VA VA - Kelly Catalano, 40, Chesterfield, 15 Jan 2010 - #1

[nerosleuth]

The place where Kelly was employed at, do they have temporary employees working there?

Does the workplace have certain periods where they are busy and require the use of temps from a temporary employment agency to meet their production schedule?

 

[nursebeeme]

how did Kelly get to VA? Did she move there with a friend/boyfriend? Did she go to college there? Is there any family there?

How long has she lived in Virginia?

 

[Shutterfly]

Let's try this....

~HYPOTHETICALLY~trying to make it all fit.....

Having NO IDEA where Kelly is, how would this mystery person be sure they could get into Kelly's house overnight on Jan 15th or the morning of Jan 16th to leave the doors wide open without Kelly herself popping up? How would he know she didn't just take off and whether or not she'd just choose that moment to come home? The only way you'd know that is if you knew what happened to her and that she wasn't coming back. And he would have to know that LE wasn't coming back at that time...or family. And wouldn't it stand to reason he would go in through the back to avoid detection? I see french doors on the rear of Kelly's house on Google. If so, he would have to know the back of that house and the back yard.


I think he lives in her neighborhood and is close enough to have an unobstructed view of her property from his. The only thing random, in my opinion, was the end result. I think he was sitting there outside BluePrint. I think he did that a lot. Maybe she knew him in passing, assuming that he worked at BluePrint or nearby, because she saw him outside so frequently. I'm guessing that perhaps he was waiting for her next break? Not to take her, but just to observe her, expecting her to be with other employees for her walk. But this time she came out alone.

Why do you drop the gloves and the goggles on the ground at BluePrint after the fact? I'd imagine that first, they were an oversight and got left in his car. Second, I would think he could have dropped them there to add to speculation that Kelly never left the area. He wouldn't draw attention to himself by searching. He's just a concerned neighbor.

I don't know why Kelly left the building the way she did. Who knows...it's flu season, maybe she wasn't feeling well and needed air? Maybe she ate or drank something that didn't go down right? Too much coffee? Early onset menopause, frustration, boredom, there could be a million reasons.

I think he would have to be parked at or near the dead end. If so, and he somehow managed to bait her over, all he would have to do was get her on the opposite side of a large vehicle. Then she's out of sight of the building. I think it's highly likely that a vehicle could be parked there at the dead end and no one noticed it, especially if it had been there so often it was just part of the scenery.

This isn't someone walking a deserted country road. This is a dead end with only one way in or out unless you're in a boat. One random thing had to set all of this in motion and for that to happen, the rest of it had to already be in place before she darted out the door at a time other than her usual.

He was already there.....waiting....... he just had to be

***ETA....I say "he" and that's only out of habit...

 

[beachlvr0810]

Family is still searching as are detectives. Also today my cousin as I went out at 6 am this morning in our area posting flyers all over I 79 and I 90 and passing to truckers from all different states today we put out well over 150 flyers. We also did the same thing yesterday with my sister go I 79 opposite was as wekll as I 80. I', praying we are going to get this well circulated with her picture. Also there is another person out there that is stating that they are a acting psychic on this case. They have not posted on this sight but they are on another site, however they are fake. They say they have all this info on My Aunt and keep reposting their sight when indeed they have nothing nor are they working on this case thus the reason they keep reposting their link. So when word gets around just beware its FALSE! My family did a media free search the other day as the media keeps wanted to throw stuff out there that is not truth! Please everyone keep this going and do not let this thread die. I will keep updating but now I am busy in the community as I have several post on the computer and now I need to start getting pictures out. So don't think I will not be back as I am doing everything I can to help my aunt out. Until we find her and I tell this sight and blog that she was found I will continue posting. It just takes me a while to read everything when I have not been on all day long to follow it. Everyone please keep asking people to post and do a google search on her name kelly diane catalano Chest, VA for the pages and posting I have made Digg, twitter, you tube, myspace, and facebook.

Jamie, we're not going to stop posting. I got the email from Britni with the flier attachment. I'm going to print them off and get them out in the Roanoke area. We are still praying for her and for you all and I'm keeping up with you on facebook and posting about her there. Stay strong, honey.

 

[beachlvr0810]

I just wanted to say something about the suicide notion. I don't know Kelly but a very close friend and co-worker of mine committed suicide last year and there is a difference between my friend and what I'm hearing about Kelly. My friend had been really down a few days before her death. She had gotten laid off from her job two days before her death and was dealing with an abusive boyfriend. She had told me 4 days before she died that she was leaving the boyfriend. I had texted her the evening she died and her brother told me that my text probably came through just as she was committing suicide but she was probably too groggy to read it. She drove to a deserted part of town and took pills. It drove me crazy for a long time to know that maybe if I had sent the text a little bit earlier, then my friend would still be alive. From what I'm reading about Kelly she was NOT in the same frame of mind or situation as my friend. I have never heard of someone who has so much good going on in their lives as Kelly did ever committing suicide. There were warning signs with my friend, and I tried all I could to help her. And as someone else said earlier, sometimes we don't tell our families everything that's going on with us. When I talked to my friend's brother, he had no idea that her boyfriend was abusing her. He had just had breakfast with her the weekend before she died and she acted like everything was ok. She had confided in me because she knew the abuse I went through. To Kelly's family, I am praying for her and for you. Stay strong and stay focused.

