The Black Eagle on Church St and the Cabbagetown piece seem to make sense in terms of common locations. Is anyone aware of popular hangout spots for gay men in the latter neighbourhood?
Black Eagle is a sort of (tame) rough trade bar, known around the area as a bear hangout. This is a crowd that is more likely to meet and engage in person than over an app, in part because it's a generational thing. The other piece, which doesn't get talked about as much, is that in person meetings can help to avoid folks who might be discriminatory on online dating apps (whether it's about race, Nationlirt, HIV status, etc.). This does require close personal interaction though, and the use of certain kinds of vaguely coded messaging (think handkerchiefs in the back pocket, but for 2017).
I would be interested to know what kind of camera coverage they have. Some of the media pieces referenced the Black Eagle having a "dark room", which typically don't have surveillance. Older, more traditional gay bars also tended to have back entrances / entries that could not be viewed from the street (to provide anonymity to closeted people); does anyone know if Black Eagle does?
Then there is the matter of the gentleman whose car was found on the edge of a cruising spot, in a public park. Not much to go on based on the public reporting unfortunately it's not clear why the reporting on that find wasn't larger.
It is curious that there are (tenuous) connections to in-person hookup spots that tend towards providing anonymity for visitors
The cat / dog / pets thing it harder for me. I can't see a clear pattern except that suppose it suggests these men are caring individuals. Who tend to take in troublesome or challenging cases?
The last thing to note here is that each of the missing guys is on the larger / taller side. A 6'2 guy doesn't just disappear forcably without a compelling reason.
Black Eagle is a sort of (tame) rough trade bar, known around the area as a bear hangout. This is a crowd that is more likely to meet and engage in person than over an app, in part because it's a generational thing. The other piece, which doesn't get talked about as much, is that in person meetings can help to avoid folks who might be discriminatory on online dating apps (whether it's about race, Nationlirt, HIV status, etc.). This does require close personal interaction though, and the use of certain kinds of vaguely coded messaging (think handkerchiefs in the back pocket, but for 2017).
I would be interested to know what kind of camera coverage they have. Some of the media pieces referenced the Black Eagle having a "dark room", which typically don't have surveillance. Older, more traditional gay bars also tended to have back entrances / entries that could not be viewed from the street (to provide anonymity to closeted people); does anyone know if Black Eagle does?
Then there is the matter of the gentleman whose car was found on the edge of a cruising spot, in a public park. Not much to go on based on the public reporting unfortunately it's not clear why the reporting on that find wasn't larger.
It is curious that there are (tenuous) connections to in-person hookup spots that tend towards providing anonymity for visitors
The cat / dog / pets thing it harder for me. I can't see a clear pattern except that suppose it suggests these men are caring individuals. Who tend to take in troublesome or challenging cases?
The last thing to note here is that each of the missing guys is on the larger / taller side. A 6'2 guy doesn't just disappear forcably without a compelling reason.