VA - Justin Eberhart, 38, Portsmouth, 19 Oct 2008

[julie79]

Have Justin's parents spoken with LE yet? If so, are they telling them anything at all? Have they gone and talked to Justin's neighbors? That is something I would do myself so I could hear what they have to say with my own ears. Did someone say the parents hired a PI? So many questions I know.

I just hope LE isn't just shuffling this case back and forth on their desks but that they are working on it trying to get at the truth or waiting for the ME's report to come in.[/QUOTE]

LE has spoken with the family but they never tell them anything. The day of the vigil which was 1 month after the murder, the detectives were going around to the neighbors asking what they saw. I happened to be at Justin's house getting some stuff ready for later that night and they came up to me and finally asked me to come to the station and be interviewed. My interview was odd, they asked if I had a life insurance policy on Justin (not whether the girlfriend did) the questions were all about Justin and not about the gf or anyone else that was there. I flat out asked him why the shooter wasn't in jail and all he told me was that on the night Justin was shot the shooter felt a significant threat to his life. Nobody is disputing the fact that Justin was unarmed! They also said something about Justin having martial arts training. That is total BS!!! I even laughed out loud when he said that. Justin has never taken a martial arts class in his life. I hope they are not trying to make it seem like the shooter felt threatened by Justin because he struck a karate pose!! To answer someone else's question about the size of the town, no it is a large town, lots of TV stations but the media is scared of LE.

 

[lizzybeth]

Maybe I misunderstood but didn't you say Justin was half in and half out of the car? Would that mean that he approached the car when they were leaving?

I'm having a really difficult time picturing what may have happened.

I think I'm going to try and email MaryKay Mallonee today. She's good at reporting on things that most seem afraid to.

 

[julie79]

Maybe I misunderstood but didn't you say Justin was half in and half out of the car? Would that mean that he approached the car when they were leaving?

I'm having a really difficult time picturing what may have happened.

I think I'm going to try and email MaryKay Mallonee today. She's good at reporting on things that most seem afraid to.

Yes I did say that but I was wrong. The lady that saw him said he was half in half out of the yard not car. Like I was saying the neighborhood doesn't have sidewalks so the street goes right up to the yard. What we have heard is that the gf ran out to the car, she got in and closed the door. Justin came out to see what was going on and approached the area where the car was and the shooter stepped out of the car and shot him twice. That's the story the gf told me.

 

[Bobbisangel]

Yes I did say that but I was wrong. The lady that saw him said he was half in half out of the yard not car. Like I was saying the neighborhood doesn't have sidewalks so the street goes right up to the yard. What we have heard is that the gf ran out to the car, she got in and closed the door. Justin came out to see what was going on and approached the area where the car was and the shooter stepped out of the car and shot him twice. That's the story the gf told me.

I hope that is the story that the girlfriend told to LE too. It sounds to me like LE is trying to justify the murder! Why are they so gung ho on trying not to arrest the killer? Is he related to someone in LE? Or in the political realm in the town? If the girlfriend told LE the same thing that she told you then there is no question concerning what happened.

There are things that LE can share with the family and certain things that they won't but there is no reason that they can't tell them where they are at in the investigation and what they have done so far. I sure don't understand them waiting a month to talk to the neighbors.

In asking you about a life insurance policy were they suggesting that you may have had something to do with the murder??? That is crazy if that is what they were fishing for.

I wonder if they have even questioned anyone about the killer threatening Justin before the murder took place. To me this case is so obvious. I don't see how the killer could have felt threatened. He was the one with the gun in his hand. I would really like to know just what the girlfriend said on the phone when she called for the bunch to come and get her.

Have the parents hired a PI?

 

[julie79]

I hope that is the story that the girlfriend told to LE too. It sounds to me like LE is trying to justify the murder! Why are they so gung ho on trying not to arrest the killer? Is he related to someone in LE? Or in the political realm in the town? If the girlfriend told LE the same thing that she told you then there is no question concerning what happened.

There are things that LE can share with the family and certain things that they won't but there is no reason that they can't tell them where they are at in the investigation and what they have done so far. I sure don't understand them waiting a month to talk to the neighbors.

In asking you about a life insurance policy were they suggesting that you may have had something to do with the murder??? That is crazy if that is what they were fishing for.

I wonder if they have even questioned anyone about the killer threatening Justin before the murder took place. To me this case is so obvious. I don't see how the killer could have felt threatened. He was the one with the gun in his hand. I would really like to know just what the girlfriend said on the phone when she called for the bunch to come and get her.

Have the parents hired a PI?

I have no idea why they asked me about a life insurance policy. I wasn't even anywhere near his house when he was killed, and no there was no policy. I was pretty upset when they asked me that. As far as LE has told me they didn't even know about the threat to Justin's life until his dad and I told them. They kind of dismissed it as not really that important. Yes the parents have hired PIs in GA and VA. More is coming to light and hopefully there will be someone in jail for at least manslaughter if not murder!!

 

[Georgia PI]

While looking for updates I ran across this, just for info.


