AL - Incest Sodomy Rape multiple victim under age of 16

[rolltidemom]

Are we allowed to post scenarios? If we use no real names? Thanks to all, and can someone PLEASE share their method of organizing info that works? Do you guys make folders and just cut and paste? Like folders for everyone involved? Like I said, I am NOT good with computers. I still can't figure out where the parking lot is on this WS site, and I have trouble navigating to others. Thanks to all!

I would also like to know about the parking lot:banghead:

 

[sweets]

Hi all. I have been following but have not posted on this case but just wanted throw a speculation that I have been thinking for a while. When DW made the comment that he would protect BW..I am thinking that DW was made/forced to do things that he definitly did not want his sister to have to do so what if he made a deal with the ring leaders of whatever this incest feast thing is that he would continue to participate and do whatever he was told to do even if it meant he became the perp instead of a victim now as long as they kept their hands off of BW. In his mind maybe he thought this was the only way he could keep BW and her baby safe. However, when this all started to come down and BW went missing he was in jail and was not able to protect BW any longer and DH and the gang finally got to her and have harmed her or sold her or whatever. Something bad for sure.Just something I have had on my mind...jmo...snl

 

[tlcya]

BBM

I am very shocked to read the part I have bolded. I can only speak for myself as a survivor of incest, but not once........not ever... did I think what was happening to me from the age of 5 to almost 16... was right. I knew from minute one when it began that it was very wrong and so did my abuser. That is why he controlled his very frightened child by intimidation, brute force, and paralizing fear in order to protect his secret.

I was not pulled out and home schooled but I was expected to make excellent grades even though I was enduring severe trauma from physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. By outward appearance we were the all American family. My father was a very intelligent and professionally successful man.

At every victim's advocate meeting I have ever attended over the years I have never heard one person who was sexual abused due to incest say they thought there was nothing wrong with it. Imo, they do know and that is why most of their lives are shattered and so is their spirit. That is why they need help healing from the emotional scars it leaves.

If these 'blind' people do exist then I am thankful to God I was never one of them who had this mindset.

I absolutely knew it was wrong, and when I finally left that hell hole, I made sure I did the right thing by my own children. I certainly had learned a very hard lesson on what not to do when raising my own children.

IMO

BBM Unfortunately there are those blind people, they do indeed exist. I guess I should qualify by saying they know it is wrong (ie illegal) but conversly feel it is not a huge deal. My own abuser was a victim of abuse by his own family members as a child. This is a group of people who told stories about "the good old days" and what this one forced that one to do as kids all the while laughing during the retelling if you can believe it. After hearing some of these stories I was just sickened but gained a better understanding of what went into creating my own abuse situation.

The attitude was, it happens in every family and it is harmless or just something to be tolerated and gotten through.

I think the men of this family may have seen it going on over the years and became the perpetrators of the next generations abuse. SPECULATION

Most people know this is wrong and fight with their whole souls to make sure their own kids never suffer such indignity and shame. Others bury it, never deal with it, let it help them form a horrible self esteem for them and some, some do go on to then attempt to retake control and feel less vulnerable by becoming the agressor, switching the role so to speak.

 

[sweets]

The other thing I have wondered about is the MPD keep saying BW is not a part of our sex abuse/incest case. What if she is a part of another case though. I think I read previously (can't remember the link, but it was a local news site. Maybe some of the locals know about this) that they (LE) had just busted a big sex ring before BW story came to light. Could these cases be related and BW involved as a victim in some of the other cases. Just wondering ...jmo...snl

 

[fabvab]

BBM

I am very shocked to read the part I have bolded. I can only speak for myself as a survivor of incest, but not once........not ever... did I think what was happening to me from the age of 5 to almost 16... was right. I knew from minute one when it began that it was very wrong and so did my abuser. That is why he controlled his very frightened child by intimidation, brute force, and paralizing fear in order to protect his secret.

I was not pulled out and home schooled but I was expected to make excellent grades even though I was enduring severe trauma from physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. By outward appearance we were the all American family. My father was a very intelligent and professionally successful man.

At every victim's advocate meeting I have ever attended over the years I have never heard one person who was sexual abused due to incest say they thought there was nothing wrong with it. Imo, they do know and that is why most of their lives are shattered and so is their spirit. That is why they need help healing from the emotional scars it leaves.

If these 'blind' people do exist then I am thankful to God I was never one of them who had this mindset.

I absolutely knew it was wrong, and when I finally left that hell hole, I made sure I did the right thing by my own children. I certainly had learned a very hard lesson on what not to do when raising my own children.

IMO

Bless you for overcoming this and for breaking the cycle.

My experience is like yours in that the victims knew the abuse was wrong. The only victim who didn't comprehend it was wrong functioned at a MR level.

I do lessons and educate children on how to protect themselves from sex abuse. They are very simple lessons geared for their specific age level. I have never had a parent question my lessons, instead they are thankful.

Children still often don't report the abuse. It is like they departmentalize the it in their mind and store it away in order to survive and function on a daily basis. Plus abusers play mind games with children...mind games can be verbal threats or unspoken threats.

I have been involved in a lot of sex abuse cases...but have had only a couple of children report the abuse to me. One boy would not verbalize it at all...would only write down what happened to him.

My experience is that the victim child feels ashamed...many times blaming their self.

I have asked child victims what I could have done/said differently to have helped them report abuse earlier. Most can't tell me. I just commend them for being brave and reporting it. I tell them they are heroes who might ensure another child is not abused.

Sex abuse and its effects on victims are not black and white. Children will report that a child hit them...but might not report that an older child fondled them.

It is what it is. So we have to educate ourselves on the signs of abuse...and then watch for them while building trusting relationships with these children.

Sorry to go on a tangent and be long winded. I just wish we could do more to stop this problem.

 

[clarabelle]

thanks fabvab...

Do we know if DH was issued a court order to not be around his kids? IIRC, WWH and WMK were posting the inconsistent events of the day prior to and the day of his suicide, that included him being with the "boys" which sparked some discussion that he wasn't supposed to be around them.

If it was a court order...would CPS be part of that? I'm just thinking that other cases I've followed mention CPS being involved and there being record of such, either known/told thru MSM or via LE.

It has been stated there are multiple victims...those victims need to be protected if they aren't already.
MOO

WWH specifically said she and the "boys" (not she and the kids) were visiting DH which I always found odd because she also has a daughter. Not trying to infer anything because the daughter may have had other plans that night with school or friends. Assuming with a sexual abuse investigation of DH that he was not supposed to be around his kids and was not living in the home and it sounds to me that WWH was trying to do a bit of damage control by specifying boys. Especially since its commonly assumed that sexual abuse involves a female. Don't know if there was a court order since DH had not been charged with anything but I am guessing the police might have suggested that DH not be around his kids. Her comment also placed her with DH on Thursday suggesting to me that she was trying to emphasize that BW may have visited as she said she was going to Wednesday but was not there Thursday. Obviously the police questioned the timeline before DHs suicide and her story had to fit since some details could be corroborated.

DH should have known the police had other named suspects but how could he be sure they would implicate him or themselves (I'm thinking others would deny the charges) and police stated that only one victim had come forward after his death. It wasn't till the 2 uncles were arrested that it was surmised that there may be more than one victim of abuse. I wonder what the police had been investigating for the 3 previous months if a victim hadn't come forward yet. IMO someone not identified as a victim in the case must have come forward with some information that required being investigated.

Just some questions I have and my opinion only.

Sent from my Rezound using Tapatalk 2 so forgive typos, bad grammar and poor sentence structure

 

[nursebeeme]

Officials described the case as horrific after three men were arrested and charged with crimes against children.

Randall Scott Wood, Dustin Alton Kent, and Derek Thomas Wood, all of the Mobile Al area have been arrested with the sexual abuse of children.

All men were arrested by the BALDWIN COUNTY SHERIFFS OFFICE and jailed at the Baldwin County Correctional Center.

Randall Scott Wood, age 42, was arrested on June 19 2012 and charged with SEXUAL ABUSE SECOND DEGREE, SODOMY SECOND DEGREE, and INCEST. He was released on a $25,000 bond.

Dustin Alton Kent age 36 was arrested on June 19 2012and charged with SODOMY FIRST DEGREE, RAPE SECOND DEGREE and released on a $10000 bond. Kent was again arrested on July 16 2012 and charged with RAPE SECOND DEGREE, INCEST, and SODOMY SECOND DEGREE. He was released on a $100000 bond.

