GUILTY WI - 12-Year-Old Girls Stab Friend 19 Times for Slenderman, Waukesha, 31 May 2014 #1

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  • #321
Here's an explanation of the law:

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/wisconsin-stabbing-highlights-juvenile-crime-laws-23999359

Apparently in Wisconsin, juveniles over 10 accused of murder or attempted murder must be tried in juvenile court. Wow. 10 seems young.

I wonder why the lawyer of one of the girls is trying to get her tried as a juvenile - it sounds like the law must allow for appeal or exceptions?

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/wisconsin-stabbing-highlights-juvenile-crime-laws-23999359
 
  • #322
Not addressing you personally, tlcya. But I just feel I need to compare these girls with my own daughter who:

- Has a dad who was a death-metal musician. She grew up listening to death metal in the car on family outings.

- Has a mum who was a goth metal chick. With all the trimmings. Whose hobbies include crochet, fishkeeping and researching murder cases.

- Grew up in a house where the bookcases are filled with true crime accounts of psychopaths and killers, as well as a stunning collection of horror literature.

- Was sung Ronnie Dio ballads for lullabys as an infant.

- Visited friends of the family who collected stuffed bats, kept black widows for pets and looked like Marilyn Manson on a good day.

- Has parents who have never shielded her from the truth of the world.

- Is NOT morbid. Or metal, or goth. She's just herself, and a good kid.

But if you believe the bollocky nonsense in the wowser press, she's be what? In danger of being a psycho? Tainted morally?

Give me a break.

These kids are disturbed. Quibble over psychopathy being a mental lllness or not, but it's being "not right in the head", the end. I suspect their parents might have something to do with it, even if it's just general neglect.

But don't be blaming their culture, because it's MY culture. And I raised my child *right*.

Thank you! I
 
  • #323
You do realize that the laws in Wisconsin require them to charge them as adults?

In other cases, I think certain juveniles are tried as adults, because the juvenile system can not adequately detain them based on their crimes.

I didn't know that about Wisconsin. But iirc, one of the lawyers spoke about trying to get the kids moved to juvenile court. So if I did recall that correctly, it must be possible after a charge, right?

The 50's were not oppressive to anyone I know. If they were oppressive it was because someone chose the wrong mate or settled for something they did not want. My grandmother worked during the war making bombers. My mother was a nurse and a hairdresser. I don't know one woman who was raised in th 50's that did not have a life of her own. To say a whole era was oppressive to woman is nonsense. Everyone makes their life what they want it to be. Donna Reed who did that show was the producer of her show. She did not just sit and do lines she was the one producing it. There are many many awesome woman that came out of the 50's.

But one of the good things was that it was a decade that was still about humanness. It was still face to face communication. Even the 60's and 70's and to some degree the 80's and then it all changed. DO I believe that computers are evil? Nope. But I believe that kids need to be monitored when using them and they need real live interaction with people that show them empathy and compassion and sympathy for other humans. Online nothing matters. You can be powerful in your nasty words. You can be someone.. Even if it is all in your mind.

To me this smacks of two kids with a pack mentality after being immersed in this slenderman legend. I They are vulnerable because of their age and hormones, development. Do I think they need more than jail? Yes. But I don't see mental illness. Not in 2 together. I see a plan and I see disconnection.

Well, the war was during the 40's, not the 50's. The 40's was a time of vocational independence for women in America which ended abruptly upon the end of the war. Men needed their jobs back. It was a time of unprecedented economic boom during which one earner was enough to take care of a family, for many people. Thus, the marriage age dropped, women in college became a rarity and the culture morphed to suddenly constraining women to the home as the ideal and most feminine role.

This was a huge departure from the decade before. In fact, single earner man-as-bread-winner homes really didn't exist until 1920. Before that, both parents usually worked- many women working on their farms or in factories or creating textiles or selling products, etc. Much more than raising the kids and housekeeping.

Really, that one decade is the only time that is known, in America, for women typically being stay at home moms and homemakers. By the 60's, millions of those same women had divorced as the divorce rate skyrocketed. That's likely because in their 30's, with no more small children to look after, yet still being young and with a full life ahead of them, many were just bored.

