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Do you all actually think this was some random act where he just decided to pick this mystery house and kill two adults and take the girl?
Drugs are bad.
Do you all actually think this was some random act where he just decided to pick this mystery house and kill two adults and take the girl?
Drugs are bad.
All this talk about trauma and what it does or doesn’t cause.
Highly reccommend reading “The Body Keeps Score” for a comprehensive look at PTSD and it’s life long effects.
No two people respond directly the same ; even to the same trauma. (In the book two people are in a car crash together and their responses are vastly different. One develops severe flashbacks, nightmares, etc. The other is almost non chalant about it. Why? For the one with the PTSD symptoms it was their first trauma. The other had many childhood traumas that taught the brain to disassociate).
Bottom line: No two people with the same illness, personality disorder, mental impairment or trauma will react or act in the exact same ways because no two people have ever lived the exact same life.
You're missing the point. The point is that victims of TARGETED PERSONAL, severe, depersonalizing trauma such as forced abduction after seeing one's parents murdered ( most likely she saw or he told her soon as a control method), being held in a strange place perhaps with blindfolds, gags, bindings, handcuffs, deprivation of food, basic sanitation and any sense of time and place WOULD BREAK YOU AND A WAR- HARDENED POW in your spirit and parts of your mental processing.
Sure, you both would react " differently", all people process and react " differently", more accurately stated as uniquely individually, but enough research has been done on the subject for us to know without one iota of doubt that a conscious or partly conscious prisoner will have trauma to recover from in the future.
Also, you give the example of 2 car accident survivors where one deals better because they've been through many car accidents before.
I sincerely hope you are not saying that a survivor of abuse which is repeated responds less than one who has never been abducted and abused before. IOW, the analogy SUCKS.
Unless it is dealt with by the person in their own productive and healthy ways, usually with guidance and loving support, then they might as well still BE in the basement in the dark with little food, water, sanitation for the rest of their lives.
We cannot heal from this level of trauma we cannot acknowledge or admit and ask someone we trust to support us emotionally as we are dealing with the hdealing.
This may have been discussed, I struggle to keep up, but it won't surprise me to find JP is a member, or had interest in, "incel" communities. These are men who struggle to get sexual partners and hate women for "denying" them sex, and hate the men who can "get" the women. This may explain the killing of Jayme's parents.
Part of the culture also supports being attracted to much younger females (not necessarily underage though) who are more pure and more controllable.
"Self-identified incels are mostly white, male and heterosexual, and are often described as young and friendless introverts. Some media outlets depict them as unemployed and living with parents."
Incel - Wikipedia
Well that was an interesting read on Wiki, and I agree. Scary. I had never heard of that label either.It has been brought up. I can say I honestly had never heard of the word. Yet at my middle age, there have been the occasional type encountered in life here and there that seem to have those issues and "rage". I just did not know the word/label, that there are online groups of them, etc. Scary.
Friend of Closs kidnapping suspect: “It’s as confusing as it is to anyone”
Sorry if this has been posted. Interesting from a friends perspective.![]()
I think she had gone to the one in Rice Lake until it closed, and then changed to this one. The owner had said something in an early interview about it.This Becky's School of Dance is much closer to her house. DO we know that she traveled to Rice Lake for these classes?
ETA I believe one of her aunts lives in Rice Lake so it is possible. I'm just wondering which studio she would have attended.
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All I ever saw was speculation.@katydid23 Ok. I never saw anything to contradict the story that he was working on Sunday.
I have to agree that not everybody responds to trauma/tragedies the same way, and I don't believe that every kidnapping victim is held under the same circumstances. I haven't seen any mention in this case of blindfolds, bindings, gags, handcuffs, etc., so it's possible that at least some of them weren't used. We all have our own traumas and tragedies to overcome, some much worse than others, and we all deal with them in our own ways. After all of the things I did go through as a child and adolescent, the only one that still obviously triggers panic attacks is related to something that happened 60+ years ago. Those that happened later were dealt with in the manner that worked best for me. Whatever happened to JC these past few months will be dealt with in whatever manner works best for her. MOOYou're missing the point. The point is that victims of TARGETED PERSONAL, severe, depersonalizing trauma such as forced abduction after seeing one's parents murdered ( most likely she saw or he told her soon as a control method), being held in a strange place perhaps with blindfolds, gags, bindings, handcuffs, deprivation of food, basic sanitation and any sense of time and place WOULD BREAK YOU AND A WAR- HARDENED POW in your spirit and parts of your mental processing.
