Ok, I am ducking down and making this post.
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Everyone who reads here has their own specific reasons for being here. Some of us have been traumatized, some of us have survived horrible things. There is a reason that people post here and open with **trigger warning***. A lot of the reasons that we have to be warned about triggers is that someone in our family has hurt us.
That being said, we all have our sleuthing skills and most of us have already browsed the interwebz to find out anything and everything about whatever case we are working on. When we see something posted by say, an almost MSM source such as the Daily Mail or anything on HLN we have the heart to look beyond sensational reporting and take a good look at what we're seeing.
Personally, my user name stems from a favorite song from a horror rock band. When my nieces and nephews are born I either buy them onesies that are for a favorite football or hockey team or something most likely representing a favorite band. Their parents seem to love this and post many pictures (no matter how much I warn them about social media!) of their tiny darlings rocking out.
I never was able to embrace the goth or rockabilly culture as much as I wanted to due to my career choice. I so wanted to have black or blue or pink hair, but suits in meetings don't like that. I photograph cemeteries as a hobby, I think they are the most peaceful and beautiful places ever, even in the middle of a big city. My social media reflects that. I adore horror rock, punk rock and rockabilly, and my DH's favorite music is death metal. It got him through being horribly abused as a child, he listened to it at night with his headphones on, rocking himself to sleep to get away from his life. Going to shows and getting out of my situation helped me too, just because that choice of music or genre isn't too everyone's taste does not for a second mean that the people that listen to it or make it are bad people whose kids are going to be murderous freaks.
My friends, my lovely websleuths friends, please stop for a minute and remember what a beautiful and diverse group of people we are. Remember the reason that you came here. The reason why you clicked the link and wanted to make any small difference you could to help the people that suffer from the abuses that befall them.
I'm always going to want justice for the victims. Myself, my sister, my DH, his siblings will never have justice for what was done to us. Neither will a lot of my friends here.
Please, let's wait for the facts to come out, if there are reports on these families it will come out. I remember all too vividly the condemnation and the flak thrown at a little girl's family almost a year ago. It was because they were different from what we see day to day. Little Alanna's family didn't deserve it and neither do these people unless it's proven different, and I bet you that the media has been trying to dig crap up all day.
Ok, my big long rant is done, but please remember my friends, that just because we are different in the way we see the world and the way we live doesn't mean we are not all after the same thing. Justice for a 12 year old girl whose friends decided to murder her (and thankfully did not succeed) for whatever messed up reasons they or their lawyers can come up with.
ALWAYS MOO