WA WA - Sky Metalwala, 2, Bellevue, 6 Nov 2011 - # 7

[Melanie]

Homeopathy & Naturopathy are very common up here in the PNW, in fact, WA State is home to one of the best natural medicine universities in the world - Bastyr University. Here in WA State, insurance plans cover alternative medicine.

I personally don't find it odd that they took their kiddos to see a Homeopath.

I've also heard that homeopathy is big in WA -- my brother travels there at least 4 times a year from Alaska. He's a chiroprachter and treats his patients with enzymes and all things natural. Heaven forbid I ever take an antibiotic for fear of dying! I don't listen to him 1/2 the time, but the other 1/2 is quite interesting and educating. I see nothing wrong with alternative medicine, as long as it doesn't interfere with my medical treatments (ie, I wouldn't treat cancer on enzymes alone for example).

For check ups and the like, I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. For treatment of serious diseases - not so much.

MOO

Mel

 

[SurfieTX]

It was shortly after she was diagnosed with OCD/BPD that she got pregnant (and was resistant to meds). I wonder if JB got pregnant on purpose to avoid taking meds (most are not compatible with pregnancy).

 

[OneLove]

>> snipped <<

eta: April was a court date wasn't it? AND she was in a hotel with her entire family?
wonder why...

Her family may have been keeping her in a hotel under very controlled circumstances trying hard to prevent her from having a total psychotic meltdown right before her day in court. Even if they knew she was very disturbed, they may have not wanted her to lose custody of her children.

Also, those very close to the mentally ill in situations like this often try to "tiptoe" around figuring out just the right thing to do to keep the peace and prevent a nuclear meltdown, ESPECIALLY if there are vulnerable children involved. Trust me, I know this very well from our own experience.

It has been remarked that her mother has had nothing to say publicly. Sky's father, in his declaration, said Julia treated her mother hatefully and their relationship was very contentious, but then expected her to support her whenever she wanted. This sounds like "sense of entitlement" to me, another diagnostic measure. I often was aghast at the lack of support from the parents of our mentally ill loved one....until I learned more about their past treatment at her hands. I have learned to be more understanding.

 

[gngr~snap]

Homeopathy & Naturopathy are very common up here in the PNW, in fact, WA State is home to one of the best natural medicine universities in the world - Bastyr University. Here in WA State, insurance plans cover alternative medicine.

I personally don't find it odd that they took their kiddos to see a Homeopath.

No it's not odd at all. Wonder if she was treating her OCD or whatever naturally too? I'm in the south... I don't believe we have too many here.

Of note that Children's office was between her home and where she "ran out of gas"...
maybe she went there first?

http://maps.google.com/maps?rlz=1C1...code_result&ct=image&resnum=1&ved=0CBwQ8gEwAA

 

[SmoothOperator]

2003- Julia and Solomon were married

2007- MM was born

2008- 5 yrs into their marriage SM witnessed Julia demonstrating strange/odd behaviors. Julia has had a fixation on her mother. Love/hate and on/off relationship. With Julia sending many verbally abusive emails to her mom.. But then when Julia needed someone she would go to mom who even tho Julia had treated her badly she was always there for Julia when she needed her.

2008- included in that strange/odd behavior was the severe OCD rituals that began.*the small toddler then forced to sleep til 2pm so that Julia would have no responsibility of caring for her child and when she would awake in the afternoon the father was called upon (while working to earn the only income for the family) to meet his daughter basic need of being hungry.. It is this schedule and his having to establish an arrangement that would allow for him to ensure his child's well being led to his hiring an employee when the funds obviously were not there to do so.. This allowing him to leave in the afternoons and get to the home to pick up his daughter and take her to eat at a place he found to the healthiest choice for her in restaurants.. They not allowed back in the home til the midnight hours.. Julia had zero connection to MM and refused to be responsible for anything whatsoever in the child's life..(both family and friends were aware of how SM had to rearrange his schedule in order to care for MM)

Mid to latter 2008- Julia agreed to get help, including admitting what control the OCD had over her(refer to page of declaration court doc for her detailed acct) and sought treatment from Dr. Reddy Seritha who diagnosed her with depression/OCD and placed her on medication. During this time there was marked improvement of Julia and it was at this point that Sky was conceived. At some point in the pregnancy she stopped taking the meds AMA.. This was not known immediately..