Sure, you both would react " differently", all people process and react " differently", more accurately stated as uniquely individually, but enough research has been done on the subject for us to know without one iota of doubt that a conscious or partly conscious prisoner will have trauma to recover from in the future.
Also, you give the example of 2 car accident survivors where one deals better because they've been through many car accidents before.
I sincerely hope you are not saying that a survivor of abuse which is repeated responds less than one who has never been abducted and abused before. IOW, the analogy SUCKS.
Unless it is dealt with by the person in their own productive and healthy ways, usually with guidance and loving support, then they might as well still BE in the basement in the dark with little food, water, sanitation for the rest of their lives.
We cannot heal from this level of trauma we cannot acknowledge or admit and ask someone we trust to support us emotionally as we are dealing with the hdealing.
Thanks, that seems to explain why I don't really have much of a reaction to any "traumas" anymore. I just hope that JC has strong, but at least somewhat healthy, coping mechanisms.I actually think you are reading into my post and perhaps responding emotionally based on your experiences. Nothing you have said contradicts what I said so I’m not sure what point I’m missing .
To re-iterate my point was that no one responds the same to trauma. Period. We can’t say “well if you had this or that before a certain age” you will react this way or that way. It’s invalid.
The BRAIN is re-wired in trauma situations. Legitimately physically changes. Yes, someone who is exposed to repeated traumas will start to react less and less. Its called disassociation. It’s survival instinct and the brains way of protecting you. That doesn’t mean it isn’t traumatic. It is. Your default coping mechanisms are just different.
Everyone reacts differently to trauma. Everyone has to heal from it in their own ways. And at this point even experts aren’t sure what the “best practices” are. With recent studies on C-PTSD many of the things we thought were best practices may not be.
Leooking at that, it started looking like someone in Wisconsin doesn't like non-white people much. With all who disappeared within the past year, only a handful were white. Maybe just a coincidence, but maybe not. MOOJust wanted to pop in and say thank you to everyone on here who has been so helpful in trying to figure out this case! This community has been incredibly uplifting during Jayme's disappearance and rallying around her in her return. With this case dying down there are many more children in Wisconsin who are still missing and need just as much help. In the link is 51 still missing, let's help find them!
I wondered about that too. It seems odd that he'd put her in a room where she could lock him out, but he couldn't lock her in. I'm wondering if they'll discover that the room was left that way by the sister (and maybe people throwing junk in there over the years), and JC was held somewhere else in the house. MOODoes anyone see anything in the pictures that would show the door to the basement room could be locked from the outside ? I keep trying to blow the pictures up and don't see anything that would look like a hook or latch for a lock to be placed on the outside. Only the inside lock on the door handle.
Is that a bottle of nail polish remover in the bowl?
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Inside squalid basement 'cell' where Jayme Closs spent 88 days as prisoner of a 21-year-old loner | Daily Mail Online
I notice a mini Christmas Tree on the table below the window in the photo that is two photos up from the photo with the beverage cans in the snow. This is in the same photo as the Monopoly board game which is right below the table. The article also says "Twinkling Christmas decorations are still strung across the yard" (though I do not them in any of the photos). It could be those Christmas items have been there for years as it doesn't appear there was too much regular housekeeping being done but perhaps put there this past Christmas Season which does make me speculate if "he" was in fact trying to gain Jayme's trust and attempting to normalize the situation and acclimate Jayme into home and into his life. Just speculating....
I think torching the place was the least of Jayme's concerns when she stepped outside. Hopefully the place will be condemned and demolished. Fingers crossed. I agree on theSomeone was pining away for simpler days.
Appears to have haphazard unpacking of stowed away childhood memories. This entire property is chock full of reminders of mother' care, siblings and carefree play. What torching the place was the least of Jamyswith all these locals claiming Patterson was always only another meek little mouse, the only one who understands how insane he'd become is the girl who should get the chance to put it all behind. How did she not set it all on fire on her way out... I'll never know.
How horribly frustrating it will all be. I hate what thishas done to Jayme.
IMO, his attorneys are going to try to implicate her. Words like "tragic" and "prayers." I see it now. Ugh.
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