kammiemc
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If he was gay it would be a non-issue with his family.
When I first heard he was missing, I assumed he was just hanging out with his friends somewhere and that everybody was overreacting.
I am so sorry to hear about your extended family member. It seems when people leave on their own it's because they feel trapped in something (a family, a relationship) and can't get out. Sounds like he lived alone.
Here are just some thoughts:
What might have he been running from?
He wouldn't be running from his job just because he didn't like it. (Why not just quit?) Tech is a very competitive/confidential biz. If he had leaked something proprietary he might have been worried about being discovered? Has anyone in the family talked to his boss and colleagues? Other legal or financial issues?
What else/who else in Seattle might have he wanted/needed to leave, at the cost of disappearing?
Or, was he going TO something? Had he made a new connection online? New relationship? Drugs? Is he the type to get carried away? Was he depressed and wanted to go where friends wouldn't come bang on the door? (I know that is not a great scenario because of where that could lead, but not necessarily. Has anyone called every single hotel in Seattle and asked for him by name--there are two Marriotts btw.)
I'm sorry about the limit of information that LE can/will supply. But I hope that it means they have just enough information to believe he could be off on his own and will return at some point.
Best of luck and I will try to go to the FB page and share on my FB.
ETA: If you go to a front desk of a hotel and show them a pic and express concern that the person might be suicidal, they will not care about maintaining privacy.
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