Also, by the 60's, the rate of women going to college skyrocketed again and women began entering the professions.

Although many women survived and even thrived during the 50's (my mom was one, although she turned 20 in 1956), that does not mean the 50's was not an oppressive time for women in general.

The options for women were few and the attitudes they had to deal with to be able to be more than a mom or to actually even be able to be a secretary, nurse, teacher, babysitter or stylist, the only real options for those few who actually worked, were daunting. It is a historical fact that women faced oppression during the 1950's culturally and legally.

But that doesn't mean there weren't some great things about it. Having a parent home all day and a neighborhood filled with the same, having tv be a Novelty, not a babysitter or a pivotal part of daily life, not having the internet or video games, or too much homework, playing outside from the moment school
Ended to the time the street lights turned on, all those things were excellent parts of the 50's.

I think access to mind numbing, repetitive and graphic materials via technology is not good for growing brains or fragile minds of any age. I too, like many people here, was fascinated with some scary stuff as a middle schooler. But my mom worked hard to dissuade me from reading such materials.

It has an effect. Maybe a scary movie here or there is okay, but for teens and younger, whose brains are not fully cooked, who have impulse control issues and are going through raging hormone and body changes, dealing with peer acceptance, and, for those who are most unlucky, suffering through the first signs of emerging mental disorders which often surface during this time, constant exposure to such materials can have a profoundly negative effect.

Yes, millions of kids are exposed and don't murder. But I don't know one kid in the last 10 years who murdered who wasn't exposed to repetitive violence or other graphic materials via technology. pretty much all of them were obsessed with something violent online, it appears.

As I stated above, every era has it's problems. I hope we can keep working to learn from the past and try to fix what doesn't work in the present.

They have evil written all over their faces. It's there, just look. Their faces do not show well adjusted kids to me. They are not mentally ill, jmo They are evil, plain and simple. I hope they get the max, 60 years iirc.

Yeah, they just had very calm, stoic faces. No trace of alarm or sadness. No obvious signs of something wrong upstairs like the Arizona creep or the Colorado creeps.

That troubles me quite a bit. One would think young girls that age in such circumstances would be visibly terrified, exhausted, upset. Nope. Nothing.

Of course one would think it would be hard for two young psychopaths to meet as well. What are the odds?

It depends where you lived.

I am not getting into a racial debate. My point is that the past decades before the computer age and the rampant use of cell phones and electronic devices by kids was better for kids.

Just the nature of this crime shows that this immature kids were left to hours and hours of fantasizing and not getting any reality checks. They don't have balance.

I don't disagree. What you are saying has merit.

I've just been lurking, but spice has made a lot of good points that need to be made, I don't think cherry picking this one sentence is fair. And I know you've been around WS long enough to know that these points come up over and over again, both that some people observing crime cases *do* have certain reflex reactions to make themselves feel better, especially when the end result lets them get to "that'll never be / never happen to my child"; and that some posters cannot understand that wanting to understand why and how criminals are "broken" (mentally ill) is not the same as wanting to cut them a break from all consequences.

In general, aimed at no one, the cases with child perpetrators always get ugly. I think it would help if people stopped and reconsidered what their gut tells them--not everyone's gut can be right at the same time.

Excellent point. Perhaps we need to differentiate between guesses based on probability and real gut instinct. I do think we over use the term. Gut is when you have a strong presentiment that danger is lurking or may occur or that someone is a danger even though others find him or her charming.
 
  • #324
as to one of the accused girls father social media, it has not been linked here, nor has anyone's social media that I know of. As to commenting on it, the only comments I have seen here have been regarding the fact that the media is sleuthing the parents and then commenting on what they find during broadcasts (HLN)

Likewise images of the accused girls and their names have not been posted here, despite the fact that the press is doing so, and not just CNN and HLN.