 

[carbuff]

I've been suicidally depressed in a situation where from the outside it would have looked like I had no reason at all to be suicidal. So on top of everything else I had the guilt and shame of not being grateful for the good life I had. I felt far too guilty to let anybody else have even a hint of what I was thinking. That of course isolated me even more from the people I cared most about. It was too painful to be around them so I started to avoid them. That added to the guilt -- obviously I was the scum of the earth if I could even consider treating the people I claimed to love like that. I seriously considered just walking out with nothing, going somewhere else where my illness wouldn't destroy my kids' lives.

Et cetera.

I'm not saying Kelly was or wasn't suicidal when she disappeared. I'm not trying to diagnose somebody on the evidence in some forum posts. But depression is an insidious nasty illness. It robs you of your ability to feel pleasure and it warps your perception of reality. If she was that depressed, the people closest to her would have been the ones least likely to notice. If she was depressed, she isn't to blame -- she was ill.

Again, I'm not saying whether she was or wasn't. But it's sure not impossible. Either way, my heart goes out to her family.

 

[Soulmagent]

Let's try this....

~HYPOTHETICALLY~trying to make it all fit.....

Having NO IDEA where Kelly is, how would this mystery person be sure they could get into Kelly's house overnight on Jan 15th or the morning of Jan 16th to leave the doors wide open without Kelly herself popping up? How would he know she didn't just take off and whether or not she'd just choose that moment to come home? The only way you'd know that is if you knew what happened to her and that she wasn't coming back. And he would have to know that LE wasn't coming back at that time...or family. And wouldn't it stand to reason he would go in through the back to avoid detection? I see french doors on the rear of Kelly's house on Google. If so, he would have to know the back of that house and the back yard.


I think he lives in her neighborhood and is close enough to have an unobstructed view of her property from his. The only thing random, in my opinion, was the end result. I think he was sitting there outside BluePrint. I think he did that a lot. Maybe she knew him in passing, assuming that he worked at BluePrint or nearby, because she saw him outside so frequently. I'm guessing that perhaps he was waiting for her next break? Not to take her, but just to observe her, expecting her to be with other employees for her walk. But this time she came out alone.

Why do you drop the gloves and the goggles on the ground at BluePrint after the fact? I'd imagine that first, they were an oversight and got left in his car. Second, I would think he could have dropped them there to add to speculation that Kelly never left the area. He wouldn't draw attention to himself by searching. He's just a concerned neighbor.

I don't know why Kelly left the building the way she did. Who knows...it's flu season, maybe she wasn't feeling well and needed air? Maybe she ate or drank something that didn't go down right? Too much coffee? Early onset menopause, frustration, boredom, there could be a million reasons.

I think he would have to be parked at or near the dead end. If so, and he somehow managed to bait her over, all he would have to do was get her on the opposite side of a large vehicle. Then she's out of sight of the building. I think it's highly likely that a vehicle could be parked there at the dead end and no one noticed it, especially if it had been there so often it was just part of the scenery.

This isn't someone walking a deserted country road. This is a dead end with only one way in or out unless you're in a boat. One random thing had to set all of this in motion and for that to happen, the rest of it had to already be in place before she darted out the door at a time other than her usual.

He was already there.....waiting....... he just had to be

***ETA....I say "he" and that's only out of habit...

And how far by boat could one travel from there? I looked at boating launches yesterday and think that is a very interesting anglehttp://richmondgoodlife.com/richmond_boat_ramps.htm

 

[JulieR]

And how far by boat could one travel from there? I looked at boating launches yesterday and think that is a very interesting anglehttp://richmondgoodlife.com/richmond_boat_ramps.htm

Wow I never thought of that......good one!!

 

[joseph d]

And how far by boat could one travel from there? I looked at boating launches yesterday and think that is a very interesting anglehttp://richmondgoodlife.com/richmond_boat_ramps.htm

really far. out to the bay if you wanted to. i doubt that a boat was involved

 

[JulieR]

Joseph, are you hearing anything in the progress of finding Kelly? Do you think the LE are checking other areas?

