Angelcat13
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Not even that. They shouldn’t even have house plants.I feel like they could only be trusted with Hermit Crabs
Not even that. They shouldn’t even have house plants.I feel like they could only be trusted with Hermit Crabs
He would leave a dog in a car too...it's just that he is....uncaring, irresponsible, indifferent, eggocentrical....a psychopathic jerk.
Sigh, true…Not even that. They shouldn’t even have house plants.
I feel like they could only be trusted with Hermit Crabs
There were house plants in the dining area and in the “tv room” all at various stages of dying. The LEO had to remind him to let the dogs in. Hermit Crabs? No. Sea Monkeys? No. Pet Rock? No. I loved my Pet Rock, his name was Charlie. Honestly there isn’t a darn thing I would trust Christopher Scholtes to care for.Trusting CS w Children? Dogs? Hermit Crabs? House Plants?
No, no, no, and no.
How about a Pet Rock?
I'm not sure.
Some new information ( to me at least) in article below:
“Christopher Scholtes admitted he had a lot of bad habits — that he was an addict who drove at high speeds with his three daughters in the car after he’d been drinking and that he let them nap inside the vehicle on blistering hot days while he played video games and watched *advertiser censored*, court records show.
In text messages he exchanged with his wife, Erika Scholtes, he admitted to all these practices in the months leading up to their 2-year-old daughter’s death.”
“Scholtes had been trying to schedule a doctor’s appointment and decided to drive down to their office with Parker since he was having trouble reaching the doctor by phone, investigation documents say. On his way back home from the office, he stopped at a gas station and a grocery store.”
“Surveillance footage from both businesses show he went in alone, meaning Parker was possibly left in the hot car both times, and that he shoplifted beer in both stores.”
“Finally, he pulled into their home’s driveway at 12:53 p.m., just in time to meet his two older girls arriving home from the trampoline park, even though he initially told investigators he reached home by 2:30 p.m. Upon their arrival, with Parker sleeping in the backseat, he decided to let her nap in the car, he told investigators, and he and the two girls went inside.”
“After this, the older girls had lunch and played quietly in the house, they told investigators, while their parents texted about a Christmas vacation.
Scholtes surfed the internet for men’s clothing at Nordstrom and for *advertiser censored* from 2:02 p.m. to 2:30 p.m., the investigation document says.“
Dad's troublesome behavior preceded Marana girl's hot-car death, court records show
Parker Scholtes, 2, died in July after being left in a hot car for hours in the driveway of he family's Marana home.tucson.com
snipped for focus @IDK. Thx for your post & link* w some detail that's also new to me.Some new information ( to me at least) in article below:
“Christopher Scholtes admitted he had a lot of bad habits — that he was an addict who drove at high speeds with his three daughters in the car after he’d been drinking and that he let them nap inside the vehicle on blistering hot days while he played video games and watched *advertiser censored*, court records show.
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“Scholtes had been trying to schedule a doctor’s appointment and decided to drive down to their office with Parker since he was having trouble reaching the doctor by phone, investigation documents say. On his way back home from the office, he stopped at a gas station and a grocery store.”
“Surveillance footage from both businesses show he went in alone, meaning Parker was possibly left in the hot car both times, and that he shoplifted beer in both stores.”
“Finally, he pulled into their home’s driveway at 12:53 p.m., just in time to meet his two older girls arriving home from the trampoline park, even though he initially told investigators he reached home by 2:30 p.m. Upon their arrival, with Parker sleeping in the backseat, he decided to let her nap in the car, he told investigators, and he and the two girls went inside.”
“After this, the older girls had lunch and played quietly in the house, they told investigators, while their parents texted about a Christmas vacation.
Scholtes surfed the internet for men’s clothing at Nordstrom and for *advertiser censored* from 2:02 p.m. to 2:30 p.m., the investigation document says.“
Dad's troublesome behavior preceded Marana girl's hot-car death, court records show
Parker Scholtes, 2, died in July after being left in a hot car for hours in the driveway of he family's Marana home.tucson.com
My narcissistic father would drive to the doctor if he could not get the help needed on the phone."Let" Them or "Made" Them Nap in Car on "Blistering Hot Days?"
snipped for focus @IDK. Thx for your post & link* w some detail that's also new to me.
So CS said I "let" them not "made" them. I doubt that they were always NAPPING during those car-as-a-cage sessions.
Who says to themselves - Can't reach doctor by phone to schedule an appmt. so I'll drive there (and bring toddler-dau w me)? Okay, it's possible. Who was the intended appt for --- CS or one of the dau's? Or maybe a pretext for a diff. kind of errand?
I wonder if records of phone calls or texts, or email or patient-portal-communications support his claim of trying to reach the doctor.
I don't recall TWO shoplifting stops. Or multiple neighbors' specific stmts about various events indicating negligence of CS.
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* Dad's troublesome behavior preceded Marana girl's hot-car death, court records show
Dad's troublesome behavior preceded Marana girl's hot-car death, court records show
Parker Scholtes, 2, died in July after being left in a hot car for hours in the driveway of he family's Marana home.tucson.com
Wow, thank you for posting that article! Yeah some new information, pointing out even more horrible behavior the children were exposed to!Some new information ( to me at least) in article below:
“Christopher Scholtes admitted he had a lot of bad habits — that he was an addict who drove at high speeds with his three daughters in the car after he’d been drinking and that he let them nap inside the vehicle on blistering hot days while he played video games and watched *advertiser censored*, court records show.
In text messages he exchanged with his wife, Erika Scholtes, he admitted to all these practices in the months leading up to their 2-year-old daughter’s death.”
“Scholtes had been trying to schedule a doctor’s appointment and decided to drive down to their office with Parker since he was having trouble reaching the doctor by phone, investigation documents say. On his way back home from the office, he stopped at a gas station and a grocery store.”
“Surveillance footage from both businesses show he went in alone, meaning Parker was possibly left in the hot car both times, and that he shoplifted beer in both stores.”
“Finally, he pulled into their home’s driveway at 12:53 p.m., just in time to meet his two older girls arriving home from the trampoline park, even though he initially told investigators he reached home by 2:30 p.m. Upon their arrival, with Parker sleeping in the backseat, he decided to let her nap in the car, he told investigators, and he and the two girls went inside.”
“After this, the older girls had lunch and played quietly in the house, they told investigators, while their parents texted about a Christmas vacation.
Scholtes surfed the internet for men’s clothing at Nordstrom and for *advertiser censored* from 2:02 p.m. to 2:30 p.m., the investigation document says.“
Dad's troublesome behavior preceded Marana girl's hot-car death, court records show
Parker Scholtes, 2, died in July after being left in a hot car for hours in the driveway of he family's Marana home.tucson.com
The survivor's guilt for those poor babies“He still drinks too much beer, and he keeps leaving us in the car when my mom told him to stop doing this,” one of the girls told the interviewer. “That’s how he made my baby sister die.”
Had they known she was in the car, both said they would have gotten her out.
It's a sad, but sadly not uncommon situation, where the kids are more mature, responsible, and empathetic than their supposed parents.The survivor's guilt for those poor babies
They need to be in therapy and far away from CS.
But ES seems to be co-dependently addicted to HIM. The WORST thing to her was no access to CS per her statement at the bond hearing. To me, that would be a dead toddler...In my opinion, the only way to ensure the safety of his two middle daughters is for him to be living away from them. He's already alleged to have abused his oldest daughter and killed his youngest, and to have neglected and endangered the two he's living with.
He allegedly has multiple addictions, which are specifically known to be extremely difficult to overcome (that level of alcoholism...)
He could go live with his enabling mama elsewhere until his trial, maybe.
All JMO.
That kind of parentified behavior can boomerang in early adulthood, whole thing is very sad, as is situation of oldest. The mother is really messed up in the head. MOOO.It's a sad, but sadly not uncommon situation, where the kids are more mature, responsible, and empathetic than their supposed parents.
I truly think that her sisters are going to be the only ones from that home to properly mourn Parker.
Her father never gave a toss about any of his four girls, and her mother is still fawning and paying court to his useless azz.
MOO