So all in all, I do think WS has been respectful of the situation.

as to the juvenile or adult court, my understanding is that the law demands they be charged as an adult due to the serious nature of the crime and further that if they were tried in juvenile court they could be sentenced and then released as early as the age of 25.

If the case is moved to a juvenile court, the girls could serve time in a juvenile facility until they are 25 years old, the newspaper explained.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/cri...regret-police-article-1.1815456#ixzz33id9ufal

Many people feel that is far too short a sentence to insure public safety from a repeat of this incomprehensible crime.

I am still on the :fence: as to how I feel about where these girls should be tried and I could end up having the opinion that one girl belongs in adult and the other belongs in juvie. Not enough facts for me to decide how I land.
 
  • #325
Here's an explanation of the law:

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/wisconsin-stabbing-highlights-juvenile-crime-laws-23999359

Apparently in Wisconsin, juveniles over 10 accused of murder or attempted murder must be tried in juvenile court. Wow. 10 seems young.

I wonder why the lawyer of one of the girls is trying to get her tried as a juvenile - it sounds like the law must allow for appeal or exceptions?

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/wisconsin-stabbing-highlights-juvenile-crime-laws-23999359

Did you mean adult court?

I am sure there are ways to get a case tried in juvenile court. There are probably of number of things that could make a juvenile offender eligible for that. IQ, competency, health, etc. I wonder if they will do that in this case. They planned for months and they had several different scenarios they were going to try. Unless one or both of them is under extreme mental duress, I just can't see how this crime can have justice served in the juvenile system.
 
  • #326
okay now to back read and see if the last 24 hours of commenting that I missed proves me wrong about what is and isn't being discussed
 
  • #327
They aren't in an adult environment. They would not be in an adult facility. They are held at a juvenile facility. They are being TRIED as adults.

This is where I think they are not kids who experienced terrible abuse. They had planned several other ways on different dates to kill this girl. This was the method they chose. I think we are assuming an awful lot here, and we know nothing of their family. Hundreds of thousands, probably millions of children are abused everyday. Heck, I worked at an advocacy center and saw the worst of the worst in abuse. If anyone should have "snapped" it should have been a few of the kids we saw.

Like half a percent of kids commit murder this young. (I will dig up where I read that from and post it.) Not all of them are abused.


I really was not stating that they WERE abused. I sure did not say anything like that in the post you're referring to, so.. idk quite how to respond, except to say that I was speaking generally of the issue and the general things that can indicate whether a murderer is likely to be able to be rehabilitated.

I'm glad none of the kids you met were homicidal. Myself, as a kid abused severely by multiple people, almost stuck a kitchen knife in my mother, aged 10 or 11, while she slept. I don't often admit that, it makes me sad and ashamed for my child self, but the fact is -- sometimes it's so bad and there's no-one to turn to, that the rage is overwhelming. You just want it all to STOP and kids don't think things through the way adults do. I was always a thoughtful kid, but even so, I snapped a little bit that night. I could very easily have killed my abusive mother, but I chose not to. Not because I didn't want to, but because I realised there'd be a terrible mess and all kinds of trouble to follow.

Just to be clear -- I will say it again -- I am not suggesting it's like that for -these- kids. But then, we just do not know. Like we don't know what their mental issues are.

I can say from experience, I was not 'mentally ill' but I -was- severely traumatised and in that kind of survival mode where things that shouldn't make sense as solutions really do.

Perhaps I was truly sane, seeing as I did not go through with it. I really do not know. When I ran away from home for good, and it all ended, I never had thoughts like that again. So yeah - I kind of get where Mary Bell's head was at (though I would never,ever have hurt a younger child or .. anyone, really. But I did think about killing my mum quite seriously for a short while there)

But anyway. That's an example from the horse's mouth regarding how *some* kids age 12 and under might be motivated to homicide, by abuse. It's a real thing, and it shouldn't be shoved aside with platitudes.

As far as this case goes.. how can anyone know where they belong or how to defend them in court or -anything- unless they're properly examined by a mental health professional, I guess is the point. They're NOT adults, and they do -not- have the reasoning power of adults, and should not, IMO, be shoved through a trial like adults in an adult court. eta: though I can see why adult court might the best available option, if not a perfect one they shouldn't be treated like little adults, is what I mean.