 

[Shutterfly]

According to Chesterfield County property records, Kelly purchased her home on August 24, 2006. When she did so, there were two names reflected on the deed, Kelly's and another young woman her age. May 8th, 2009 Kelly removed this young woman's name from the deed. What does it mean in regard to Kelly's disappearance, perhaps nothing. But it's a fact, and I elected to bring it to your attention for that reason.

search assessments tab..you'll need the address

http://www.chesterfield.gov/eServices/RealEstateAssessments/RealEstate.aspx

 

[JulieR]

According to Chesterfield County property records, Kelly purchased her home on August 24, 2006. When she did so, there were two names reflected on the deed, Kelly's and another young woman her age. May 8th, 2009 Kelly removed this young woman's name from the deed. What does it mean in regard to Kelly's disappearance, perhaps nothing. But it's a fact, and I elected to bring it to your attention for that reason.

search assessments tab..you'll need the address

http://www.chesterfield.gov/eServices/RealEstateAssessments/RealEstate.aspx

Well that could explain someone coming in and moving things around, if this girl still had a key.

 

[MBLover]

Well that could explain someone coming in and moving things around, if this girl still had a key.

Most definitely.

And all this supposed talk about the afterlife...could have possibly come from a threat to her life...

 

[Knox]

I wonder if Kelly had a relationship with this person and it may have ended badly? Since we have little else to go on at this point, I think this needs to be looked at. The two were both in North Carolina at one point in time, then looks like there was a move to Virginia.

 

[Jenbear]

I knew Kelly. I hadn't seen her in about a year but I knew the breakup was going bad. I could NEVER, and I mean EVER wrap my head around her committing suicide. I personally have had my mother and my brother both commit suicide so I definately can read a suicidal person.
Kelly is out there, somewhere. I attend a local community college and have classes on 2 separate campuses on 2 different sides of Richmond. I will be posting flyers there tomorrow as well as several local business in between. I have everyone I know spreading the word on facebook and myspace....to Kelly's family, we will find her! I would love to help in any searches on the weekends (I have to go to classes everyday during the week) I pray everyday for all of you to have strength through this and Kelly to remain strong. If there is any other way that I can help, cook a meal for the family that is in town, run an errand, whatever I will be glad to help. Sending my families well wishes and thoughts of strength.

 

[Knox]

Jenbear I am so sorry to hear about your Mom and Brother and thank you for sharing your thoughts on Kelly. I don't think anyone here feels Kelly committed suicide, just doesn't feel right. Hopefully her family will get some answers soon and LE is looking very hard at other possibilities in her disappearance. The no sign of foul play statement go's over like a lead balloon with me ...

 

[joseph d]

i have heard nothing in the past 2 days. nothing on the news and so on. i am wondering now abouth the other women on the deed to the house. i wonder if her family knew about her. i would definetly look into her. and was there a relationship between the two?? doesent she also rent a house out too. i would look into the tenants there just to ask questions and see about conversations with kelly. they need to look at all angles now. 2 weeks is a long time to be missing. i would like to start my own investigation with her family if that was in the cards. my wife and i know the area well and know some people in high places. i mean right now there is nothing to lose. just alot of things to gain. this family needs kelly back and if not they sure do at least deserve closure. at any cost. just my.02

 

[seekingjustice**]

I knew Kelly. I hadn't seen her in about a year but I knew the breakup was going bad. I could NEVER, and I mean EVER wrap my head around her committing suicide. I personally have had my mother and my brother both commit suicide so I definately can read a suicidal person.
Kelly is out there, somewhere. I attend a local community college and have classes on 2 separate campuses on 2 different sides of Richmond. I will be posting flyers there tomorrow as well as several local business in between. I have everyone I know spreading the word on facebook and myspace....to Kelly's family, we will find her! I would love to help in any searches on the weekends (I have to go to classes everyday during the week) I pray everyday for all of you to have strength through this and Kelly to remain strong. If there is any other way that I can help, cook a meal for the family that is in town, run an errand, whatever I will be glad to help. Sending my families well wishes and thoughts of strength.

Jenbear, could you elaborate more on who this breakup was with?

I am wondering if it was with the young lady that was on the deed.

 

[joseph d]

Jenbear, could you elaborate more on who this breakup was with?

I am wondering if it was with the young lady that was on the deed.

im wiling to bet my life it was. i found some interesting stuff tonight. and i am going to the spot the pshycic says she is. funny thing is, the leo's showed me where they searched and the place she says kelly is at has never been searched to my knowledge. if i or anyone with me find her, i will change the way i think about people from now on.

 

[Juliamour]

I've been lurking on WS for a few years and have been following this thread since the first few posts. I think Kelly has been on my mind because I know what it is like to be stalked. My friends used to call me a stalker magnet. Never anyone dangerous just really annoying and creepy sometimes.
Also the whole doors being wide open and items being found after the area was searched is so weird. When my roommates moved out of my house I never got keys back until several months later. It was annoying but I didn't care one way or another. So I wonder if that is how a copy of a key could have been obtained?


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