on the trail ... you haven't been spanked, but read the thread before you post. I've made the same mistake. All's well, hang around and add your thoughts.
Stacy ... on your worries of adding to the pain of a loss... I, personally, don't think there could be any greater pain than NOT KNOWING. In this case, the family doesn't know if these kids survived the night, are they out there, could Sylvia meet part or all of her missing siblings before it's too late? That is pain. When a murder goes unsolved and you can't get answers as to why a child was killed or an innocent person was taken from you - that's pain.
No, I haven't been faced with such a situation personally, but heck, some of us are so wrapped up in this story that we feel we are involved (I know I do). Sylvia wants answers. And, answers involve dredging up the pain again and again, but hopefully it will be worth it in the end. Even if we don't find the answers, it may give her a sense of peace that she did all she could to find out. It would be such a relief to me that someone stilled cared about 5 kids being abducted on Christmas Eve 1945.