New Interim Chief of Police named

October 7, 2008 by PPD Web Admin · Comments Off
The City of Portsmouth has named Assistant Chief Harry “Skip” Fremd as interim Chief of Police.

Chief Fremd will take over the 350 person Police Department on October 8th upon the resignation of current Interim Chief William Corvello.





Portsmouth Police Officer Charged with Rape
October 1, 2008 by PPD Web Admin ·


UPDATE 10-1-08

October 1, 2008-Officer Paul Alonzo Ewing has been suspended without pay pending the conclusion of the Portsmouth Police Department investigation and the outcome of the trial.

OFFICER CHARGED WITH RAPE

Portsmouth-At approximately 9:00 p.m. today, Portsmouth Police Officer Paul Alonzo Ewing was taken into custody and subsequently charged with one count of Rape of a 16-year-old juvenile.

Officer Ewing was hired on November 1, 2004 and has been relieved of his duties

 

[angelwngs]

Thanks, Ga PI. Wow, the published conficts within the Portsmouth PD just keep getting larger and larger, don't they?

 

[Bobbisangel]

I have no idea why they asked me about a life insurance policy. I wasn't even anywhere near his house when he was killed, and no there was no policy. I was pretty upset when they asked me that. As far as LE has told me they didn't even know about the threat to Justin's life until his dad and I told them. They kind of dismissed it as not really that important. Yes the parents have hired PIs in GA and VA. More is coming to light and hopefully there will be someone in jail for at least manslaughter if not murder!!

To me the fact that the killer had threatened Justin not long before the murder says a lot. I'm glad that the family were able to hire two PI's. Maybe they can get to the bottom of this. Someone has to help this family out and also see that the killer is put behind bars and that Justin receives justice.

It sounds like this LE is just blowing everything off where Justin's case is concerned. That really bothers me. I was so fortunate when my daughter was murdered. I had a LE and a lead detective that really cared about me and my 4 yr old granddaughter. We knew pretty much what was happening in trying to find the killer who was on the run. It took 8 years to catch him and I was always involved with LE throughout that whole time. I don't know what I would have done if I had been treated like Justin's family is being treated. I doubt if I would have taken that kind of treatment. I'm pretty outspoken and would have caused quite a fuss I'm sure. In my book what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong and it is wrong to shut parents out when their child has been murdered. To me it is all about control when LE won't tell parents anything. I wish everyone could be as fortunate as I was but I know that is not the case a lot of the time. I think of Justin's parents often and the nightmare they are living through.

 

[jeepgirlva]

This breaks my heart ...I am so glad his parents are investigating this case ...I live in Portsmouth and was wondering what is the shooter's name? ... this man,father son,brother solider deserves better...

 

[RiverRat]

To me the fact that the killer had threatened Justin not long before the murder says a lot. I'm glad that the family were able to hire two PI's. Maybe they can get to the bottom of this. Someone has to help this family out and also see that the killer is put behind bars and that Justin receives justice.

It sounds like this LE is just blowing everything off where Justin's case is concerned. That really bothers me. I was so fortunate when my daughter was murdered. I had a LE and a lead detective that really cared about me and my 4 yr old granddaughter. We knew pretty much what was happening in trying to find the killer who was on the run. It took 8 years to catch him and I was always involved with LE throughout that whole time. I don't know what I would have done if I had been treated like Justin's family is being treated. I doubt if I would have taken that kind of treatment. I'm pretty outspoken and would have caused quite a fuss I'm sure. In my book what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong and it is wrong to shut parents out when their child has been murdered. To me it is all about control when LE won't tell parents anything. I wish everyone could be as fortunate as I was but I know that is not the case a lot of the time. I think of Justin's parents often and the nightmare they are living through.

:hug:
RR

 

[p-town]

Hello all,
I have forwarded e-mails to the Va pilot, WVEC , and Wavy. I e-mailed every e-mail address posted to the sites. Have not heard any thing back of course. If I do I will contact Justin's Dad.

 

[julie79]

Not much has changed since the last post. No new info yet but we are waiting on the autopsy report to go to the one person in LE that is listening to Justin's parents. I figured this would be a good place to ask if there are any books for small children that I could get for my daughter to help her through all this. I don't know if any of you have small children who have been through the loss of a parent but any help would be greatly appreciated. She has so many questions and is just so sad sometimes and is always saying how much she misses her daddy. I just don't know how to respond to some of her questions like "Why can't we get in the car and drive to heaven to see daddy, just for a minute?" It just breaks my heart and I want to do what's best for her. She is having an especially hard time since it's Christmas. She wants to know why Santa can't put Justin in his bag and leave him under the tree for her. Again, any help with books or anything else that might help me to help her would be wonderful. Thanks in advance!

 

[believe09]

Not much has changed since the last post. No new info yet but we are waiting on the autopsy report to go to the one person in LE that is listening to Justin's parents. I figured this would be a good place to ask if there are any books for small children that I could get for my daughter to help her through all this. I don't know if any of you have small children who have been through the loss of a parent but any help would be greatly appreciated. She has so many questions and is just so sad sometimes and is always saying how much she misses her daddy. I just don't know how to respond to some of her questions like "Why can't we get in the car and drive to heaven to see daddy, just for a minute?" It just breaks my heart and I want to do what's best for her. She is having an especially hard time since it's Christmas. She wants to know why Santa can't put Justin in his bag and leave him under the tree for her. Again, any help with books or anything else that might help me to help her would be wonderful. Thanks in advance!