I'm glad they'd be doing time in a juvie facility though. Better for all concerned, considering they'll be out one day.

But when they turn 18, they'd be transferred to an adult prison? Is that how it works?
 
  • #328
Wow Ausgirl, thank you for sharing such a personal story. I am sorry for all that you went through and tip my hat to your resilience and perseverance. I respect your candor.
 
  • #329
Cotton said he would push to get the girl’s case transferred to juvenile court, where more social services and mental health treatment would be available.

“She’s 12 and she has mental health issues,” Cotton said. “There’s no question that she needs to go to the hospital.”

http://www.theepochtimes.com/n3/714...-stabbing-friend-should-be-in-juvenile-court/

Mr Cotton's client is named at the link but I chose not to carry that snip here, even with just initials. Those interested in which girl he represents already know IMO

So there may be previous mental health issues on which Mr. Cotton is relying or it may simply be lawyership, a two pronged approach, try to get her into juvie court and claim mental health as the reason, plus have that claim on the record if she ends up tried in adult court. Either way, it seems we will for sure be finding out more about at least one girls mental health and if that was a factor because her attorney is going to make sure of it.
 
  • #330
Just came across the Official Slenderman Twitter account. @OfficSlenderMan

"Ignorant children... Do you really believe you will be able to win my favoritism? How dare you try to act as though you know my agenda"

18 hours ago

"I am everywhere. You cannot hide your children from me"

18 hours ago

"you are of no use to me if it takes 19+ stab wounds and your victim STILL survives... useless children"

18 hours ago

"children are like Easter Eggs, you have to hunt for them" April 5

"seek me out and I will show ya how I bury me treasure, lass!"

Highly disturbing. Would be interested to see if these girls were following this "gent" on twitter

yes, that's disturbing.
 
  • #331
I really was not stating that they WERE abused. I sure did not say anything like that in the post you're referring to, so.. idk quite how to respond, except to say that I was speaking generally of the issue and the general things that can indicate whether a murderer is likely to be able to be rehabilitated.

I'm glad none of the kids you met were homicidal. Myself, as a kid abused severely by multiple people, almost stuck a kitchen knife in my mother, aged 10 or 11, while she slept. I don't often admit that, it makes me sad and ashamed for my child self, but the fact is -- sometimes it's so bad and there's no-one to turn to, that the rage is overwhelming. You just want it all to STOP and kids don't think things through the way adults do. I was always a thoughtful kid, but even so, I snapped a little bit that night. I could very easily have killed my abusive mother, but I chose not to. Not because I didn't want to, but because I realised there'd be a terrible mess and all kinds of trouble to follow.

Just to be clear -- I will say it again -- I am not suggesting it's like that for -these- kids. But then, we just do not know. Like we don't know what their mental issues are.

I can say from experience, I was not 'mentally ill' but I -was- severely traumatised and in that kind of survival mode where things that shouldn't make sense as solutions really do.

Perhaps I was truly sane, seeing as I did not go through with it. I really do not know. When I ran away from home for good, and it all ended, I never had thoughts like that again. So yeah - I kind of get where Mary Bell's head was at (though I would never,ever have hurt a younger child or .. anyone, really. But I did think about killing my mum quite seriously for a short while there)

But anyway. That's an example from the horse's mouth regarding how *some* kids age 12 and under might be motivated to homicide, by abuse. It's a real thing, and it shouldn't be shoved aside with platitudes.

As far as this case goes.. how can anyone know where they belong or how to defend them in court or -anything- unless they're properly examined by a mental health professional, I guess is the point. They're NOT adults, and they do -not- have the reasoning power of adults, and should not, IMO, be shoved through a trial like adults in an adult court. eta: though I can see why adult court might the best available option, if not a perfect one they shouldn't be treated like little adults, is what I mean.

I'm glad they'd be doing time in a juvie facility though. Better for all concerned, considering they'll be out one day.

