What will Cindy's Role be in Upcoming Events?

[CuriousTwo]

I firmly believe that Cindy will NEVER lose faith in her daughter. To do so would admit that Casey is not perfect, and therefore that would cast a "bad" image on the A's. I think Cindy will "think" she's helping the defense, but will nail the prosecution's case shut.

I agree. I can't fathom Cindy "betraying" Casey intentionally. I think it will happen, but unintentionally - because she doesn't know when to stop talking. She seems to think that if she talks long enough, she will wear everyone down and they'll agree with her. When in actuality, she's just digging herself in deeper and making things worse for her daughter. If she just answered "yes" or "no," from the beginning, she wouldn't have done as much damage to Casey's defense. JMHO.

 

[metalcrystal]

I agree. I can't fathom Cindy "betraying" Casey intentionally. I think it will happen, but unintentionally - because she doesn't know when to stop talking. She seems to think that if she talks long enough, she will wear everyone down and they'll agree with her. When in actuality, she's just digging herself in deeper and making things worse for her daughter. If she just answered "yes" or "no," from the beginning, she wouldn't have done as much damage to Casey's defense. JMHO.

I imagine this works for both her and her daughter in their family interactions, they both do it all the time. It just doesn't work on the rest of the world as they have yet to figure out.

 

[Just Jayla]

Hello WS

(Posting as bazaaro Chiquita71)

Okay. I give in. I don't want to be the bad person. Casey did not kill Caylee. There was no body at the remains site when Casey was in jail, the searchers from TES say so.

So what Cindy and George are making money during this time. What they have been through is not over yet. They are involved with a different life now.

They can act however they want, they are not really hurting anyone. Caylee is gone and Casey is in jail.

I don't want to make it out like I am doing a obvious sarcastic "its the opposite of my opinion post." Really, I'm not. I am trying to write this out and really feel that way. Sometimes I think I should be feeling this way. That's a big part of it, feeling that I am wrong about the opinions I feel(very, very)strongly. I am not a person who thinks they are always right. I wonder how I can have such a different feeling about the same "facts/reality" that fellow humans(who also seem reasonable). Can I be seeing this all wrong?

Why do I have the opinion I do? Others don't. There are respected adults that are going on record letting us know that Casey is innocent. Cindy has told us that the truth will come out at the trial.

Will that be Cindy's role? Will she join in with Casey and George and Lee and they will all tell their truth?

I want to make it clear for myself about this post: I'm not trying to be baiting to the other sides opinion. I'm doing a devil's advocate type of thing. I'm not going to pretend that my mind is changed in any way but I do want to strongly entertain the other side of this because I feel like there is an understanding that I can only gain by doing so. :crazy::waitasec:

Yeah, I don't know what I am saying either. Except, I do because it feels like "going against" Cindy(Casey, The Anthony's)is becoming too difficult for me to maintain. I feel tired of being outraged and worried about what Cindy is going to do next(but not tired enough to stop reading). And, in many ways it is Cindy I am the most mad with. I have projected my own mother and family onto this family-this is am aware of, how much of it is me and how much is them...? I can not say how much of what I have experienced has influenced my opinion of them. I don't know. Am I a person who sees things as they are? Clearly?

I feel like I am the bad person. All I can do is sit on my computer and blog about their life. I am honestly saying this to criticize myself.

Why do I care? Why do I not let this go and move on with my life?

I could hold the opinion that I hope Casey is set free. Totally free. I know what that means for Caylee. Her mom won't be in jail and her grandma and grandpa will be happier. That is probably what she wants, from where she is in heaven.

I have never followed a case before. I have never gotten this personally involved with a case. I do not know how LE handles being how close they are to these cases, you run through so many emotions and they are actually experiencing the reality. I starting reading here like I was reading information from a book or newspaper but when you get deeper and realize that "public opinion" is being used-you start to feel somewhat "involved"(ws tell me if I am going nuts...I think I am.) I know pubic opinion has always been used but now we are in the computer age and...(I think what started this for me was TP being on WS, its like a private place was entered for me. Bad last sentence but I'll leave it..how I wrote it....) :crazy:

WS, please understand that this post is "what it is" I am not making ANY points here one way or the other. I am just spilling out a lot of inner confusion over this case. I have truly felt all the ways I have ever posted about this case. And even the "opposite" things I have posted today cross my mind and I feel both these ways some times.

Yes. Sooo much easier to give in...(getting sleepy now...):bang:

...jmo...I:blowkiss:WS

I feel you, and I don't want to find myself jaded, or hungry for ANYONE'S blood....BUT! At the same time, I have to acknowledge that evil does exist, and we have a responsibility to recognize and rebuke it.

You are as hopeful as we all should be about one another....But it is healthy to be cautious about hope in this case, because KC has lost your trust.
She lost your trust, and my trust, when she lied over and over to the police way back in the beginning of all of this, when she said ...31 days...

As for Caylee in Heaven, I think that she would want peace, and peace for KC may only be attained in lock-up or in the next life-The life KC lived free on Earth was torture on KC's soul and torture for those around her. For KC to be physically free would actually be more detrimental to her life in the long run-She is a sick sociopath.

