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Just a note on kids wandering off... I've been following this case since the get-go. I have a 5 year old girl with sensory processing disorder and oppositional defiant disorder. She's gotten quite a few serious talks in the last several days about leaving the house or even so much as opening the door for any reason.
A few minutes ago, my husband (off for the week) went into his office to lay down. I ran upstairs (baby sleeping) to go to the bathroom and grab some work to do while she and I watched a movie. Both of us told her to stay put, where in the house we'd be, etc. Within 5 minutes, I walk out of our room to look down the stairs to her quietly unlocking the front door.
She stumbled over her excuse, but said she "didn't know where dad was" and acted like that was reason enough to directly disobey us.
Two weeks ago, she wandered off from t-ball practice in the time it took me to step out of my car (parked in clear view of the field, with me watching) - maybe 30 seconds of me not looking, and by the time the coach chased her down, she was nearly half a football field away, wandering near a lake. Excuse? "I didn't see you." Despite being told clearly before practice, "I will be right here in the car because your brother is sleeping. Stay with your team when practice is over and I will get out and call you to the car."
And our repeated "if you get lost or can't find us, find a police officer or fireman or a lady with kids and ask for help" talks clearly didn't sink in.
Point is, kids are sneaky and fast. Things really CAN happen as soon as you turn your back. And given that my 5 year old rebel can pick locks, I also wouldn't put it past one to unscrew bolts that had loosened on a tank lid.
I'm still up in the air on this one, but just wanted to point out just how fast a kid that age can get into trouble.
God bless you. My oldest (male, freshman in college) has ADHD, Aspergers, mood disorder. It is tough - sometimes these things all run on a spectrum. I know he has some sensory problems, too. It will get better, but not for another 13 years! Sometimes it seems there are so many things to deal with, you can only concentrate on 1 or 2 @ a time.