VA VA - Kelly Catalano, 40, Chesterfield, 15 Jan 2010 - #1

[truthsleuth]

Here's the whole block truthsleuth...

Blueprint is at the top, right of the screen just outside the pic

So what appears to be almost directly dead center in this map photo is where the psychic claims Kelly is. And it is where joseph d. said he might search next. We'll see what happens.

Thank you once again. Did I mention how I think you are AMAZING??!

 

[Knox]

I am still unclear about a couple of things. Did anyone in the lobby area see Kelly walk past? If a car had pulled into that area and she left in that car would security cameras have picked that up? Getting her from point A (blueprint) to point B (the area psychic describes) is driving me crazy.

 

[Knox]

Provided by beltingitout

 

[ConcernedinVA]

Here are some corrections to some of the postings (too many to quote and/or tag):

1) I have not had any contact with Kelly since August of 2009.

2) As far as not searching for her, that was my decision. It was hard enough for me to deal with the fliers, driving to her workplace and seeing her coworkers. Maybe according to you all, I should have gone out into the woods to look for her. I offered my help, her family didn't want it.

3) Kelly and my niece carved up a deer in the kitchen of the house you saw on the news. I was not at home at the time, but they both told me about it on the telephone. I asked them both to please clean it up before I got home.

4) I ended the relationship with Kelly.

5) I do not have any life insurance policies on Kelly, nor should she have any on me.

6) I cannot vouch whether or not Kelly had or did not have a motorcycle. As previously stated, as of August 2009, she did not have one, but she did rent one for her 40th birthday.

7) The police informed me that the doors were unlocked only, not left open. As I stated, when Kelly and I lived together, she would often leave doors unlocked and sometimes candles burning after she left the house for the day. In fact, when I came over to pet sit, while Kelly was out of town (sometime earlier last year) Kelly had left the garage door completely open. When I called to inform her, she laughed and said, "oh well!"

8) I honestly thought that the information I provided here would be helpful, but now realize I should have simply reported the person who posted my name on the site, and moved on from there. I guess I was needing to feel helpful in some small and insignificant way.

 

[beltingitout]

thanks Knox!! greatly appreciated!

 

[beltingitout]

We are just trying to get answers into where Kelly is and bouncing around ideas and questions. Sorry if that hits you in the wrong spot but all things should be looked at logically and even you should know that.

 

[beltingitout]

We are just trying to get answers into where Kelly is and bouncing around ideas and questions. Sorry if that hits you in the wrong spot but all things should be looked at logically and even you should know that.

Her neighbor says, "The front and back doors had both been left open and that's not like Kelly, she's always careful."

 

[ConcernedinVA]

We are just trying to get answers into where Kelly is and bouncing around ideas and questions. Sorry if that hits you in the wrong spot but all things should be looked at logically and even you should know that.

I just think you should be better informed before you post things. No one, and I mean no one knew Kelly better than I did. Good, bad and indifferent. And she could say the same about me. We spent almost 10 years together and she was EXTREMELY skilled at hiding negative emotions - hurt, embarrassment, insecurities, etc...it made open and honest communication very, very difficult. She is/was a very prideful person and would not have ever let on to anyone that she was still hurting over our split.

 

[ConcernedinVA]

Her neighbor says, "The front and back doors had both been left open and that's not like Kelly, she's always careful."

I spoke to my former neighbor directly, both on the phone and in person. She said it was what the police told her. The police have told me on two separate occasions that the doors were left unlocked only, not open.

 

[OneLostGrl]

Here are some corrections to some of the postings (too many to quote and/or tag):

1) I have not had any contact with Kelly since August of 2009.

2) As far as not searching for her, that was my decision. It was hard enough for me to deal with the fliers, driving to her workplace and seeing her coworkers. Maybe according to you all, I should have gone out into the woods to look for her. I offered my help, her family didn't want it.

3) Kelly and my niece carved up a deer in the kitchen of the house you saw on the news. I was not at home at the time, but they both told me about it on the telephone. I asked them both to please clean it up before I got home.

4) I ended the relationship with Kelly.

5) I do not have any life insurance policies on Kelly, nor should she have any on me.

6) I cannot vouch whether or not Kelly had or did not have a motorcycle. As previously stated, as of August 2009, she did not have one, but she did rent one for her 40th birthday.

7) The police informed me that the doors were unlocked only, not left open. As I stated, when Kelly and I lived together, she would often leave doors unlocked and sometimes candles burning after she left the house for the day. In fact, when I came over to pet sit, while Kelly was out of town (sometime earlier last year) Kelly had left the garage door completely open. When I called to inform her, she laughed and said, "oh well!"

