in the same house, no matter how big it is. Its open for alot of possibilities. I consider this a major risk factor. IMHO
 
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