A 12 year old should definitely not be allowed to get so emotionally involved in something like this case. Even just following it on TV to excess could be harmful to a child of that age, much less becoming personally involved. I am still on the fence in this case and am still hopeful that Casey is innocent and praying that Caylee will be found alive and well....but I have to say, I am very surprised by the note that Casey supposedly sent to this girl...(if it really was from Casey at all)-- I can tell that she was just trying to be sweet to the little girl by acknowledge her efforts, but the note was so inappropriate, especially the mention of having a sleepover together. And the note itself, the style of it, as well as the content, seems so regressed, more like a note from one 12-year-old to another. Speaking of sleepovers, I've been very surprised that my 5-year-old child has been invited on more than one occasion to "sleep-overs" by families of his peers, beginning when he was even younger than 5! Which we just couldn't believe, we were like, are they kidding? So I don't know what it is today with "sleepovers". Totally inappropriate in both cases. To echo what others have said here, no child of this girl's age should have a myspace or facebook page at all, nor should they be emailing with any adult. (In my opinion.)