But by March 2009- (with Julia still pregnant with Sky) she had once again spiraled downhill and agreed to go see Dr. Katerina Rebova who diagnosed her as bi-polar and upheld the dx of depression/OCD- she was prescribed medication along with behavioral treatment as well.. Julia did not improve due to her unwilling to try the behavioral treatments the dr was ordering.. She wanted to only take a pill.. Thus she switched from med to med in search of a pill to help..

Summer 2009- *still pregnant Julia now insisted they had to move from their beautiful home(1 yr old) back to the condo. SM complied.

Sept 2009- Sky was born. *And Julia now insisted they must move back home for her comfort in handling things. SM complied. SM took off 2 mos to help care for Sky and MM from Sept-Nov.

November 2009- Julia once again insisted due to her comfort level that they must again move back to the condo. SM complied.

November*2009- when SM returned to work at their store he had to make arrangements thru various means for him to be able to work, bringing in the families only income, as well as still make sure his children's needs are being met. That meant having to leave work by early after to feed and meet the needs of the children.*This was when the OCD was at such an extreme that dad and the children were only allowed in the home in the extremely late night hours and that once allowed inside they had to all 3 await only in the foyer until receiving the permission of Julia to each one at a time walk directly into the bathroom change out of their clothes and prepare for bed, Solomon was last to be allowed in the bathroom to change for bed to where Solomon, MM, and Sky were only allowed to go into the living room where they all had to sleep on the living room room floor due to Julia's having deemed the perfectly made beds as "the perfect place" which meant they were not allowed to be touched much less slept on.. So the 3 slept in LR floor, while Julia stayed up all night washing the separate loads of each of the 3 of theirs clothes as they were made to wear the exact clothes everyday that Julia would wash every night, separately as she had forbidden allowance into the clothing closets as she had them specially arranged and deemed as untouchable, do not open!! While they all slept on the floor at night Julia stayed up doing the loads of laundry as well as scouring the entire square inch of the bathroom she had allowed each of them one by one to change clothes and prepare for bed on the LR floor..

March 2010- Julia rarely left the home. The suicidal ideations had begun as well as the extremely unhealthy "parroting" began btwn Julia and MM.. MM began to repeat everything *mommy said including known to say repeatedly "I'm going to kill myself!" just like Julia did.

Spring 2010- *Julia was threatening extreme harm to herself as well as telling that she was having reoccurring dreams of harming the children, specifically strangling Sky. At this point SM called in authorities who after meeting with Julia in the home they decided it best she be taken in for 3 days to Navos Institution for an involuntary commitment of 72hours..
*Important here to note* that after the 3day involuntary commitment that Julia, herself agreed she needed help and voluntary was checked into UofW for battery of tests and professional help. Julia during here stay at UofW stated that she wanted help.

Spring 2010- while Julia was hospitalized everything finally caved in financially and they lost their home and condo forcing SM and the 2 children to live with SM's mom/family. It was during this separation from Julia while inpatient that SM slowly began to realize the true depths of what he and his children were merely existing in their day to day lives with Julia.. Also important note that at this time SM did not file for divorce, nor did he ever attempt to keep the children from Julia.

Summer 2010- Julia was discharged from hospital and was living at her mom's part of this time, as well as at S. Owens part of this time. SM was regularly bringing the children to visit Julia.*

3 weeks after Julia was discharged- while living with S. Owens the 2 of them(JB and SO) decided they thought it best that the children should be living there with Julia full time. And immediately began the brutal fight for that custody.

Summer 2010- IT IS ONLY AT THIS POINT DID SM REACH OUT FOR COUNSEL AND FILED DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE.. important too to note this man never attempted to take these children away from Julia, and leave her without them .. Never has SM attempted such..

