One other thing I was told - if the perp was Navy and pending a sexual assulat trial in a NAVY court he would typically have been restricted to base.
http://http://www.wavy.com/global/story.asp?s=8175149
This story now becomes very relavant, and mostly meaning that I would probably not have paid much attention to it had it not been for this case and one over the weekend.
Cant get your link to work- sorry
but I did get the link to footage of them finding the object in the storm drain.
http://www.wavy.com/global/story.asp?s=8165018
The link I posted was Virginia lifting the moratorium on executions. At one time VA was #2 in criminals executed in the US second only to Texas. The storm drain story and footage should be on that website somewhere, I'll try to hunt it up and post it.
I get the impression that she was trying to hide her fear/anxiety from her parents. I would not be surprised to hear that she may have been threatened or warned by some form and did not share that with them. Maybe that was part of the threat- that he would harm her family?
not stupid, and yes. Depending upon flushing vs. rinsing down a sink drain, it could depending upon where the traps are located in their plumbing system and if they have septic or public sewer, etc..