But when they turn 18, they'd be transferred to an adult prison? Is that how it works?

Sorry, I was not at all trying to imply you were saying they were abused. I would also NEVER minimize your situation or any abuse you suffered. Since we don't know if these girls were abused, we can't really come to any kind of conclusion. As far as when they are transferred, It depends on their state law. I don't know the particulars of that area of the law.

I will say, a young juvenile committing homicidal acts against an abuser is (IMO) much different, then two twelve year olds planning a murder for months against a friend. I will always find understanding and compassion for a child who commits a violent act against an abuser. I do not consider those acts to be the same as what these girls did. I can only assume the 12 year old victim is a true victim, and did not abuse the girls.
 
  • #332
It really is different. Thankyou, for being kind about my thing.

I guess where I am feeling objectionable is not so much the idea of being tried in adult court, or them getting a hefty sentence if indeed this was a cold-blooded murder and not the result of delusions (for that one girl, anyway..) -- it's more that I've assumed 'adult court' means they'll get treated like adults, seen as little adults.. iykwim?

I don't envy -anyone- involved in this trial to come. It'll be horrific for all concerned, I'd expect. Especially for the families, especially the victim's family.

This thread had me up all night, my daughter just wandered in for breakfast. And she's like, "WHY are you hugging me right now? Get off, you old weirdo. You've been on that murder site again, haven't you?'

Yup.
 
  • #333
It really is different. Thankyou, for being kind about my thing.

I guess where I am feeling objectionable is not so much the idea of being tried in adult court, or them getting a hefty sentence if indeed this was a cold-blooded murder and not the result of delusions (for that one girl, anyway..) -- it's more that I've assumed 'adult court' means they'll get treated like adults, seen as little adults.. iykwim?

I don't envy -anyone- involved in this trial to come. It'll be horrific for all concerned, I'd expect. Especially for the families, especially the victim's family.

This thread had me up all night, my daughter just wandered in for breakfast. And she's like, "WHY are you hugging me right now? Get off, you old weirdo. You've been on that murder site again, haven't you?'

Yup.

I believe it means that they will be tried in adult court, as an adult, viewed as an adult for their crimes. If that does occur, I think they usually begin their sentence in a juvenile facility until they turn 18. Once they turn 18 they will be moved to an adult facility like any other adult convicted of murder.

If anyone knows different please correct me. I'm sure it varies state to state but I'm not sure.
 
  • #334
I will say, a young juvenile committing homicidal acts against an abuser is (IMO) much different, then two twelve year olds planning a murder for months against a friend. I will always find understanding and compassion for a child who commits a violent act against an abuser. I do not consider those acts to be the same as what these girls did. I can only assume the 12 year old victim is a true victim, and did not abuse the girls.

Sorry, just coming back to this a moment - I think it happens that some kids transfer rage and hatred from the source of it, to another, smaller person who seems 'safer' (ie, less likely to kill you instead), if that makes sense.

I am pretty certain that's what Mary did. That she in time and with distance from her abuse grew into a woman who did not want to kill supports it.

In this case, there actually is a chance that the whole 'Slenderman' thing is deflection from another, less out-there motive. It's also true that delusional people can - and do - plan crimes. Sometimes, intricately.
 
  • #335
It really is different. Thankyou, for being kind about my thing.

I guess where I am feeling objectionable is not so much the idea of being tried in adult court, or them getting a hefty sentence if indeed this was a cold-blooded murder and not the result of delusions (for that one girl, anyway..) -- it's more that I've assumed 'adult court' means they'll get treated like adults, seen as little adults.. iykwim?

I don't envy -anyone- involved in this trial to come. It'll be horrific for all concerned, I'd expect. Especially for the families, especially the victim's family.

This thread had me up all night, my daughter just wandered in for breakfast. And she's like, "WHY are you hugging me right now? Get off, you old weirdo. You've been on that murder site again, haven't you?'

Yup.

