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http://wreg.com/2012/05/08/timeline-a-look-back-at-when-kidnapping-began-how-it-led-to-murder/
Please don't ask me to explain about the funeral because I absolutely am clueless at this point.
The sister of Adams ex is making these statements and I don't believe what she is saying about them dating or other accusations. JB's friends and family think this is ridiculous. I will trust them first.
The 2 oldest are fathered by MJ and the yougest by GB according to the family.
Whatever the truth actually is, he believed one of the girls could be his child.
"Union County deputies say Mayes is a friend of the Bain family. Neighbors tell abc24 news he would frequently bring Jo Ann Bain's daughters to his trailer home. According to Patterson, Mayes and his wife have lived there for more than two years. She says one of the three Bain girls may have belonged to him."
http://www.abc24.com/content/topsto...ly-After-2-Bodies/qg6-gT6rvEOzz7Gw2TSD1A.cspx
He referred to others as all of them being his children also. So yes, he may have believed in his mind something to that effect or he may have been trying to rationalize to others his unusual closeness to these girls.
Anyway about it, something upstairs obviously was not right with him. Amazing that he had managed to have such close contact with them. But, it happens all the time. So many wolfs in sheeps clothing.
Great point. To be seen with young girls and say they are your daughters doesn't seem so bad. To be seen hanging out with young girls that are no kin would raise eyebrows. So just claim them as yours and suddenly its acceptable.
It was clearly acceptable to the mother since she and her husband allowed him to hang out with the children.
But the mother and GB considered him a close family friend. Their judgement turned out to be very bad. Obviously if they could forsee the future he would not be allowed anywhere near them.
What would be the reason they thought he would want to hang out with the young girls? I mean, landlord says he would take them to his house.
Clearly both the mother and her husband believed that to be perfectly acceptable-so, why?
I guess they trusted him.
Definitely. But my point is that when you add homicide of someone other than the child of the kidnapper to the mix, it is a sign of the predatory nature, in most cases, of the kidnapper. Can you think of a case where a parent killed others in the process of kidnapping their child? I can't and I think it is very rare. The violent act of murder of other parties in connection with kidnappings is usually combined with sexual predation.
I don't want to believe that, it's just the stats. I can list all such cases but Ghostwheel is right - it's all too horrible to think of. I'm going to try to focus on these girls being recovered alive and unscathed, for the most part.
What would be the reason they thought he would want to hang out with the young girls? I mean, landlord says he would take them to his house.
Clearly both the mother and her husband believed that to be perfectly acceptable-so, why?
I think it is very, very difficult to turn a relative you love in to the police, knowing that it will end in an arrest for the relative.
For example, it took David Kaczynski a couple weeks to finally go to the FBI with his suspicion that his brother, Ted Kaczynski, wrote the Unabomber's manifesto. He and Ted had not been in close touch for many years but it was still terribly difficult for David to turn his brother in.
In the Kaczynski case, part of David's terrible dilemma was that he knew that his brother could receive the death penalty. He attempted to negotiate with the FBI to take the death penalty off the table before he turned him in and thought the FBI had (David was double crossed).
In other less dramatic cases, relatives have shown the same hesitation. They are caught between two strong forces: the desire to do the right thing and their love of their family member.
Also, I think it's pretty well known that if someone turns themself in, the consequences are often less harsh than if someone else turns them in.
If it were my brother or sister, I hope I would do the right thing. But I can't say for sure I would unless I am placed in that situation.
I do firmly believe, however, that if a perp commits another crime before someone turns them in, the responsibility for that crime is 100% the perpetrator's fault.
My apologies if this has been covered already, but I cannot read all the posts right now.
I have a question about the day of the kidnapping. So the family had flown back to TN FROM Arizona for a funeral/sickness, right? And if I understand correctly they were also doing some packing of a U-Haul so they could move the rest of their things to AZ, correct? So were the girls already enrolled in school in AZ? If so, then why would the father (GB) wake up that Monday morning and assume that the girls were in school, especially if they were still in TN?
I am sorry, this little thing just bothers me and I need clarification.
The paternity issues go well beyond statements of TM's sister. Earlier media reports indicated AM was "dating" JB over a decade ago, raising the posibilty that he fathered (or thinks he fathered) AB (12 yo). Similarly, comments of TM's sister suggest that the relationship may be on going (raising the additional possibility that he fathered KB).The sister of Adams ex is making these statements and I don't believe what she is saying about them dating or other accusations. JB's friends and family think this is ridiculous. I will trust them first.
The 2 oldest are fathered by MJ and the yougest by GB according to the family.
Speaking of there being no category in the DSM for TM.. When I was reading on her Facebook.. Linked to upthread she makes mention that she's doing real good now that she's taking her meds just like the docs told her to and that everything was just fine now.. No more fussing and "frighting".. And yes the quotes is the exact word she used obviously meaning fighting i suppose..But IMO could definitely be an indicator of some major issues and illnesses that caused volatile and possibly even violent behaviors.. Jmo what I gleaned from reading her FB.. I definitely do not believe for a moment that she thinks, feels, and behaves like the average female who had dislike and jealousy for other females.. Not at all..
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