 

[ZsaZsa]

I agree. I can't fathom Cindy "betraying" Casey intentionally. I think it will happen, but unintentionally - because she doesn't know when to stop talking. She seems to think that if she talks long enough, she will wear everyone down and they'll agree with her. When in actuality, she's just digging herself in deeper and making things worse for her daughter. If she just answered "yes" or "no," from the beginning, she wouldn't have done as much damage to Casey's defense. JMHO.

I agree.
Despite being an intelligent woman, I think Cindy is the only person who doesn't get it that this whole case is about Casey's hatred and utter contempt for her..

 

[ZsaZsa]

To answer the original question- What will Cindy's role be in the upcoming events?
She will be manning the cash register....

 

[OneLostGrl]

Quote Respect kageykaren

Because I am so desperately looking for validation(I learned that through self help, therapy and not lying to myself) I am taking that you think I am a "good gal", that you were talking to me and I want to accept what you said, kageykaren because: I have problems with believing that about myself. (You got me crying thinking someone saw that in me...) :crazy::boohoo:

"I am a good gal!"(I do positive affirmations) I had a mom who said I was not a good gal. To THIS DAY I search and search to find the difference between what is "good and evil" right and wrong.

If my mother is good and she says I am bad, then I am bad. If it is my mother that is bad, then I am good? I don't know?

There is no line for good or bad. It is about the person you wish to be? I would not be the mother my mother was/is. Am I the good mother?

When I use my logic, and take emotion out of it as suggested. I think my mother was selfish and a narcissist and so is Cindy. That sounds like my emotions but my emotions are controlled by what my mother taught me...and my emotions tell me that it is I who is the narcissist and who is selfish.

That's why I think it is them.

And, when I start doubting myself is when what she thought was right and wrong comes creeping in. How do you de-tangle yourself from your mother? I wonder if this is what Casey was going through? I went though a stage where my mother could push my buttons and push me to such a rage...

THIS is the exact reason I do not have children. People who think mothers don't get mad enough to...well, they must have had very nice mothers.

Babies like Caylee and all the other angels are just that: angels who came to teach us all a lesson. We each have a different thing to learn. I really want child abuse to stop. God, do I have to say that? Their parents did it, a stranger did it: no matter it is still children being hurt.

Everyone is someone's child. Everyone was a child, a little baby born...even killers. If we stop child abuse, I feel we will stop so much of the needless deaths of children that keeps happening, and happening. Some people may be born to hurt others, I really do not know: but a lot of these tragedies could be avoided if we really really started caring about children in our world.

Do I have any bright ideas, no. I'm just being hopeful. I know there are so many people who care about children. Millions and millions. So many people help in many ways.

Here's to a day when every child born is loved and never abused or hurt anymore.

I do feel silly sharing so much but if mother-daughter relations we're not so life or death emotional sometimes, I do not think we would be discussing this case. My mother not loving me broke my heart. I just think I handled it in a, thank God/dess(and I do!) different way than Casey.

...jmo...I:blowkiss:WS

Awww, Darlin if you could only see for yourself how others see you as the good gal. Many times I'v mentioned what I refer to as Pollyanna attitude about life in general. My mother used to batter me for this way of thinking. Everytime and there were many I allowed this abuse made me more of a Pollyanna to diss her off. I took this abuse so that my 2 baby brothers would not be hurt. Mom was one of extreme cases of Manic depressive disorder accompanied with psychosis. I raised her, my brothers because there was know one else. Everytime those sick verbal assaults happened it increased the self doubt from inside. Add this with everyday issues you might want to have a stiff drink. Those intrusive tapes mom leaves with us eventually makes you sick like a tape deck those goes haywire spewing out all the taped recordings.from the old days. Well we have slick dvd's in todays world affording us to record new messages to our sweet selves. "You are not your mothers opinion!" Be the good person that you are. Make that aspect of yourelf change. Everytime a negative of yourself hits stop yourself and think of a moment that has made you feel good about yourself. I started my psych career at the age of 15, volunterring on the weekends at a state mental hospital. For some reason I knew if I learned about my mothers issues I could keep one step ahead. Knowledge is power and it can give you self insight to make change mentally and physically. Hugs want some kleenex as I'm going now to get some. Flue bug is keeping me emotional. You are "One in a miilion girls" (song by the Tubes) and I hope you treat yourself good and with the grace you so want to afford others that truly are undeserving, as there isn't anyone else like you and thats to darn bad. ~<3~

:grouphug:

 

[ClockWatcher]

The prosecution will issue a subpoena if they want CA to testify. CA will be required to show up.

I searched this thread for the keyword "contempt" and didn't find it discussed.

If CA testifies at trial and displays the kind of behavior she displayed in her deposition, there is a strong probability that the public will get to see CA facing a summary contempt of court proceeding up close and personal. CA could be found guilty and sanctioned with fines, community service or jail time. :behindbar

Cindy is the "Tanya Harding" of defendant Mom's. ('cept she has her own hammer!)

 

[Pattymarie]

The majority have voted as Cindy will support her daughter. What does this mean regarding justice for her granddaughter?

