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It's too bad we can't hear his own words regarding why he did it.
While I appreciate your assessment, there are as many ways of parenting as there are parents. Who is society to judge another family's parenting skills and family decisions and whether they are correct or not? (Unless physically, mentally or s e x u a l l y abusive) Just because it might differ from our own based on personal religious, political or socially acceptable ideologies does not mean that different is wrong.Yes, the isolation and denial of friends is a known fact and published in msm articles accepted here at WS. Multiple links are posted in the history of this thread.
His grandmother had even made attempts at helping to ease his forced isolation but her efforts were rejected by the boy's mother. She also spoke to this in the aftermath of the massacre and must have been devastated and heartbroken at the outcome.
Its generally unknown how involved the father was in making (or supporting) these socially isolating decisions and computer schooling since he was working outside the home.
Because these are the known facts, they wouldn't be considered "casting aspersions". They're just factors that may or may not have contributed to the boy's *obvious* anger and frustration that culminated in a massacre. Thankfully, not every teen that is deprived of normal socialization commits murder.
But, speaking from my roles as social worker in child protection, as a juvenile justice worker, as a teacher specialist of an "at risk" teenage population and as a mother very involved in parent support organizations, I can very comfortably say that a good assessment of the situation in that home would have pointed out risk factors and recommended changes including counseling for not just the son but also the mother who was struggling with her own issues that were affecting her decisions concerning her teenage son who was developing an identification independent from his parents and wanting to be more out in the world as is natural for *most* healthy well adjusted teenagers. No aspersions; just facts.
Its not "blame", its just attending factors.
There's a vague and thin line there. Just an example, is denying children religious freedom a form of emotional abuse or not? In some countries it is, in others it is not. Is hitting your own children physical abuse? In some countries it is, in other countries it is not, in some it depends on the exact method of hitting the child.Who is society to judge another family's parenting skills and family decisions and whether they are correct or not? (Unless physically, mentally or s e x u a l l y abusive)
Definitely agree on the status of the teens mental health as stressed to the point of being unbalanced.I wonder if any of the other children were having problems as well? To me, this type of severe action seems to show some possible form of mental health and anger management issue(s). That is just a guess, because I also have no firm MSM facts as of yet.
I'm always all for debating and discussing the FACTS of the cases we follow. We don't have those facts here yet and I think it is presumptuous and wrong to blame the parents at this point.
Yes, the isolation and denial of friends is a known fact and published in msm articles accepted here at WS. Multiple links are posted in the history of this thread.
His grandmother had even made attempts at helping to ease his forced isolation but her efforts were rejected by the boy's mother. She also spoke to this in the aftermath of the massacre and must have been devastated and heartbroken at the outcome.
Its generally unknown how involved the father was in making (or supporting) these socially isolating decisions and computer schooling since he was working outside the home.
Because these are the known facts, they wouldn't be considered "casting aspersions". They're just factors that may or may not have contributed to the boy's *obvious* anger and frustration that culminated in a massacre. Thankfully, not every teen that is deprived of normal socialization commits murder.
But, speaking from my roles as social worker in child protection, as a juvenile justice worker, as a teacher specialist of an "at risk" teenage population and as a mother very involved in parent support organizations, I can very comfortably say that a good assessment of the situation in that home would have pointed out risk factors and recommended changes including counseling for not just the son but also the mother who was struggling with her own issues that were affecting her decisions concerning her teenage son who was developing an identification independent from his parents and wanting to be more out in the world as is natural for *most* healthy well adjusted teenagers. No aspersions; just facts.
Its not "blame", its just attending factors.
I disagree that all OP is citing is observation based on fact, and I don't think we will have the facts until trial.
I believe there was one MSM article on 8/1/25 that referenced the grandmother, but let's be clear here.
What's being attributed to the grandmother here was NOT fact.
These were allegations made by the defendant's former defense counsel in their filings attempting to delay the decline hearing, and to keep the defendant out of adult court! Allegations cited by the defense don't make them true.
The grandmother, guardian of the surviving witness, is represented by counsel, and could have easily provided an affidavit or given statements to the defense under oath. Police reports would also be certified but the defense did not cite them for good reason: Sworn statements would not likely be as damning of the deceased parents
Just the same, I doubt the defendant would be as 'picture perfect,' per the defense's description, if being raised as alleged!
