My feelings as well.My guess is the only reason that they are investigating this or "fishing" for more "victims" was that this was a cop's wife... end of story.
Honestly, when the lady called the police they could have quickly looked him up to see if he had any prior incidents similar to this. If none came up then they simply could have visited him, let him know what happened, and IF it happened ever again there would be severe consequences.
This really could have been a whole lot easier. But, I have a feeling that the reputation of a police officer's wife is on the line, and that is fueling this witch hunt.
His roommates told LE that he was drunk that morning and running around naked in a hard hat.
Which, IMO, sounds more like someone who was letting off a little steam after getting fired from his job, and less like someone looking to expose himself to children. But, again, just MHO.
IMO, the fact that he didn't know what time the woman alleges she spied him only reinforces his story that he didn't know anyone saw him. Personally, I think it's odd behavior to see someone naked in their own home and then keep looking from different vantage points even!
Which, IMO, sounds more like someone who was letting off a little steam after getting fired from his job, and less like someone looking to expose himself to children. But, again, just MHO.
Does it make a difference if he says he didn't know anyone saw him? He was standing in an open doorway, facing a walking path, in the nude in broad daylight, as children were approaching their bus stop. (Remember, earlier he had said this standing in the doorway happened in the dark, at 5:30AM--if he'd fudge the truth about that, doesn't that give the possibility that he will fudge about whether or not he knew he was seen?) He surely knew his behavior ALLOWED for his body to be on public display. The home is not in an isolated area.
It sounds to me like he wasn't fudging the truth, he just didn't know when he had been seen. So far, it seems that he's been pretty honest because he admitted to walking around naked for several hours, when he could have lied and said he'd already dressed when the woman says she saw him. (His roommates had left three hours earlier.)
I have more of a problem with a passerby walking around a house and peering in windows in order to take offense at what the homeowner is doing. And I don't think that seeing a grown man naked (minus lewd behavior) will traumatize a boy. If that were the case then all men's bathrooms, dressing rooms and locker rooms should be off limit to male children. (Actually I do have a problem with women who bring their sons into women's dressing rooms but that's a whole 'nother issue. Maybe I should call the cops on them but it probably wouldn't do any good since I'm not a cop's wife.)
I also have a problem with sending five officers to arrest one naked man in his own home. Was that really necessary? Add the fact that they are trying to pin more on this guy and it really seems to me to be an effort to defend the eagerly offended cop's wife.
I do it all the time...But I know I m not directly facing other windows or passersby....And I would hope someone is not out there with binoculars. LOL I think a person should however consider if they can be seen or not. BUT, but, But...This is at 5:30 AM - at that ungodly hour most people are still home.I was more outraged about this story before I read that the woman and boy were walking by his front window, which, as you can see by the picture in this article, is practically a picture window. Being naked in your own home is one thing; being naked in front of your front window with the curtains open and the light on when it's dark outside is something different. He'd have to be an idiot to not know he could be seen from the street.
Picture of him (clothed) in the window-- http://www.wtkr.com/news/wtkr-naked-kitchen,0,7977988.story
(Actually I do have a problem with women who bring their sons into women's dressing rooms but that's a whole 'nother issue. Maybe I should call the cops on them… but it probably wouldn't do any good since I'm not a cop's wife.)
I just know that children get exposed daily by perverts who get off on flashing themselves. It's a frequent thing and it is traumatic. I think we should take everything with a grain of salt that this man tells the press. We weren't there and there is absolutely no proof anybody burst into his bedroom and we don't know if he was even making coffee as he claims. Who really knows? I certaintly don't. Let the investigation continue and ask yourself, what if this was your child?
If the story is that she was trespassing at 5:30 or what ever time, I would not teach my child to transpass someones property and then call LE/hubby.I just know that children get exposed daily by perverts who get off on flashing themselves. It's a frequent thing and it is traumatic. I think we should take everything with a grain of salt that this man tells the press. We weren't there and there is absolutely no proof anybody burst into his bedroom and we don't know if he was even making coffee as he claims. Who really knows? I certainly don't. Let the investigation continue and ask yourself, what if this was your child?
Does it make a difference if he says he didn't know anyone saw him? He was standing in an open doorway, facing a walking path, in the nude in broad daylight, as children were approaching their bus stop. (Remember, earlier he had said this standing in the doorway happened in the dark, at 5:30AM--if he'd fudge the truth about that, doesn't that give the possibility that he will fudge about whether or not he knew he was seen?) He surely knew his behavior ALLOWED for his body to be on public display. The home is not in an isolated area.
Respectfully snipped...
As a mother to 3 boys, I must interject. When my boys were very little, I often took them into public womens restrooms AND dressing rooms with me. I didn't ALWAYS take them into the public restrooms with me...that occurred only after I saw or read a news story about a little boy being murdered in a public male restroom while his mother waited directly outside the door. The killer walked in after her son, and the mother politely waited outside the door for her little boy. He was murdered in a span of less than 2 minutes. She watched the killer walk out (who, by the way, "looked" like an average male) and the killer actually SMILED at her as he walked out the door. Being polite, she smiled back. Less than a minute later, she cracked the door open just enough to call his name. When she got no answer, she walked inside, loudly proclaiming that she was entering in case anyone else was in there. Her little boys body was in a crumpled heap on the floor. His throat was slit so bad that he was almost beheaded.
Immediately upon reading that, I forever changed my views and actions when it came to public restrooms/dressing rooms when my boys were very little. They ALWAYS came in with me, and you know what? I would say that 99.9% of the women were TOTALLY FINE with it....they were mothers as well, most likely. In fact, the one and only time that I got any flack about it came from a woman who not only never had any little boys of her own, but she was childless and as such, did not have the comprehension of feeling the innate "mother lioness protecting her cubs" feeling that mothers do. Mind you, I allowed her to go on her little tirade about how she was soooo uncomfortable (and UPTIGHT about naked bodies...for shame!) but completely dismissed her as someone whose opinion was irrelevant and needed to get over herself.
It is sooo cliche to say this, but it truly DOES take a village....our children are our future. We must protect them. It is no longer safe to allow our very young boys to go into public restrooms by themselves. When I have grandbabies and if they are boys, I will continue the same practice with them. Now that my boys are older and go to public restrooms by themselves, I often see other young Moms bringing their boys into the ladies bathroom and/or dressing room. My immediate reaction is that they are lucky to have such a diligent, caring mother.
Done with the off-topic rant. Carry on, LOL.
Edited to add: It will be a great day when people can finally stop being so ridiculously uptight about nudeness!
If the story is that she was trespassing at 5:30 or what ever time, I would not teach my child to transpose someones property and then call LE/hubby.
If the story is that he stood there in broad daylight where children often pass by on the way to school bus because he was drunk, I would put my hand over my kids eyes.
WE don't have one straight story at all....
If the guy stood naked because he always does knowing kids pass by at that time. just lock the sob up.