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I agree with you. It’s hard to explain, but I feel having his own gun caused him to feel empowered and validated in his maladaptive thought processes.I think the difference is that this was Ethan's gun. Not anyone else's gun, his. He had made references in social media and his journal when he got it and how pleased he was with it. It was supposed to be an early Christmas present for him.
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An example— I have always had my own car but recently lent it to my daughter for several months since I was working from home. I could use my husband’s car at any time, but I ended up feeling trapped. When you have access to your OWN item, it feels different, IME.
Also, the more I think about it, the more I do feel that JC’s lying about a friend’s suicide was completely evil on JC’s part. I can’t think of any innocent reason for her to do that…. All IMO.
Other than: Another possibility might be that JC detected something psychologically abnormal in her son from a young age (not saying he was, just she might have thought so) and instead of getting him help, she distanced herself.
Just some thoughts, completely my own opinion.
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