Thanks so much for being so open to questions and answering what you comfortably can.
It’s not a big deal, but I’m still a little confused about where his grandparents currently live because earlier you said they live in Grants Pass. But it seems they actually live in K. Falls? Or am I reading it wrong. The only reason I care is that I was picturing them driving him all the way from Grants Pass to K. Falls in December…not a fun drive! Certainly they were going above and beyond for Ethan if that’s the case. As I say, it’s just me being curious.
I can totally understand that he’d want to be independent, and grandparents do have a way of “taking care of” their grandchildren when they want to do things for themselves.
It sounds like there are rumors that make it hard to sort things out. But you seem to have a pretty good handle on what could have happened. I’m sure you have a reason for mentioning Sun River, but you may need to keep it private. That’s a lonely stretch of highway between Klamath Falls and Sun River, so if he’s found it will probably be by a hiker or hunter. But we’ve seen a number of missing ones found after a great deal of time, so don’t give up hope. Hang in there! Your little guy is fortunate to have you.
For those not familiar with the area, here is a map that also shows Grants Pass if you move it to the west, so you can see how things are laid out.
Google Maps