8) I honestly thought that the information I provided here would be helpful, but now realize I should have simply reported the person who posted my name on the site, and moved on from there. I guess I was needing to feel helpful in some small and insignificant way.

I thank you very much for your posts and my heart goes out to you. I don't find anything sinister about your not "searching". I'm so sorry for what all of you who love her are going through, I will keep you in my thoughts.

I don't blame ya for being upset about your personal info being posted, it's the one aspect of WS that I am not too fond of. But "digging" like that really does help solve crimes. It's nothing personal.. it's out of respect and concern for the missing person- the more we (searchers, sleuthers, LE, etc) know the better the chances are she'll be found. I'd hate to see you leave, please don't feel like you should, I appreciate your posts and your willingness to answer our questions. :hug:

 

[beltingitout]

I just think you should be better informed before you post things. No one, and I mean no one knew Kelly better than I did. Good, bad and indifferent. And she could say the same about me. We spent almost 10 years together and she was EXTREMELY skilled at hiding negative emotions - hurt, embarrassment, insecurities, etc...it made open and honest communication very, very difficult. She is/was a very prideful person and would not have ever let on to anyone that she was still hurting over our split.

Call it what you will. I am not on here to argue but to help find Kelly. The points I have stated have been from talking to people that know you both. It's nothing made up. Again, I am not on here to argue and all that matters to me is that Kelly is found. Her family deserves that much. All areas have to be discussed and examined.

 

[OneLostGrl]

Her neighbor says, "The front and back doors had both been left open and that's not like Kelly, she's always careful."

Have you done the varification thing with Trica yet?

 

[beltingitout]

I spoke to my former neighbor directly, both on the phone and in person. She said it was what the police told her. The police have told me on two separate occasions that the doors were left unlocked only, not open.

blame the info on the media then because that's where it came from!

 

[beltingitout]

Have you done the varification thing with Trica yet?

yes as far as I know, all is good

 

[ConcernedinVA]

Call it what you will. I am not on here to argue but to help find Kelly. The points I have stated have been from talking to people that know you both. It's nothing made up. Again, I am not on here to argue and all that matters to me is that Kelly is found. Her family deserves that much. All areas have to be discussed and examined.

then again, check your sources and check your facts. I have not had any contact with Kelly since August 2009.

 

[PercyVeer]

Wow, coverup. Let us all work together, eh?

 

[imamaze]

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[beltingitout]

Wow, coverup. Let us all work together, eh?

I couldn't agree more. Let's bring Kelly home!

 

[MBLover]

Has the family hired a PI? If not, they need to IMHO.

 

[masha'allah]

8) I honestly thought that the information I provided here would be helpful, but now realize I should have simply reported the person who posted my name on the site, and moved on from there. I guess I was needing to feel helpful in some small and insignificant way.

I think the information you have given has been helpful and I am glad that you posted here. So many conflicting stories even in the media and I am sure that even the family is unsure about some of them. Her keys were with her, her keys were in her toolbox where she always kept them, her keys were in her locker along with her clothing.... even something as simple as where are/were her keys is a huge puzzle.

Do you know how her nephew could have "identified" her glasses? Do they put their name on them somehow? We are talking safety glasses or did she wear presciption glasses? If these were in an area that the police had already searched, was it dark when they began their search and they were easily overlooked?

Her cell phone... would she keep it on during working hours normally or was this a NO NO in her jobplace? Would it have been on silent so that no one would notice an incoming call?

Do you know the location of her machine? Or where it was at least when you two were together and/or talking still? Could she see out of a window? How many employees were right near her? Was it too loud for talking or could she have been heard if she said something important?

How did you first hear? Is your name still down as the person to call for emergency contacts? If so, what time did you receive the call and from whom? The company or the police? One report says the company called immediately and another says 4 hours later...

You had said in an earlier post that you took over a huge bag of catfood for the neighbor lady to use to feed the cats. Did you take it to the neighbor lady or did you drop it off at Kelly's house? Was there anyone around there? Just wondering if they are watching her house or just assuming it was only a jobplace incident. Did the neighbor lady speak to you about anyone else coming and going? If Kelly had asked her if someone had been around, does that mean the neighbor lady is always home/not working? Can she see the back or front door from her house?

Any answers you have would be great. Not trying to interrogate you but if you lived there and have known Kelly for so long, these might be best answered by you and they could clear up a lot of things that don't make much sense.