More specifically, the claims by the defense attributed to the grandmother state:
The children's maternal grandmother allegedly reported that her daughter, the 15-year-old's mother, "was abusive and demeaning to the children." She allegedly told law enforcement she threatened to report her daughter if the abuse did not stop, court documents say.
The defense stated the family's isolation from traditional schools, doctors, and the outside community, has made uncovering information about them "particularly challenging and time consuming."
The defense said of the 15-year-old, “everyone we have spoken with describe him as kind, respectful, and deeply devoted to his family.”
KOMO NEWS - Allegations
Snipped for focusThe defense said of the 15-year-old, “everyone we have spoken with describe him as kind, respectful, and deeply devoted to his family.”
KOMO NEWS - Allegations
@Seattle1 - any updates on this case? When is the next hearing?
Many thanks.In December, we were looking at the decline hearing being set sometime in April 2026 (defense requested an October date). Unfortunately, the court system is down for maintenance this weekend, but I'll check the docket next week.
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Thank you for circling back to this and providing the update. I’m very tired tonight so forgive me for asking, but can you remind me what we can expect at the decline hearing in June?Since the 12/10/25 status hearing, the following court events have been scheduled, including the Declination hearing on 6/18 at 9 AM.
(Per the Clerks Minutes from the 2/23/26 Status Hearing, the Decline scheduled for 5/7 was stricken, and continued to 6/18).
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Case number: 24-8-00878-2 SEA
03/30/2026 10:00 AM Juvenile Offender AM Calendar STATUS CONFERENCE
05/07/2026 09:00 AM Juvenile Offender AM Calendar DECLINE
06/18/2026 09:00 AM Juvenile Offender Fact Findings DECLINE
02/23/2026 09:00 AM Review Hearing - STAHRG STATUS CONFERENCE
Thank you for circling back to this and providing the update. I’m very tired tonight so forgive me for asking, but can you remind me what we can expect at the decline hearing in June?
Thanks for this @Seattle1.I believe this will be the start of the "fact finding," to enable the Court to rule on whether the juvenile defendant will be tried in adult court.
DECLINE HEARINGS AND WAIVER OF MANDATORY DECLINE HEARINGS
Decline hearings are held in juvenile court to determine whether a youth can be tried as an adult.
Decline hearings can be mandatory or discretionary. Mandatory decline hearings are required by
statute but can be waived if both parties agree the youth should stay in juvenile court.
Discretionary decline hearings are permitted in certain types of cases when the prosecutor, respondent, or court on its own motion requests a hearing to transfer the case to adult court.
At a decline hearing, the court may order the case transferred for adult criminal prosecution upon a finding that the transfer would be in the best interest of the juvenile or the public.
The hearing may consist of testimony, reports, and arguments presented by the parties. If the court finds adult court is appropriate, the court must put its reasons in a written order
Pg 13/20: https://cdn.kingcounty.gov/-/media/...e-court/juvenile-legal-proceedings-manual.pdf
Judicial Transfer by a Juvenile Court Decline Hearing
Declination to adult court is "person baseď” jurisdiction as the decision to transfer a juvenile to adult court is based on an examination of the personal traits of the child in addition to the offense committed. Unlike exclusive adult jurisdiction, the decision whether or not to transfer the juvenile to adult court is discretionary and must consider both the juvenile and his or her conduct. [139]
During a decline hearing, the juvenile court hears evidence and considers the evidence in light of eight factors, often referred to as the "Kent factors" prior to making a final decision on transfer. [140] At the end of the decline hearing the court enters findings along with its decision to either decline the matter to adult court or retain jurisdiction in juvenile court based on either the best interest of the juvenile or public considering each of the Kent factors. [141] Judicial decline hearings can be requested by any party, including the court, however, by statute they can only be held when:
(1) The respondent is 15 or older at the time of proceedings and is charged with a serious violent offense as defined by RCW 9.94A.030;
(2) The respondent is 14 years or younger at the time of proceedings and is charged with Murder in the First or Second Degree; or,
(3) The respondent is charged with custodial assault, RCW 9A.36.100, and, is serving a minimum juvenile sentence to age twenty-one. [142]
Further, unless waived by the court, a judicial decline hearing is mandatory anytime the respondent is charged with escape and respondent is already serving a minimum juvenile sentence to age twenty-one. [143]
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