I have a friend who has four children. She's gone through so many boyfriends since her divorce from her ex. She's a total "




" and a horrible mother. I've confronted her many times on it.
She's managed to cobble together a life in nursing, she owns her own home. But she doesn't care about her children at all. When I see her with them it's as if she has no bond, no care no love. She only cares about herself and her life.
I remember one time I went to visit her and I walked through this enormous house where each kid had their own room. Except none of the kids had a "room." Instead they had a mattress thrown on the floor and crap everywhere.
In the end, I went into her bedroom and she had expensive clothes everywhere and a curio with newly purchased LLadros and other things like that that she had bought herself as presents.
Meanwhile the kids lived like savages.
I was so angry I didn't speak to her for years. Then she got married again and asked me to come. When I came down I found the same thing.
I thought later that maybe she was doing drugs, I think Casey was doing drugs or at least alcohol, and I do think she just didn't care at all about Caylee.
I've just seen it many times in my life. So her partying shows that she had no sense of responsibility or mothering for her child. And she took advantage of her parents.
The reason she didn't mourn her child is she honestly didn't care about her. God forbid if one of my friend's kids died, I doubt she be sitting in misery. She'd be out doing drugs and the same kinds of things Casey did.
Sad but true.