July 2010- Julia started the false allegations and as we see she upped the ante with each new false charge.. In July 2010 she filed that SM had physically assaulted her that was UNFOUNDED AND DISMISSED BY THE COURTS...
*also noted that by July 2010 Julia was seeing J.S. Health professional who continued to vouch for her being able and fit as a parent to THe courts*

September 27, 2010- both SM and JB appeared before the court and the courts saw fit to render shared custody btwn the two parents. SM was fine with that, but Julia was furious!*

Less than 1 week later- after the court awarded joint/shared custody Julia again contacted LE with baseless, fictitious claims.. This time alleging that SM was planning to take MM from her out of state.. SM was contacted by authorities given the case number and assured it would be dismissed.. As it was. That made the second time in two months that Julia had filed baseless charges that the court dismissed.

October 2010- Julia makes the tapes of the extremely disturbing exchanges, one named "Exchange from Hell".. Extremely disturbing to listen. (the link to these recordings in earlier Sky threads)

November 2010- due to severe financial strain SM stated that he would be late with that months spousal/child payment.

December 2010- SM PAID THE LATE PAYMENT JUST AS HE PROMISED HE WOULD. nonetheless Julia filed a motion to have him held in contempt of court for that late payment.. Along with filed a modification for spousal support stating she wanted $500.00 more per month from SM. As well as filed the most damaging false claims of all.. Charges that SM had physically assaulted both Sky and MM, as well as sexually assaulted MM. This including Julia having made wounds/bruises on the children and photographed them as evidence that SM inflicted the abuse. SM passed LDT that he had not abused or inflicted the wounds/bruises on his children.
Due to the extensive investigation that must be done when allegations such as this are filed it is this that is the sole cause for SM having last seen either of his children on December 10, 2010.

3 days prior to Sky's disappearance- Both SM and JB attended the mediation where it was finally decided to reunite this father slowly back into his children's lives. ONCE AGAIN THOSE ALLEGATIONS OF PHYSICAL/SEXUAL ABUSE WERE UNFOUNDED AND DISMISSED BY THE COURTS. SM finally was about to start to re establish a relationship with his two children.(sadly that likely will never happen and it will remain That 12/10/2010 was the last time this father ever saw his son, Sky)

November 6, 2011- Sky was last seen by mom, Julia at 9am when she left him alone, strapped in his car seat, on the side of a road in mom's unlocked Acura 1998 In Bellevue, WA

 

[Camille]

I think that's enough fruit to make fruit salad to serve about 200+ people, literally.

That fruit is just ridiculous.

Juicers do take a ton of fruits and vegetables. A ton!

 

[SurfieTX]

Julia put the audio of the custody exchanges on a public blog, so it's not a surprise to me that the pictures were available for public viewing as well. Both were on purpose and for a reason.

I do wonder though after watching what happened in the Laura Ackerson case (which involved a bitter custody dispute/financial woes) if there is some Craigslist activity out there.

Link to Laura's thread #1: http://websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=145072

Part 2: http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=146700

 

[Cubby]

Her family may have been keeping her in a hotel under very controlled circumstances trying hard to prevent her from having a total psychotic meltdown right before her day in court. Even if they knew she was very disturbed, they may have not wanted her to lose custody of her children.

Also, those very close to the mentally ill in situations like this often try to "tiptoe" around figuring out just the right thing to do to keep the peace and prevent a nuclear meltdown, ESPECIALLY if there are vulnerable children involved. Trust me, I know this very well from our own experience.

It has been remarked that her mother has had nothing to say publicly. Sky's father, in his declaration, said Julia treated her mother hatefully and their relationship was very contentious, but then expected her to support her whenever she wanted. This sounds like "sense of entitlement" to me, another diagnostic measure. I often was aghast at the lack of support from the parents of our mentally ill loved one....until I learned more about their past treatment at her hands. I have learned to be more understanding.

BBM. I agree. However the difference here is we are not seeing any 'support' from the maternal family for SKY, regardless of how they feel about Julia and her illness.

