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True! I thought narcisist was a personality disorder though. I am not current on my mental health lingo :)

I love that there are so many points of view, opinions and questions asked on this forum. I love that it is moderated, even though I myself have been targeted by the dreaded mod snippers a time or two. Just sayin.... This is gonna sound stooopid to those who are in one camp or another, but I...

Sorry for not quoting the original posts but...stupid Nook makes me work too hard for it sometimes. Someone asked about masturbation. ER did actually indulge, according to his writings. Actualy, he was a little too descriptive about his first experience for my taste. Yuck. Also, regading his...

^^^^^^^^This is funny....because it's universally TRUE! I don't like the editing. Clearly explain the rules in writing ahead of time and the consequences if they don't conform. Then just follow the guidelines. Sheesh. If rules say no straps, then don't allow them to be photographed if they...

The fact is lots of women are bold. I would never comment to a virtual stranger (male) about his looks, but I would, and probably have, say something like "love your bracelet/hair/shoes" to a female. I am a female btw. We had a young guy come to work for us at my old job. He was still 17, very...

I haven't seen anything that suggests he posted homicidal videos before the day of the actual crimes, but maybe I missed it. And I am just thinking about the logistics of watching the videos before going to check on him. I imagine these were patrol officers already out on patrol and just quickly...

I was thinking about all of this the other day. It seems like in cases like being dispatched to ER's apartment last month, officers have to quickly weigh the target's rights (ER) against those of the general public. Usually, I am guessing, without much information. And it makes sense that when...

This might be why it took so long to announce the 3 victims in the apartment. When I read he had a machete, this statement in his writing came to mind. I hope it's not true, for the sake of the victims' poor families.

Can you imagine getting this call from your child? I can't imagine it.

I had to laugh at your post. You are right, of course, about the pizza delivery guy. I just couldn't help imagining the research involved lol. Thanks for the much needed giggle!

Bass :floorlaugh: Sorry. Couldn't resist. Sure is quiet over on the FJH FB page.

BBM. This is blatantly obvious to the entire world now, but his friends probably just considered him weird. Until toward the end, anyway.

I wonder if they wanted to wait until all family members had been notified. Imagine you saw on the news that this guy killed 3 in his apartment, and your child was one of his roommates! I'm just guessing. And if the scene was that horrible, I wonder about IDing the bodies. Someone mentioned...

I totally understand...my coffee pot BROKE this morning and I have a job interview in 2 hours. McDonald's it is! Interesting they say he was addicted to those things. I've not seen where he had a thing for *advertiser censored*. Did they find a stash in his apartment or something? I am not a game person...

He also considered himself rejected by women, when there is no indication that he EVER made an effort to engage with one. He considered himself brilliant, but wrote that he got "the grade of B" at community college in the couple of classes he didn't drop. He considered himself above doing...

All of this ^^^ As I said earlier, I have even seen children go to therapy week after week and reveal nothing, either through unapologetic stonewalling, bull$%!tting or a combination of both. You can literally go for years without making any progress. If a person doesn't want to reveal...

Well I made it 19 minutes. I honestly have no idea who this person is, but all he did for the first 19 minutes was blame Elliot's parents. I'm not listening to any more of it. He is taking the journal as fact, for one thing. I have my doubts about that. He better be a super-educated...

OMG! Seven guns and 1000 rounds?! All legal. What was this one planning? :scared:

I know pretty equal numbers of messed up kids who came from good homes, as good people who came from messed up homes. Example: my own foster brother. He is the biological child of my foster parents. Great family! Community awareness, church life, family meals, camping, vacations, rules...

Just a thought, but dad got into multiple arguements and physical altercations with longtime friends if ER's journal is to be believed. Maybe it took dad a little longer to come to terms with something being very wrong with his son due to his own personality and the fact that he didn't log as...