It's been more than a month. IMO, young Caleb Harris has not been alive for most of that time.
When a person "vanishes," I think most of us can agree that that is exceedingly rare. Frankly, I think it's more rare than a person being snatched by a predator.
To me, it makes no difference whether Caleb was grabbed as he was killing time, waiting on Uber Eats, snapping moody fog photos in the middle of the night, or was grabbed by someone he thought he'd be hooking up with. The only difference between the two scenarios is the second one included personal choice and an element of risk.
Personal choice and an element of risk is the same thing that ended Riley Strain's life. Drowning while heavily intoxicated, however, given the alternative I'm thinking befell Caleb, seems an eminently preferable way of dying. JMO.
It's a haunting, sad and terribly frightening turn of events, and I keep hoping every day that Caleb will be found.