Either Julia's family knows Sky is alive and well, or they are so on egg shells due to Julia's illness they don't know how to behave and possibly fear some kind of dangerous retaliation? jmo

 

[nursebeeme]

Juicers do take a ton of fruits and vegetables. A ton!

they do!!! but all the food pictures.. kids eating pictures... it is just strange! And I want to know when exactly she edited her flickr...

(ie: kids in the car seat eating, kids standing around eating, mom in kitchen with the bountiful harvest of fruit waiting on the juicer, etc etc)

I furthermore want to know if LE found those clothes from the first missing picture inside the apartment.. the photo was taken/uploaded 7 months ago... did he still fit in them???? Glad that Dad, in his flier release, had more recent pictures of what sky would look like currently...

 

[nursebeeme]

thank you smooth operator!!!!!!

eta: about the year they were married... they were married when she was 16 and he was 21 in a kitchen while he was facing deportation... what is up with thaaaat?

and here is a link:

The two met at Bellevue High School when Biryukova was 15 and Metalwala was 21, according to court records. She became a U.S. citizen at age 19.

In a declaration made by Biryukova, the couple were married on Feb. 10, 2003, in the kitchen of Metalwala's family home in Kirkland because he was facing deportation to Pakistan.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2016709944_missing08m.html

 

[skyy]

None of the floor plans at the apartment complex mom lived at with the children have eat in kitchens in the floor plan. They are all galley style kitchens with an open combined LR/DR feature.

http://www.liveatveloce.com/p/distr...lans/floor_plans/redmond-wa-98052/veloce-3441

I too have lived in some small apartments. Even the numerous years I spent in a studio apartment, I still had a round dining room table which easily sat 4 chairs.

I find it odd and incredibly dangerous that she would still have a 4 yr old sitting one of those seats that clips onto a table. IIRC my son was out of one about the time he started walking and was under a year.

Her lack of having high chairs or booster chairs so they could eat as a family, confirms, imo, much of what the childrens father stated about moms habits.

jmo (except where linked)

She also has no couch or chairs to sit and eat a meal in the living room with. If she's OCD I don't see her letting her kids eat on the carpet. It would be covered in stains. There is also room in the living room that she could have put a kids table in there. Kids eat 5 plus times a day especially at those young ages, I just don't see not having a space set up for that, even in a tiny apartment. I agree with you that her daughter seems too old for a high chair.

 

[Rougelatete]

From SmoothOperator:

"But by March 2009- (with Julia still pregnant with Sky) she had once again spiraled downhill and agreed to go see Dr. Katerina Rebova who diagnosed her as bi-polar and upheld the dx of depression/OCD- she was prescribed medication along with behavioral treatment as well.. Julia did not improve due to her unwilling to try the behavioral treatments the dr was ordering.. She wanted to only take a pill.. Thus she switched from med to med in search of a pill to help.."

This is awesome stuff you've delineated here! I'm going to need to go through it to draw various conclusions but, first -- to all you other mental health professionals out there: does a diagnosis of bipolar AND depression seem off to you? I don't do a lot of diagnosing -- just treatment once the diagnosis has been arrived at by our resident psychiatrist, but isn't it implied that you have depression if you're diagnosed BPD? There are subtypes of BPD where the person may have stronger features of depression than mania but I don't get diagnosing depression and BPD when depression is already a feature of BPD. If it is unusual to diagnose depression as comorbid with BPD, then what was JB's clinician trying to say?

 

[MizStery]

So far as I know, it could be either. <snipped>.

I read you PM. I have also never got the knack of the PM thingie figured out. It took me several times to find the PM but by golly I did & I feel very tekkie right now. Thank's so much for your good words .....I am book marking them. I am very grateful to you(and all the nurse's,mental health workers,attorney's)for sharing your knowledge.:smile: I apologize to everyone for taking bandwidth from this topic and will move all future posts to the PM notifications.

But most of all I am praying for a break that will led us to Sky.

