Jmoose
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cawfee, I do exactly the same thing--on line and in real life! And I swear I didn't mean to pick on you or your posts (or anyone else in particular). While I'm at it, I guess I should also make it clear I am NOT a moderator. My opinions carry no special weight at WS.
I can understand why many believe Dan should have realized Diane was in trouble and done more to help her: that morning, the night before and in life in general. And perhaps he has lied to the press in the time since the accident, though if I may damn him with faint praise, he doesn't strike me as smart enough to do much conniving. I'd be more apt to believe he had been deluding himself for some time.
Either way, however, he still lost a wife and daughter, and his son is impaired. Maybe it was just frustration that led to the "Diane wanted the children" remark. After all, if they hadn't had children, maybe he'd still have a wife.
I still wish he hadn't said it (and I bet he does, too). I was just thinking out loud that if it's true victims get special treatment here, then Dan fits the definition, even if he did something unknowingly to contribute to the tragedy.
For some men, this is too much like work-and maybe he left her alone with her vices, because she left him alone with his. He appears to be a lazy man who just wanted to go to work and then play when he wasn't at work. I'll bet he never did any home maintenance, either, leaving it to Diane. This is probably why she blew a gasket.
I know a woman who was married with one child-he wanted no more children, but she became pregnant, so he left her to raise both children on her own. He now takes full credit for the younger child's professional success in the military, even though he never resided in the same home with this boy, and barely saw him subsequent to his birth, let alone taught him anything. What's wrong with these guys? Why don't they marry women who don't want children?