 

[USARDOG]

Caylee will receve justice in spite of what CA and KC and GA have to say about it.

 

[Horace Finklestein]

The majority have voted as Cindy will support her daughter. What does this mean regarding justice for her granddaughter?

I don't think it will really sway anyone away from thinking Casey is guilty. She seriously, seriously protests too much. I think if CA pulls anything during the trial, she can really be shown to have been trying to thwart the investigation. There were too many bizarre incidents and statements, not to mention contradictions. Opinion only.

 

[The Eunice Burns]

Caylee will receve justice in spite of what CA and KC and GA have to say about it.

I agree. I think that CA's unwavering support demonstrates that KC is more important than Caylee ever was or could be to the As. This lying, theiving, whoring daughter of theirs merits more devotion than that innocent, precious little girl. It says a lot about them as people. And I say that w/ conviction b/c of their actions and words from the very start. We heard little from them about the desperate need to find Caylee, and more about why KC is innocent. And that was in early, early days. They summed up what happened and decided where to invest themselves.

 

[CuriousTwo]

Caylee will receve justice in spite of what CA and KC and GA have to say about it.

That's my hope and prayer!

 

[MissJames]

Caylee will receve justice in spite of what CA and KC and GA have to say about it.

I think Caylee will recieve justice BECAUSE of the way CA has behaved.Ironic,but the more she tries to prove KC's innocence the more harm she's done.

 

[lisalei321]

I think Caylee will recieve justice BECAUSE of the way CA has behaved.Ironic,but the more she tries to prove KC's innocence the more harm she's done.

I think that CA has done it on purpose, to make sure that KC goes away to the :behindbar for a long, long time.

 

[Amil]

I'm not so sure Cindy would never turn against Casey, I could see her turning on her in a heartbeat if it's something Cindy feels she betrayed her over. People like Cindy have this amazing ability to split, love turns to hate, black turns to white, good is bad.. I can see Cindy turning on her, I could even see her commiting a crime and trying to pin it on her own daughter.

ITA.. we saw her turn on KC when she badmouthed her: "sociopath" is what she called her daughter. She criticized her in front of Jesse and in front of TonE.
She creeped out Amy by telling her all of KC's faults in the car on the way to TonE's. I'll bet that stolen car report in 1996 was an example of her turning on her. The 911 call is another example.

Chiquita--my mother used to make me crazy. I'd get so mad when she'd criticize me. I'd do everything she expected of me and it was never good enough. She would say one thing and do the opposite. I can easily see how mad and crazy KC could become with a mother like mine. Been there.
My poor younger sister became an addict at age 13. She's 52 now and never worked. My mother would say "she can't work because ...." just fill in the blank. One summer I worked 3 jobs to get a down payment for a house and a neighbor said "your mom hopes you don't get the loan approval".
I always thought I wanted my mother to just die, but I really wanted her to love me.

 

[Pink Panther]

ITA.. we saw her turn on KC when she badmouthed her: "sociopath" is what she called her daughter. She criticized her in front of Jesse and in front of TonE.
She creeped out Amy by telling her all of KC's faults in the car on the way to TonE's. I'll bet that stolen car report in 1996 was an example of her turning on her. The 911 call is another example.

Chiquita--my mother used to make me crazy. I'd get so mad when she'd criticize me. I'd do everything she expected of me and it was never good enough. She would say one thing and do the opposite. I can easily see how mad and crazy KC could become with a mother like mine. Been there.
My poor younger sister became an addict at age 13. She's 52 now and never worked. My mother would say "she can't work because ...." just fill in the blank. One summer I worked 3 jobs to get a down payment for a house and a neighbor said "your mom hopes you don't get the loan approval".
I always thought I wanted my mother to just die, but I really wanted her to love me.

Amil -

:blowkiss:

Without question, you deserve to be loved. What a lovely sentiment you've expressed!

 

[Pink Panther]

I think Caylee will recieve justice BECAUSE of the way CA has behaved.Ironic,but the more she tries to prove KC's innocence the more harm she's done.

I agree! She has played a much more damaging role in creating the fabric of who KC is than KC ever did. Remember, apart from her initial interviews with LE (first couple of days) KC has "officially" said NOTHING. Everything else we know, we have learned through her immediate family; most notably through her mother!

MOO

 

[static]

Just wondering if after Strickland's ruling allowing Padilla and company to testify, if Cindy isn't baking a cake with a file in it for KC at this moment.

 

[CuriousTwo]

I'm hoping Cindy won't try showboating at trial, and won't try to "upstage" Casey. Cindy has grown so accustomed to having camera mic's shoved at her everywhere she goes and I think she turns up the act in response to the attention.

In the controlled environment of a courtroom, her "audience" won't be there to motivate her.

We can hope, right?? :crosseyed:

 

[essies]

http://www.wftv.com/video/20601918/index.html
Well. apparently their role in missing children is still active! Although, I don't see how Caylee can be considered missing like Trenton! Except both had mothers who held the answers and didn't help find their child!
Maybe that's the org. they should start-Help for Children of Sociopathic Mothers!!:furious: