You sound like a great child, being there for your mother in her home and her pets. I wish the US culture cared more about the elderly. In my experience, the elderly are warehoused into nursing homes $$ My son is married to a gal from Thailand and they honor and take care of their elderly parents. IMO, nobody should go broke due to medical/elderly care bills. US health care is really based on $$$.
Ditto that. It's pathetic and shameful how the elderly are treated in this country. I've been in the position of dealing with elderly people and I was shocked at how hard it is to find help for them. If you ever saw the movie Soylent Green, despite what it was about, I kind of liked the idea of the elderly being able to check out when they wanted to.