Actually, juveniles get more rights in adult court. They aren't guaranteed a lot of things in juvenile court. I'm not saying either way is right, but I actually think they will get a more adequate mental health evaluation being tried as adults. That's really important, I think. Especially, because in offending pairs, one is often pushing the other into this.
 
  • #336
Sorry, just coming back to this a moment - I think it happens that some kids transfer rage and hatred from the source of it, to another, smaller person who seems 'safer' (ie, less likely to kill you instead), if that makes sense.

I am pretty certain that's what Mary did. That she in time and with distance from her abuse grew into a woman who did not want to kill supports it.

In this case, there actually is a chance that the whole 'Slenderman' thing is deflection from another, less out-there motive. It's also true that delusional people can - and do - plan crimes. Sometimes, intricately.

I was thinking as well....she stabbed her 19 times. 19! That is overkill and it shows so much rage. I am not saying that she was abused just that there is obvious rage there. And like Gitana pointed out, a flat affect in the photo. I wonder what the story of these two girls is, the real story. Same as Skylar Neese, the rage present in how her "friends" killed her. They stabbed her so many times.
 
  • #337
When two 12 year olds truly believe that a fictional boogeyman is real, there are obviously some mental health issues happening upstairs. It is likely true that the parents could have done more...but 12 year best friends are real good at keeping things secret. It's been many moons since I was 12 but I haven't forgotten all the stuff my best friend and I did back then that our parents had no clue about, and we both grew up in solid middle class homes with stay at home moms!

I read an article yesterday in which the author opined that the girls committing violent acts against another in the name of their slendermangod (so they can get into their god's "heaven") can be seen as an analogy to all of the horrific violence that humans have perpetrated against one another since the beginning of civilization in the name of their God/Allah/Pharoah/chosen invisible friend.

I think if Andrea Yates was legally insane when she killed her babies, these two children might very well be as well. They certainly don't need to be locked away for 40 years in prison. Just my opinions. No offense intended to anyone here.
 
  • #338
Sorry, just coming back to this a moment - I think it happens that some kids transfer rage and hatred from the source of it, to another, smaller person who seems 'safer' (ie, less likely to kill you instead), if that makes sense.

I am pretty certain that's what Mary did. That she in time and with distance from her abuse grew into a woman who did not want to kill supports it.

In this case, there actually is a chance that the whole 'Slenderman' thing is deflection from another, less out-there motive. It's also true that delusional people can - and do - plan crimes. Sometimes, intricately.

I think Mary Bell's case is one of the most startling unique juvenile murderers I've seen. I've never really found a case comparable to hers.

I'm not saying this one couldn't be similar, because obviously we don't know much. IMO opinion, I would be shocked if these girls had an upbringing such as hers.
 
  • #339
When two 12 year olds truly believe that a fictional boogeyman is real, there are obviously some mental health issues happening upstairs. It is likely true that the parents could have done more...but 12 year best friends are real good at keeping things secret. It's been many moons since I was 12 but I haven't forgotten all the stuff my best friend and I did back then that our parents had no clue about, and we both grew up in solid middle class homes with stay at home moms!

I read an article yesterday in which the author opined that the girls committing violent acts against another in the name of their slendermangod (so they can get into their god's "heaven") can be seen as an analogy to all of the horrific violence that humans have perpetrated against one another since the beginning of civilization in the name of their God/Allah/Pharoah/chosen invisible friend.

I think if Andrea Yates was legally insane when she killed her babies, these two children might very well be as well. They certainly don't need to be locked away for 40 years in prison. Just my opinions. No offense intended to anyone here.

If they aren't found legally insane, they certainly do need to be locked away. We don't know if they were truly delusional, or it's an excuse to play out a fantasy. I suspect that won't really be known until thorough mental health evaluations take place.
 
  • #340
O/T-

ArianeEmory, is your "quote" from the Tool song Schism?
"I know the pieces fit".

Just wondering....whether it is or not, had to go listen to that song, not heard it in a long time :)

ETA- And "Sober" too....egads how is it I have forgotten about Tool?! Too much WS, not enough music in my life :facepalm:
 
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