this is very true, and I agree with you and admit that I have a personal and emotional bias on this particular subject. I do think that often they try to victim blame and shame when there's indisputable evidence that a SR occurred, and I find that revolting and disgusting and I cannot imagine sleeping at night being that person... But you're right. I rationally and objectively understand the need for defence attorneys and most of their tactics, and you're correct that concerning this case I've gotten well ahead of myself. I appreciate you saying that. I'm taking a chill pill because I needed that.