I have listened to most of Tommy's conversations with his wife, and based on what I have heard, Lindsy was fully aware that Tommy wanted to take a LDT but as far as when it would take place, that was up to his lawyer. LP said Lindsy was in shock when he told her Tommy took his LDT while she was in MA but perhaps Tommy wasn't given notice and he had no choice but to take it when the investigator showed up at the jail. There is also reason to suspect Tommy didn't notify Lindsy beforehand because he couldn't reach her by phone in MA. There is no reason to believe Lindsy spoke with her husband while she was gone.
LP broke the news to Lindsy that Tommy had taken and failed his LDT and when Lindsy demanded to know how LP knew he failed, LP's rationale was "If he had passed, his lawyer would have bragged about it". (14:57 mm). AH and LP disclosed this confidential and sensitive information to Lindsy before Tommy's lawyer had an opportunity to make contact with her or she talked with Tommy which IMO is a breach of privacy and unethical behavior.
Lindsy said everything was normal Monday Feb 9/09 when she returned home from her evening class: Tommy prepared supper for them, they ate & watched TV, and went to bed together at 11:30 pm. LP tried to convince Lindsy Tommy had lied to her and was involved in HaLeigh's disappearance because he didn't tell LE he had gone to Ron's around 10 pm eight months ago, (15:32 mm) which we now know was a ploy by Tommy to get his bond reduced and not possible since Tommy was home babysitting and awaiting his wifes return. I suspect once Lindsy talks to her husband and his lawyer and the trust between her and her husband which was broken by LP and AH is re-established, she might reconsider her grounds for divorce.
I hope TJ Ward, PI, conducts a LVA on Ronald soon. Tommy claims he is innocent and Hank Sr also stands by his son and said he knows for a fact Tommy wasn't involved in HaLeigh's disappearance. TJ Ward said Misty is involved and know where HaLeigh is. LP said Tommy didn't talk to FH and confess to her because they didn't have minutes on their phones. LP said Tommy's LDT showed deception and that is what led LE to search the SJR but why would Tommy's lawyer share this privileged information wth LP?
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/levipage/2010/04/19/haleigh-cummings-homicide-investigation