privateaye
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As of the presser, they hadn't found the car yet.
What's the link to his Craigslist?
I know that internet dating gets a bad rap, but it's really not any less safe than going out with a guy you meet at a bar, or the grocery store, or the library. Spending time alone with someone you don't know much about is ALWAYS risky. Where you met the person doesn't make much of a difference, as long as your first date happens in a very public place.
I know that internet dating gets a bad rap, but it's really not any less safe than going out with a guy you meet at a bar, or the grocery store, or the library. Spending time alone with someone you don't know much about is ALWAYS risky. Where you met the person doesn't make much of a difference, as long as your first date happens in a very public place.
Are we sure that is this perp's CL ad or just an ad that is circulating because of the case and assumed to be his? TIA
And the thing is, their first date was a major-league baseball game. It doesn't get more public than that, and she still met with danger.
So, did he PLAN this? Looks like that way, doesn't it?
Hmm, I didn't see that ad...That Craig's List post says he's 43. This guy is 37. Not that he wouldn't lie, obviously! But can't imagine why. I am completely floored. I thought there was NO WAY it would be this guy. Her friends knew exactly who she was going out with and when! I'm glad he's a complete dumb *ss!!!!
It's so true about online dating. I do it, but I am careful. I always meet somewhere public, I don't give him my last name, I tell my best friend where I'm going, etc. This makes me want to not do it anymore though. It's scary. People can look "normal", act sweet, etc, and have a dark side.
I wonder what LE found that lead to this quick arrest. They didn't need much time to pull together evidence, they slam-dunk arrested him, fast. That is something comforting in this troubling case.
Is there a link to the county jail where you can search his name for infro? Locals?
There should be an app with each dating site for background checks, and if the guy/gal doesn't want to summit one, they can't have a date with you.I'm no spring chicken either.But the one thing I do like better about meeting people organically, per se, is you have a better chance of asking around about him and finding people who know him. With online dating, what you see and read may not be what you get.