Derek Thomas Wood age 21 was arrested on July 13 2012 and charged with RAPE SECOND DEGREE and
SODOMY SECOND DEGREE. He was also charged with INCEST, but that charge was dropped. He is currently in jail with $100000 bond.

http://bcsonline.co.baldwin.al.us/smartweb/jail.aspx

http://www.fox10tv.com/dpp/news/loca...elated-to-wood

http://www.fox10tv.com/dpp/news/loca...-investigation

Another man, Donald Paul Holland aged 44, who died of a self inflicted gun shot wound, was expected to be questioned regarding the same crimes.

The men are all related. Kent and Holland are married to twin sisters, Randall Scoot Wood is a brother of the sisters, and Derek Wood is their nephew.

"Baldwin sheriff’s spokesman Maj. Anthony Lowery said Monday that Derek Wood’s arrest was not related to the case involving his sister. He provided only limited other details.
"We expect other charges to be added and we do expect additional arrests in this case," Lowery said.
Lowery said that Wood’s arrest was the result of an investigation into two of his uncles, Randall Wood and Dustin Kent, who were arrested June 19 on charges of incest, sodomy and sexual abuse. Information disclosed by one or more victims in those cases helped lead to Derek Wood, according to Lowery.
He said the investigation of Kent and Randall Wood has been under way for almost three months in and around the Marlow community in south Baldwin County, and is ongoing.
"We have multiple victims at this point,"
Lowery said.

http://blog.al.com/live/2012/07/miss...r_accused.html

this thread information was compiled by member gliving. It is for discussion of these cases only and not for discussion of the missing person Brittney Wood, who is related to the alleged perps. There is nothing to connect her to this case so please do not discuss her missing case here nor post speculation on her missing thread. Thanks so much.

Bold and big by me and yes this is getting bumped up. Mind the rules and mind what you post from social media.

:tos:

:nurse:

 

[fabvab]

I would also like to know about the parking lot:banghead:

Go back to the main page that lists all the forums on here.

Scroll down to the bottom until you find the "parking lot". Discussions in there can only be read by members of websleuths.

 

[nursebeeme]

social media reminder for those who have not followed the rules: we do NOT copy and paste comments from social media. Links to the social media of the perps are the only things that are acceptable here. This means links to their page only! No links to pictures and no copying and pasting comments.

 

[nursebeeme]

again: this thread is only for the discussion of the current case. If you have a link to post about any relation to the missing person Brittney Wood take the link and post it on that thread. This truly is the last warning.

 

[sweets]

Bold and big by me and yes this is getting bumped up. Mind the rules and mind what you post from social media.

:tos:

:nurse:

Hi nurse....is my post in the wrong forum. I posted these posts on BW's thread also but it went poof there so I guess I am wondering if I have posted something wrong, This is a very confusing thread or topic to keep straight as it seems we can't talk about BW and the uncles/family on the same thread but in my mind they are related in a way and it makes it very difficult to post without breaking TOS. Anyway, I did want to apologize if my 2 posts were against TOS and I will do my best to make sure it does not happen again. I rarely post at all and this was my 1st post on this topic. I guess maybe I am better off reading but thats OK cause all of you find so much informative and helpful info. Again I am sorry if my post is inappropiate...jmo sweets

 

[ConcernedOutsider]

Concerned.. edit your post to remove the quote so a mod can edit her post since shes offline now?

Sorry I just saw this....guess I wasnt thinking clearly when I said his name shouldnt be there but I had replied to her post listing the name oops. I see it is gone. Thanks for whomever deleted it!

 

[ConcernedOutsider]

HOLLAND JR, DONALD PAUL (W / MALE)
Status: Released
Booking No: BCSO12JBN004708
Booking Date:
07/17/2012 17:02:39
Bond Amount: $10000.00

Ok I AM GETTING SO MAD!!! All of these people are related to BW. Where was all of this bond money when they needed rewarded money for BW? Think about it....RSW bonded out once, DK bonded out twice, and now DH jr has bonded out. Think about how much money they could have towards BWs Reward money if all that money had went to helping find her!!!