Here is a list of some available on Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Gentle-Books-Children-Dealing-Grief/lm/KC8JRF33CG21

 

[MissieMt]

Hi julie79. I have never personally read any childrens books about death, but I did google and found some info.
http://www.barrharris.org/barbooks.html

http://browse.barnesandnoble.com/browse/nav.asp?visgrp=children's&N=1025461&Ne=700108+701470+1025461

I hope these help. Wow...I can not even begin to imagine what it must feel like to have to try to explain this to a child.

 

[Bobbisangel]

Not much has changed since the last post. No new info yet but we are waiting on the autopsy report to go to the one person in LE that is listening to Justin's parents. I figured this would be a good place to ask if there are any books for small children that I could get for my daughter to help her through all this. I don't know if any of you have small children who have been through the loss of a parent but any help would be greatly appreciated. She has so many questions and is just so sad sometimes and is always saying how much she misses her daddy. I just don't know how to respond to some of her questions like "Why can't we get in the car and drive to heaven to see daddy, just for a minute?" It just breaks my heart and I want to do what's best for her. She is having an especially hard time since it's Christmas. She wants to know why Santa can't put Justin in his bag and leave him under the tree for her. Again, any help with books or anything else that might help me to help her would be wonderful. Thanks in advance!

My daughter was murdered by her ex when their daughter was nearly 5 yrs. She was already in therapy due to the violence in the marriage and she stayed in therapy for years. It made a major difference in her life. Her therapist helped her process all that had happened plus she gave her books about the death of a parent. I hope your little girl is seeing a therapist because it does make such a difference. I can't recommend it strongly enough. They need someone to work with them that isn't emotionally involved in the death. They do a lot of play therapy and my granddaughter enjoyed it and looked forward to her sessions. A therapist could also recommend some books that are age appropriate for your little girl. There is an organization that will pay for the child's therapy for as long as it takes. Something to do with Crime Victims but I can't remember the whole name. The Pros's office could tell you though. I think it is called Crime Victim's Compensation.

I know just what you are going through as I raised my granddaughter. They don't understand what has gone on and why they can't see their parent. I think they understand heaven but not like we do. It's hard too because you are grieving and so is the child. We tend to put their needs before our own and so often our grieving process gets set aside. My heart goes out to your little girl and to you too.

 

[lizzybeth]

Bobbisangel :blowkiss:

 

[maconrich]

Again, any help with books or anything else that might help me to help her would be wonderful. Thanks in advance!

Julie, I'm copy/pasting a post from a very kind and wise lady for you from another thread:

Originally Posted by SeriouslySearching
The children's book, Heaven Has A Floor, I recommend highly. This was given to my daughter when she lost her father and it was a tremendous help to her. She still has her copy and buys others for people who have children going through the experience of having lost a parent or loved one. http://www.amazon.com/Heaven-Has-Flo.../dp/0803737092

Prayers for you, your daughter and Justin's loved ones...

 

[julie79]

My daughter was murdered by her ex when their daughter was nearly 5 yrs. She was already in therapy due to the violence in the marriage and she stayed in therapy for years. It made a major difference in her life. Her therapist helped her process all that had happened plus she gave her books about the death of a parent. I hope your little girl is seeing a therapist because it does make such a difference. I can't recommend it strongly enough. They need someone to work with them that isn't emotionally involved in the death. They do a lot of play therapy and my granddaughter enjoyed it and looked forward to her sessions. A therapist could also recommend some books that are age appropriate for your little girl. There is an organization that will pay for the child's therapy for as long as it takes. Something to do with Crime Victims but I can't remember the whole name. The Pros's office could tell you though. I think it is called Crime Victim's Compensation.

I know just what you are going through as I raised my granddaughter. They don't understand what has gone on and why they can't see their parent. I think they understand heaven but not like we do. It's hard too because you are grieving and so is the child. We tend to put their needs before our own and so often our grieving process gets set aside. My heart goes out to your little girl and to you too.

Thank you so much. It's so good to hear from people that have been through the same kind of situation. She is in therapy, she's only been to 1 session so far but she played and had a good time. Thanks for the info about the Victim's Compensation! We have insurance but they don't cover mental health stuff at all! Thanks again for all the info, it helps so much.

 

[julie79]

Julie, I'm copy/pasting a post from a very kind and wise lady for you from another thread:



Prayers for you, your daughter and Justin's loved ones...

Thanks so much. I heard from some other people that this was a great book, I think I'm going to order it today for her.

 

[julie79]

I just wanted to thank everyone on this board who has been so supportive and knowledgable. I will make sure to keep you all updated as any new information comes in or if the killer is ever arrested. I hope all of you have a wonderful Christmas and my family will be thinking of all of your loved ones who have been lost or are missing.