Where is DeDe Spicher NOW

[scandi]

Spicher lives in a condo located on SW Sagert Street in Tualatin that has a “for sale” sign posted in the front yard. She apparently used to serve as the president of the condo association
http://www.kgw.com/news/Who-is-DeDe-Spicher-99118324.html

I found a link...

however, it doesn't mean that she isn't living there. Perhaps she could also be staying with her parents? I know at one point her father was at her condo with her

Hi <<wavy gal>>, I read in a comment on OregonLive that she has moved to Lake Oswego. That is right next to Tualatin, just a bit more posh as the town surrounds a lake. xox

 

[Melanie]

Odd that no one has seen her. Is she working? How does she support herself? Did her condo sell? In the Peterson case, we would have all the deets as the media was following his every move.

I agree, this case is becoming very odd in that the main players are nowhere to be seen (besides the bio-parents).

MOO

Mel

 

[scandi]

O/T I want to buy an orange 'Bring Kyron Home' bracelet. I just saw on the news they are selling them. I will wear it all the time 'till he comes home. Now I just have to find out where they are for sale as they didn't say. xox

 

[Openmyeyes]

In all high profile cases the media has used web cams and followed the players around constantly. (the Anthony's, Drew Peterson, Scott P. come to mind)
But this case nothing..........odd to me.
No pics of the players except bio parents.
Just the fliers.

Plus, the comments by the lawyers are few and far between....

this is beyond strange,

 

[5x5yo]

I totally agree with you. Although I think Terri is involved...DeDes face when she came out of the Gj smirking just gave me the chills

Agreed but it made me kinda mad besides also getting the chills. I won't elaborate further as I might start using words Im not supposed to on here but, the point is: He's still missing and she's being smug. What the heck?! Regardless of her involvement or not, that was just.. odd and disturbing. :twocents:

 

[RoughlyCollie]

Plus, the comments by the lawyers are few and far between....

this is beyond strange,

Hopefully, the lawyers involved are ethical and are not media hounds. I would be disgusted with them if they got on t.v. and started yapping.

 

[RoughlyCollie]

In all high profile cases the media has used web cams and followed the players around constantly. (the Anthony's, Drew Peterson, Scott P. come to mind)
But this case nothing..........odd to me.
No pics of the players except bio parents.
Just the fliers.

I think this is strange, too. I think the media must be cooperating with LE. Or maybe they are more civilized in Portland.

 

[RoughlyCollie]

Remember, she had her first boyfriend at age 41.

Her "first boyfriend" could be a bitter liar for all we know. He certainly has the honor and integrity of a gnat, or he wouldn't have talked to the media about her at all.

I've got friends who are Lesbians and I'm not one. I don't think DeDe's sexual preferences are important here, unless DeDe is also a total nutcase. Honest, moral people, including gay people, do not assist in a child's abduction or help hide him or kill him, in any way. Honest, moral people would be appalled and inform the police. Their perspective would not be influenced by their sexual antics or relationships. In fact, if they knew anything about Kyron's disappearance, they would distance themselves from the relationship immediately, and inform LE.

Plus DeDe is not a youngster -- at her age, there is no "lack of judgment because her brain hasn't developed enough" excuse.

So the important question here, in my view, is whether DeDe has a serious mental illness (likely sociopathy or a personality disorder, IMO), not whether she is a Lesbian.

 

[RoughlyCollie]

We might not hear about her again until the GJ is finished, or if she goes back to testify.

I think that by now, if she was going to receive immunity, she would have received it and told LE what she knows. If she was truthful, her information would have already been acted upon by LE. So, since they've not found Kyron yet, I surmise that what DeDe had to say may have been helpful to the investigation, but that she did not know Kyron's location.

If she lied or refused to cooperate even with immunity, she may be up next for indictment. There is probably no great rush to do that because any applicable statute of limitations gives LE time to put it off and to pursue first priority: Locating Kyron.

By the time she gets to the GJ, if she ever does, LE will already know what she has to say unless she has refused to cooperate and/or does not receive immunity.

 

[Donjeta]

IMO if her ex was telling the truth about being her first boyfriend her sexual preferences might be relevant in an oblique manner, because we might draw different conclusions about a person who had her first heterosexual relationship at the age of fortysomething after having one or several serious homosexual relationships and a person who had her first serious relationship of any kind at the age of fortysomething. For the first kind of person it might simply be about sexual preference and it wouldn't make much of a difference in terms of likelihood to offend. But for the second kind of person it might be about some kind of personality trait, trauma, intimacy problem or socio-emotional processing issue, and the presence of some of those might make a difference when it comes to the likelihood of committing certain kinds of crime or being manipulated into helping in them. Something like that might also help to explain the smirk that has been interpreted as an emotional expression that was incongruous in the situation.