 

[Miziree]

I live near where JB claims she ran out of gas. There are electronic reader boards begging people to report any thing...LE repeating it just might break the case open. The King County,Redmond,Issaquah,Kirkland and Medina are working with Bellevue Police. They have officers parked by signs and the missing child poster of Sky on 112th. I have never called the Bellevue Police but there is no doubt in my mine every one of those FBI and local police have children and are doing everything possible to bring Sky home. LE are doing press briefing to keep this missing child case at the top of the news. I am not even going to mention all the volunteer agencies. I am not familiar with baby Lisa but I promise you the LE are working round the clock to leave no stone unturned. MOO

I read a report about the Bellevue police right after this happen. Those that did have to call had a very high approval rate here is the study:

http://www.ci.bellevue.wa.us/pdf/Police/Police_Survey_Report.pdf

news release from Police department:

http://www.ci.bellevue.wa.us/police_survey_nets_high_marks.htm

I totally agree with everything you said. They are doing a great job. Major Mike stated on Nancy Grace he is a father of small children and it does hit home for him.

I did follow the Lisa Irwin case and one thing they did not do that should have been done (and is being done in this case) is close off the house to anyone. They had film crews and everyone else "touring" the home, touching everything. She went missing from that home and they released it only to come back later looking for evidence..very poorly done IMO

 

[SurfieTX]

Even though Julia is technically from Ukraine, the family emigrated from Russia. This is what it was like in Russia when she was 12, which would have been roughly in 1992:

Following the economic collapse of the early 1990s, Russia suffered from a sharp increase in the rates of poverty and economic inequality.[6] Estimates by the World Bank based on both macroeconomic data and surveys of household incomes and expenditures indicate that whereas 1.5% of the population was living in poverty (defined as income below the equivalent of $25 per month) in the late Soviet era, by mid-1993 between 39% and 49% of the population was living in poverty.[7] Per capita incomes fell by another 15% by 1998, according to government figures.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Russia_(1992–present)

The loss of the home and the recession in the US could have been a HUGE trigger for Julia.

 

[Adrienne37]

Police in Sky Metalwala search obtained info from dating website

http://www.king5.com/news/local/Pol...ained-info-from-dating-website-133842203.html

 

[Cubby]

2003- Julia and Solomon were married

2007- MM was born

2008- 5 yrs into their marriage SM witnessed Julia demonstrating strange/odd behaviors. Julia has had a fixation on her mother. Love/hate and on/off relationship. With Julia sending many verbally abusive emails to her mom.. But then when Julia needed someone she would go to mom who even tho Julia had treated her badly she was always there for Julia when she needed her.

2008- included in that strange/odd behavior was the severe OCD rituals that began.*the small toddler then forced to sleep til 2pm so that Julia would have no responsibility of caring for her child and when she would awake in the afternoon the father was called upon (while working to earn the only income for the family) to meet his daughter basic need of being hungry.. It is this schedule and his having to establish an arrangement that would allow for him to ensure his child's well being led to his hiring an employee when the funds obviously were not there to do so.. This allowing him to leave in the afternoons and get to the home to pick up his daughter and take her to eat at a place he found to the healthiest choice for her in restaurants.. They not allowed back in the home til the midnight hours.. Julia had zero connection to MM and refused to be responsible for anything whatsoever in the child's life..(both family and friends were aware of how SM had to rearrange his schedule in order to care for MM)

Mid to latter 2008- Julia agreed to get help, including admitting what control the OCD had over her(refer to page of declaration court doc for her detailed acct) and sought treatment from Dr. Reddy Seritha who diagnosed her with depression/OCD and placed her on medication. During this time there was marked improvement of Julia and it was at this point that Sky was conceived. At some point in the pregnancy she stopped taking the meds AMA.. This was not known immediately..

But by March 2009- (with Julia still pregnant with Sky) she had once again spiraled downhill and agreed to go see Dr. Katerina Rebova who diagnosed her as bi-polar and upheld the dx of depression/OCD- she was prescribed medication along with behavioral treatment as well.. Julia did not improve due to her unwilling to try the behavioral treatments the dr was ordering.. She wanted to only take a pill.. Thus she switched from med to med in search of a pill to help..

Summer 2009- *still pregnant Julia now insisted they had to move from their beautiful home(1 yr old) back to the condo. SM complied.

Sept 2009- Sky was born. *And Julia now insisted they must move back home for her comfort in handling things. SM complied. SM took off 2 mos to help care for Sky and MM from Sept-Nov.

November 2009- Julia once again insisted due to her comfort level that they must again move back to the condo. SM complied.

November*2009- when SM returned to work at their store he had to make arrangements thru various means for him to be able to work, bringing in the families only income, as well as still make sure his children's needs are being met. That meant having to leave work by early after to feed and meet the needs of the children.*This was when the OCD was at such an extreme that dad and the children were only allowed in the home in the extremely late night hours and that once allowed inside they had to all 3 await only in the foyer until receiving the permission of Julia to each one at a time walk directly into the bathroom change out of their clothes and prepare for bed, Solomon was last to be allowed in the bathroom to change for bed to where Solomon, MM, and Sky were only allowed to go into the living room where they all had to sleep on the living room room floor due to Julia's having deemed the perfectly made beds as "the perfect place" which meant they were not allowed to be touched much less slept on.. So the 3 slept in LR floor, while Julia stayed up all night washing the separate loads of each of the 3 of theirs clothes as they were made to wear the exact clothes everyday that Julia would wash every night, separately as she had forbidden allowance into the clothing closets as she had them specially arranged and deemed as untouchable, do not open!! While they all slept on the floor at night Julia stayed up doing the loads of laundry as well as scouring the entire square inch of the bathroom she had allowed each of them one by one to change clothes and prepare for bed on the LR floor..

March 2010- Julia rarely left the home. The suicidal ideations had begun as well as the extremely unhealthy "parroting" began btwn Julia and MM.. MM began to repeat everything *mommy said including known to say repeatedly "I'm going to kill myself!" just like Julia did.

Spring 2010- *Julia was threatening extreme harm to herself as well as telling that she was having reoccurring dreams of harming the children, specifically strangling Sky. At this point SM called in authorities who after meeting with Julia in the home they decided it best she be taken in for 3 days to Navos Institution for an involuntary commitment of 72hours..
*Important here to note* that after the 3day involuntary commitment that Julia, herself agreed she needed help and voluntary was checked into UofW for battery of tests and professional help. Julia during here stay at UofW stated that she wanted help.

Spring 2010- while Julia was hospitalized everything finally caved in financially and they lost their home and condo forcing SM and the 2 children to live with SM's mom/family. It was during this separation from Julia while inpatient that SM slowly began to realize the true depths of what he and his children were merely existing in their day to day lives with Julia.. Also important note that at this time SM did not file for divorce, nor did he ever attempt to keep the children from Julia.

Summer 2010- Julia was discharged from hospital and was living at her mom's part of this time, as well as at S. Owens part of this time. SM was regularly bringing the children to visit Julia.*

3 weeks after Julia was discharged- while living with S. Owens the 2 of them(JB and SO) decided they thought it best that the children should be living there with Julia full time. And immediately began the brutal fight for that custody.

Summer 2010- IT IS ONLY AT THIS POINT DID SM REACH OUT FOR COUNSEL AND FILED DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE.. important too to note this man never attempted to take these children away from Julia, and leave her without them .. Never has SM attempted such..

July 2010- Julia started the false allegations and as we see she upped the ante with each new false charge.. In July 2010 she filed that SM had physically assaulted her that was UNFOUNDED AND DISMISSED BY THE COURTS...
*also noted that by July 2010 Julia was seeing J.S. Health professional who continued to vouch for her being able and fit as a parent to THe courts*

September 27, 2010- both SM and JB appeared before the court and the courts saw fit to render shared custody btwn the two parents. SM was fine with that, but Julia was furious!*

Less than 1 week later- after the court awarded joint/shared custody Julia again contacted LE with baseless, fictitious claims.. This time alleging that SM was planning to take MM from her out of state.. SM was contacted by authorities given the case number and assured it would be dismissed.. As it was. That made the second time in two months that Julia had filed baseless charges that the court dismissed.

