Found Deceased WA - Jenise Wright, 6, Bremerton, 2 Aug 2014 - #8 *Arrest*

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My little girl just gave me a great idea for how we can do our little part to honor Jenise. I wanted to share in case any of you are looking for something you can do in honor of this beautiful girl taken too soon.

She saw Jenise's picture on an article I was reading and asked who she was. I told her that she is a little girl who lived in our state, that she died (didn't say how) and that she now lives in heaven. She asked a few more questions about her (age, grade). She commented that she is the same age and grade, and she also has some teeth the tooth fairy is still working on. She said they are "just like twins."

Then she got quiet and said, "She won't get to go pick out new school supplies to get ready for first grade and that is really sad." We bought her school supplies yesterday and she is literally beyond excited about all the stuff she gets to take to school (in Kinder we just sent a check). She loved picking things off the supply list and saw that we bought extra crayons and glue to donate to the class since some families aren't able to send in things to contribute (community use for things like that). Giving to others is a big thing in our house, and is something we are sure to live out every year in various ways, but she loves when she has an opportunity to give to other kids (like the giving tree at her school which allows her to pick a few kids that are her age and buy the gifts they have asked for).

I agreed that it was very sad that Jenise wouldn't be getting ready to go to first grade and that she was probably very excited too. My little girl said maybe we should buy some school supplies for Jenise and give them to another kid who doesn't have any. "She looks like a good friend. Like she would share her water colors, even if someone else makes them messy, so she would probably want us to do this."

So that is what we're going to do today and I'm really excited. We'll go buy a set or two of supplies send them to Jenise's school or give them to the counselor at our school so that they can be given to someone who doesn't have any. I'm leaning towards sending them to her own school. I think Jenise would like that. If Jenise's school has the supply list online I will buy from it and if not I'll just use ours (I assume they are all pretty similar in this grade!). School supplies are really inexpensive right now (like $0.50 for a box of crayons or a bottle of glue), so this is something we can definitely do in honor of Jenise, and love that my little one came up with the idea. :)

GREAT idea!! I like how your daughter thinks (a trait picked up from her parents, I suspect). I have always wanted to donate school supplies but never got around to doing it. I will do it this now, though I will donate locally rather than send to J's school. New school supplies are such fun, and Jenise was all about fun.

Thank you for this special project idea.
 
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I think a lot of people at that time probably suspected that she was dead, that is the usual outcome of cases like this. His reaction was over the top in hindsight, but as a mom at that time, I don't think she thought anything other than "He lost a friend, he needs some time".

I just don't think she wanted him to do to provide a sample. (MOO)
 
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GREAT idea!! I like how your daughter thinks (a trait picked up from her parents, I suspect). I have always wanted to donate school supplies but never got around to doing it. I will do it this now, though I will donate locally rather than send to J's school. New school supplies are such fun, and Jenise was all about fun.

Thank you for this special project idea.


I love it. :) Donating locally is a great idea and many school districts have a supply drive or "stuff the bus" event. I'm still trying to decide if we'll send it to her school or donate to our own. I don't want to ignite any already raw emotions with the staff at her school because I'd have to at least send a note explaining the reason for the package. I also really stink at sending packages if I have to go to the Post Office, so locally will probably assure that they get to be used before November! I'll have the best intentions and then get around to it months later haha! Amazon is truly the only reason gifts are given by us on time!

Edit to add the quote I was responding to :)
 
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My little girl just gave me a great idea for how we can do our little part to honor Jenise. I wanted to share in case any of you are looking for something you can do in honor of this beautiful girl taken too soon.

She saw Jenise's picture on an article I was reading and asked who she was. I told her that she is a little girl who lived in our state, that she died (didn't say how) and that she now lives in heaven. She asked a few more questions about her (age, grade). She commented that she is the same age and grade, and she also has some teeth the tooth fairy is still working on. She said they are "just like twins."

Then she got quiet and said, "She won't get to go pick out new school supplies to get ready for first grade and that is really sad." We bought her school supplies yesterday and she is literally beyond excited about all the stuff she gets to take to school (in Kinder we just sent a check). She loved picking things off the supply list and saw that we bought extra crayons and glue to donate to the class since some families aren't able to send in things to contribute (community use for things like that). Giving to others is a big thing in our house, and is something we are sure to live out every year in various ways, but she loves when she has an opportunity to give to other kids (like the giving tree at her school which allows her to pick a few kids that are her age and buy the gifts they have asked for).

