I do.
It teaches them how hurt feelings feel. Because I'm sure what they did caused hurt feelings to the chubby child.
IMO kids are too coddled these days.
IMO stating a spray with a hose is abusive is a good example of why.
JMO
Would you hurt your child's feelings to get them to behave?
Call your child a fatty to get them to stop eating so much?
Tell a girl she looks like a *advertiser censored* in order to get her to dress differently?
I just think there's a more appropriate way for a reasonable adult. IMO