October 2010- Julia makes the tapes of the extremely disturbing exchanges, one named "Exchange from Hell".. Extremely disturbing to listen. (the link to these recordings in earlier Sky threads)

November 2010- due to severe financial strain SM stated that he would be late with that months spousal/child payment.

December 2010- SM PAID THE LATE PAYMENT JUST AS HE PROMISED HE WOULD. nonetheless Julia filed a motion to have him held in contempt of court for that late payment.. Along with filed a modification for spousal support stating she wanted $500.00 more per month from SM. As well as filed the most damaging false claims of all.. Charges that SM had physically assaulted both Sky and MM, as well as sexually assaulted MM. This including Julia having made wounds/bruises on the children and photographed them as evidence that SM inflicted the abuse. SM passed LDT that he had not abused or inflicted the wounds/bruises on his children.
Due to the extensive investigation that must be done when allegations such as this are filed it is this that is the sole cause for SM having last seen either of his children on December 10, 2010.

3 days prior to Sky's disappearance- Both SM and JB attended the mediation where it was finally decided to reunite this father slowly back into his children's lives. ONCE AGAIN THOSE ALLEGATIONS OF PHYSICAL/SEXUAL ABUSE WERE UNFOUNDED AND DISMISSED BY THE COURTS. SM finally was about to start to re establish a relationship with his two children.(sadly that likely will never happen and it will remain That 12/10/2010 was the last time this father ever saw his son, Sky)

November 6, 2011- Sky was last seen by mom, Julia at 9am when she left him alone, strapped in his car seat, on the side of a road in mom's unlocked Acura 1998 In Bellevue, WA

Wait, I thought dad filed for divorce in March of 2010?:waitasec: and I am assuming mom was hospitalized then? Involuntarily? I'm getting this mixed up, I think?

I'm trying to fit in where these 7 mo's exist that Julia alleges dad kept their daughter away from her. The only place that kind of makes sense is from March of 2010 through the end of Sept 2010 when the courts initially granted shared custody. IIRC, she then recorded the audio exchange from hell a month later and that's when the allegations regarding sexual abuse and physical abuse by dad against her children begin.

Ay yi yi, this is soooo confusing!

 

[SurfieTX]

thank you smooth operator!!!!!!

eta: about the year they were married... they were married when she was 16 and he was 21 in a kitchen while he was facing deportation... what is up with thaaaat?

and here is a link:

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2016709944_missing08m.html

They met when she was 16, but she married him at 21, IIRC. Still though, they have been close for a very long time.

 

[Cubby]

Police in Sky Metalwala search obtained info from dating website

http://www.king5.com/news/local/Pol...ained-info-from-dating-website-133842203.html

Sugar daddy-F? I hope that stands for Female and not what initially crossed my mind. I think I am gonna uke: (I am literaly nauseous)

And to think, again, naively, I sat her thinking at least neither of these parents have brought a significant other into the picture.

I wonder if this expands the theory into the step dad/boyfriend area.

These poor babies and poor daddy.

 

[SurfieTX]

Police in Sky Metalwala search obtained info from dating website

WOW!

On the page, which was created July 25, a person identifying herself as "JB" says she is "looking for financial stability and assistance. I am looking for a successful mentor. I am looking for a REAL man. YOU tell me YOUR 'ideal' arrangement!" The profile says "JB" expects "US$3,001 - $5,000 monthly."

The profile page features nine photographs of Biryukova and describes her as 30-years-old, a "non-smoker" and "non-drinker" who can "speak fluent Russian, Ukrainian and English" and lives in Redmond.

The last time Biryukova, or the person behind the account, accessed the account was October 26, Wade said.

http://www.king5.com/news/local/Pol...ained-info-from-dating-website-133842203.html