I agreed that it was very sad that Jenise wouldn't be getting ready to go to first grade and that she was probably very excited too. My little girl said maybe we should buy some school supplies for Jenise and give them to another kid who doesn't have any. "She looks like a good friend. Like she would share her water colors, even if someone else makes them messy, so she would probably want us to do this."

So that is what we're going to do today and I'm really excited. We'll go buy a set or two of supplies send them to Jenise's school or give them to the counselor at our school so that they can be given to someone who doesn't have any. I'm leaning towards sending them to her own school. I think Jenise would like that. If Jenise's school has the supply list online I will buy from it and if not I'll just use ours (I assume they are all pretty similar in this grade!). School supplies are really inexpensive right now (like $0.50 for a box of crayons or a bottle of glue), so this is something we can definitely do in honor of Jenise, and love that my little one came up with the idea. :)

What a lovely idea, and what a lovely young lady to think of it!
 
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Let's put it this way. Does a teenage boy with a good relationship with his mother commit violent crimes against little girls? I don't know - I'm seriously asking.

My hunch is no.

And I am **NOT** blaming the mother for anything at all. She seems quite nice, normal, soft-spoken, and thoughtful. But a mentally ill son might have different ideas. He's angry about something.

I would say quite possibly. If he was angry at the W's or "caught in the act" by JW or just a bully underneath it all, he could have a good relationship with his mom and still be a nasty guy. And of course, mental illness of almost any category, if serious enough, works the same way.

<-- Mom to two mentally ill adult sons who I love and they love me, still at home but very capable of violence against others, depending on symptoms.
 
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Intelligent and thought-provoking post, gitana -- thanks.

Ted Bundy. Yes, indeed. Same here.

As I said in an earlier post, Sigg made me think of Bundy when Bundy was young, and I felt very certain that Sigg would be headed in that direction had he not been caught & stopped.

And I compared Sigg to GG, and I think that what each did to a sweet, trusting little girl was very similar.

I hope we'll learn more -- I hope we will be allowed to see his competency exam, and I hope he'll talk more, but -- you know -- he has one of those, er, um, attorneys. Ack. (JK!)

Thanks for all your posts.

There was a reason that for years LE and victims groups have been repeating the mantra that the perp could be the boy/man next door, the family friend, the cool uncle etc. They are the perps, not the homeless guy on the corner (even though he could be too).

Most of us still find it hard to believe the stockbroker, the star wrestler, the favorite kid in the neighborhod are sadistic violent rapists and child molesters. I came to terms with it long ago but for most of us it is hard because how do you keep yourself or your children safe if you can't see signs of the deviance.

That is why all the victims services are still beating the drum for awareness.

A good example is not only your bafflement Gitana but how some here are still holding that it wouldn't have happened if she wasn't allowed to roam freely. He was a family friend, it would have happened. I think it is just easier to think it must have been the roaming because otherwise any family friend could do it.
 
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I would say quite possibly. If he was angry at the W's or "caught in the act" by JW or just a bully underneath it all, he could have a good relationship with his mom and still be a nasty guy. And of course, mental illness of almost any category, if serious enough, works the same way.

<-- Mom to two mentally ill adult sons who I love and they love me, still at home but very capable of violence against others, depending on symptoms.

I believe you and trust your experienced word. Thanks for your reply.
 
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]I would say quite possibly[/B]. If he was angry at the W's or "caught in the act" by JW or just a bully underneath it all, he could have a good relationship with his mom and still be a nasty guy. And of course, mental illness of almost any category, if serious enough, works the same way.

<-- Mom to two mentally ill adult sons who I love and they love me, still at home but very capable of violence against others, depending on symptoms.


I agree, and I think that's a very heavy burden to lay on his mom right now. We don't know anything about this young man, and what kind of issues he had.
 
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I agree, and I think that's a very heavy burden to lay on his mom right now. We don't know anything about this young man, and what kind of issues he had.

I hear you and stand corrected. Just trying to make sense of a senseless situation.
 
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My little girl just gave me a great idea for how we can do our little part to honor Jenise. I wanted to share in case any of you are looking for something you can do in honor of this beautiful girl taken too soon.

