Experts explain what the legal ramifications could be for a Wisconsin man who faked his own death.
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I wonder if insurance fraud could even be the charge. After all, he did not fake own death successfully, and the insurance claim, probably, was not made. I mean, we are assuming that this is why he faked own death, to provide for his family, but look at it from the other angle: he didn’t insure his life for too much nor did he care to conceal his tracks too well. The next day it was obvious that he was in Canada.
It was a very half-hearted attempt to look better. After all, here is this “model” husband and father, probably approaching midlife crisis, who fell in love with some woman from post-Soviet world (I’d guess that she is not a 20-year-old, but probably a good ten years younger than him.) And he abandons his family, basically, robs them of any means for existence. He doesn’t plan to return. He faked his death for the family - these two handsome boys, and lovely daughter who is so close to him, and obviously loving and happy woman, his wife. He planned on staying dead for them - at best. At worst, as i suspect, he didn’t care.
But not to look totally immoral in their eyes, now he can always say, “well, I left them my life insurance.” In his view, he is clean. “I did what I had to do.” Read: took care of them, too bad that it didn’t work out.
If he really tried, he’d at least attempt to stage death better, or cross the border the way illegal migrants do, perhaps stay in Canada for a while. Or maybe go to Mexico and fake disappearance there, but it is dangerous and costly. Too much effort for this egotistical lazy bum, much easier to click a mouse on his computer.
I would love to know if he courted his wife, if he promised to be the best husband ever if she’d agree, if he is one of these manipulators. I’d bet on “yes.”
If I were this woman from Uzbekistan, I’d look, very carefully, at the photo of his family. It is not her victory over them. He just discarded a visibly loving family with three children, and not even for her, for own novelty-seeking. Realities are very different in Central Asia, there are more single, hopeless women, but who’s to say he’s not going to do the same again? He can simply leave her “to go back” and move to yet another place. Now, she has to work darn hard to keep him, because there are other women around in Uzbek neighborhoods, even younger, even newer, and also desperate to have a better life. And god forbid she wants to have a kid of her own, because he’s been through it, three times. Then it stop being new and free.
I hope the community in Wisconsin supports his family and I hope that they close this door for him.
The woman he went to doesn’t need to be an ethnic Uzbek and religiously observant, but how I wish she were. The average summer temperature in Tashkent is about 35-40 degrees Celsius, and Samarkand is hotter than that. And imagine Ramadan falling on the summer, and you can’t eat nor drink till the first star, and there is 40C (104 F) in the shade. I always felt sorry for Uzbek women who gather cotton in the fields, especially if they are pregnant. But Ryan is likely living in Tashkent and can arrange air conditioning. Still, kayaking or biking in summer ain’t gonna be fun.
Leave him there, please.