 

[buggsmom]

Ok I AM GETTING SO MAD!!! All of these people are related to BW. Where was all of this bond money when they needed rewarded money for BW? Think about it....RSW bonded out once, DK bonded out twice, and now DH jr has bonded out. Think about how much money they could have towards BWs Reward money if all that money had went to helping find her!!!

To me that says a lot being that DW is still in jail.

DK - wife MWK
DHjr - stepmom WWH

 

[ChattyWoman]

To me that says a lot being that DW is still in jail.

DK - wife MWK
DHjr - stepmom WWK

Personally, I think DW is still there because his bond was raised. And, I believe it was raised because his address is "homeless". Thus, a flight risk.
I felt the same about RSW's bond. Remember his bond was higher than DK? His address was out of state.
I really don't think (at this point) it is anything more than that.

 

[buggsmom]

Personally, I think DW is still there because his bond was raised. And, I believe it was raised because his address is "homeless". Thus, a flight risk.
I felt the same about RSW's bond. Remember his bond was higher than DK? His address was out of state.
I really don't think (at this point) it is anything more than that.

You are probably right...

From the lines we can read between, I guess I was coming at it from the angle of the sister wives are supporting the accused abusers - their husbands / dead husband's son and more than likely, the victims are very close relatives...if not in their immediate family. (MOO)...
It feels to me they are taking the stance of defending the accused instead of protecting the victim(s). (MOO) I don't know this for fact...just going off my gut and from the inconsistent comments, "cover-up", defense and denial...my words, my theroy!!!

MWK...bailing out DK 2xs (2nd arrest added incest)...that victim could very well be in thier home...which to me comes across as dismissive to the victim. After the second time, his butt would still be behind bars.

WWH...assuming she was part of the bail out (I have no idea if she was) if she wasn't she should be furious that he is getting out!
Bailing out her dead husband's son, that was arrested for incest, is more bothersome to me. Especially from her comments, there didn't seem to be any sense of urgency or concern for the victim(s)...just trying hard to not tarnish her dead husband's name. DH was more than likely going to be arrested for the exact same charges as the other uncles/relatives with incest too. Those similarities are too close for comfort and way to close to home.

If that victim is not in their home or thier child, they are still a relative that most likely feels like they aren't believed because their family is bailing them out instead of keeping them locked away for the things they have done to them.

DW's mom wants to bail him out...that's what mom's want to do, no matter what the charges...she just doesn't have the means.
I believe the other two have more to hide, defend and deny and should be in protective momma bear mode. (MOO)

(hope this makes sense...basically I am very suspicous of WWH and even WMK...something is just not right here)

MOO, IMO, MHO, JTIOT...ARGH!!!!

 

[NeoPrimeval]

again: this thread is only for the discussion of the current case. If you have a link to post about any relation to the missing person Brittney Wood take the link and post it on that thread. This truly is the last warning.

I just finished reading the local news stories about these cases. For the first time in weeks there has been daily coverage of "that which will not be spoken here" (my quote). The connection is what is keeping the person we cannot speak of in the news. If we really want to find her we will end this charade of separate threads and allow the free exchange of ideas!

P.S. I fully expect to be banned. But if political correctness trumps finding this young lady, then I don't want any part of this forum!

 

[janeycat1]

When I get in the parking lot, how do i find the topic about this discussion? Please help! Thanks! I did look, and I did find the parking lot.

I do apologize for quoting off of a facebook page, I will refrain from ever doing that again.....thanks for pointing it out moderator! I do believe in constructive criticism!

 

[ChattyWoman]

"I know that I've heard he was supposed to be arrested the day that he shot his self," Aikin said.

http://www.fox10tv.com/dpp/news/local_news/baldwin_county/Family-arrests-related-to-missing-teen

 

[ChattyWoman]

When I get in the parking lot, how do i find the topic about this discussion? Please help! Thanks! I did look, and I did find the parking lot.

I do apologize for quoting off of a facebook page, I will refrain from ever doing that again.....thanks for pointing it out moderator! I do believe in constructive criticism!

I haven't looked to see, but there might not even be a thread about this there...I doubt there is. But, I will go look.
Somebody just mentioned earlier that this thread belonged down stairs in the Parking Lot instead of on the Public Forums.

*Nothing in PL about this case or Brittney.