She saw Jenise's picture on an article I was reading and asked who she was. I told her that she is a little girl who lived in our state, that she died (didn't say how) and that she now lives in heaven. She asked a few more questions about her (age, grade). She commented that she is the same age and grade, and she also has some teeth the tooth fairy is still working on. She said they are "just like twins."

Then she got quiet and said, "She won't get to go pick out new school supplies to get ready for first grade and that is really sad." We bought her school supplies yesterday and she is literally beyond excited about all the stuff she gets to take to school (in Kinder we just sent a check). She loved picking things off the supply list and saw that we bought extra crayons and glue to donate to the class since some families aren't able to send in things to contribute (community use for things like that). Giving to others is a big thing in our house, and is something we are sure to live out every year in various ways, but she loves when she has an opportunity to give to other kids (like the giving tree at her school which allows her to pick a few kids that are her age and buy the gifts they have asked for).

I agreed that it was very sad that Jenise wouldn't be getting ready to go to first grade and that she was probably very excited too. My little girl said maybe we should buy some school supplies for Jenise and give them to another kid who doesn't have any. "She looks like a good friend. Like she would share her water colors, even if someone else makes them messy, so she would probably want us to do this."

So that is what we're going to do today and I'm really excited. We'll go buy a set or two of supplies send them to Jenise's school or give them to the counselor at our school so that they can be given to someone who doesn't have any. I'm leaning towards sending them to her own school. I think Jenise would like that. If Jenise's school has the supply list online I will buy from it and if not I'll just use ours (I assume they are all pretty similar in this grade!). School supplies are really inexpensive right now (like $0.50 for a box of crayons or a bottle of glue), so this is something we can definitely do in honor of Jenise, and love that my little one came up with the idea. :)
That is one lovely idea and a lovely little girl you have.
 
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My little girl just gave me a great idea for how we can do our little part to honor Jenise. I wanted to share in case any of you are looking for something you can do in honor of this beautiful girl taken too soon.

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I agreed that it was very sad that Jenise wouldn't be getting ready to go to first grade and that she was probably very excited too. My little girl said maybe we should buy some school supplies for Jenise and give them to another kid who doesn't have any. "She looks like a good friend. Like she would share her water colors, even if someone else makes them messy, so she would probably want us to do this."

So that is what we're going to do today and I'm really excited. We'll go buy a set or two of supplies send them to Jenise's school or give them to the counselor at our school so that they can be given to someone who doesn't have any. I'm leaning towards sending them to her own school. I think Jenise would like that. If Jenise's school has the supply list online I will buy from it and if not I'll just use ours (I assume they are all pretty similar in this grade!). School supplies are really inexpensive right now (like $0.50 for a box of crayons or a bottle of glue), so this is something we can definitely do in honor of Jenise, and love that my little one came up with the idea. :)

RSBM
This is beautiful. Your daughter is a jewel. (And I love the part about the watercolors- totally brought me back to being their age).

I work in a school, and I promise you, any gifts of school supplies are very, very appreciated.
:blowkiss::blowkiss:
 
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August 6th this year?... 2014? ... Three to four days after he killed JW?

:thud:

Yep. Same day he was too distraught to give a DNA sample IIRC...
 
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Yep. Same day he was too distraught to give a DNA sample IIRC...

He was too distraught on Monday, Aug 4.

He is wearing the blue shirt and plaid shorts in the TV interview of his mom on Tuesday, Aug 5.

The photo with the dog was posted Aug 6.
 
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August 6th this year?... 2014? ... Three to four days after he killed JW?

:thud:


Looks like he is doing some pre-prison calisthenics.........................
 
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Page 5 of the Probable Cause document states: There was evidence of blunt force trauma to the head resulting in multiple skull fractures, evidence of sexual assault (pre-motrtem vaginal tearing and genital trauma), and evidence of strangulation by ligature.

The MSM may have interpreted this statement to mean the COD, but I don't see a COD stated plainly and definitively. For some reason I was under the assumption that LE was holding back the COD as they often do.

I could be misunderstanding something.

Could LE need to consult toxicology reports before making a definite COD?

for instance...could Jenise have been drugged to the point of death during that horrible night...though the other acts look like they could be the defining COD?

Just some thoughts...
 
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