I'm not sure that it's any of our business which category DS belongs to, it's just background that would be interesting to know if it turns out that she had anything to do with Kyron's disappearance.

It is IMO possible that the bf was mistaken or bragging and wasn't the first under any definition.

 

[AbbieNormal]

Yes Beatrice, that speaks mountains, as the hormones of the average teenager are raging as they hit their teens!!! Hmmm It wouldn't bother me if there was an explanation for that. But hey, my brother whom I simply adore has never officially come out of the closet, and he is 47 ;} We just all know it and love him. Just sayin', and who knows what the case really is with her. xox

ITA about her orientation. However, I could care less. She makes me feel uneasy in mnay ways and I don;t know why. Thats the only basis I have for thinking shes involved somehow..that and she was missing from work for 90 minutes or so....

abbie

 

[Beatrice]

Where exactly is this farm Dede was working at? Sauvie Island?

 

[stmarysmead]

Her "first boyfriend" could be a bitter liar for all we know. He certainly has the honor and integrity of a gnat, or he wouldn't have talked to the media about her at all.

I've got friends who are Lesbians and I'm not one. I don't think DeDe's sexual preferences are important here, unless DeDe is also a total nutcase. Honest, moral people, including gay people, do not assist in a child's abduction or help hide him or kill him, in any way. Honest, moral people would be appalled and inform the police. Their perspective would not be influenced by their sexual antics or relationships. In fact, if they knew anything about Kyron's disappearance, they would distance themselves from the relationship immediately, and inform LE.

Plus DeDe is not a youngster -- at her age, there is no "lack of judgment because her brain hasn't developed enough" excuse.

So the important question here, in my view, is whether DeDe has a serious mental illness (likely sociopathy or a personality disorder, IMO), not whether she is a Lesbian.

Or whether she was involved in some type of criminal activity and whatever she did in regard to Kyron... was simply about protecting herself.

 

[freefallzzzz]

Interesting tweet on DeDe's twitter 6 hours ago..

https://twitter.com/dedejustdede

 

[LNL]

Interesting tweet on DeDe's twitter 6 hours ago..

https://twitter.com/dedejustdede

hmmmm...referring to her attorneys maybe???

 

[freefallzzzz]

hmmmm...referring to her attorneys maybe???

That's kind of what I thought..
Interesting that she would "tweet" that, she has to know ppl are watching her internet activity..

 

[jadejazzkayla]

hmmmm...referring to her attorneys maybe???

or the baseball team...

 

[LillyRush]

If it is true what he said about them talking about marriage, maybe she said something to him like "you are the first boyfriend who has discussed marriage with me" and he took it too literally to mean she never had a boyfriend at all? Lots of people go through a series of casual relationships or others might get together with people who say right up front that they don't want to get married. It is sad to an extent if she had never had a very serious relationship meaning serious enough to call someone a boyfriend, but it does not mean that she was never involved with anyone.

I don't know, but it just seems like this ex's perception of things is not very good. I mean, he makes it sounds like they were in some very serious long term thing when in reality they were only together a couple of months. So, isn't it possible that he misinterpreted something she said just as he seems to have misintrepeted the length and seriousness of their "relationship"? According to his own letter, he was not even formally intoduced to her family. The mother just happened to be in town one time visiting and then he "almost" (?) met her father. Not sounding too serious there.

 

[cypress]

I think that by now, if she was going to receive immunity, she would have received it and told LE what she knows. If she was truthful, her information would have already been acted upon by LE. So, since they've not found Kyron yet, I surmise that what DeDe had to say may have been helpful to the investigation, but that she did not know Kyron's location.

If she lied or refused to cooperate even with immunity, she may be up next for indictment. There is probably no great rush to do that because any applicable statute of limitations gives LE time to put it off and to pursue first priority: Locating Kyron.

By the time she gets to the GJ, if she ever does, LE will already know what she has to say unless she has refused to cooperate and/or does not receive immunity.

BBM

IMHO, based on her People interview, she doesn't know anything about what happened to Kyron or anything about Terri's alleged involvement.

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20413527,00.html

Spicher says she's told police the same thing. "They wanted me to tell them that Terri did it or that Terri knew something," she says. "I told them everything that I knew, over and over again. But I didn't tell them what they wanted to hear."

If she didn't tell them what she believes they wanted to hear, then she didn't tell them that Terri did it or that Terri had any knowledge of it. Dede knows nothing, IMHO.

 

[LNL]

or the baseball team...

Or an underground of people hiding Kyron??

JMO

But, I really don't think he is still alive.