It looks like they don't have to be afraid of him any more. We don't know what their mother is like in any of these departments.That ^^ is what I expect it was like, standard operating procedure, and the kids were used to it. I feel for the girls who likely had to "tell on" what their dad did that day.
jmo
JMO - Anesthesiologists are trained to remain cool, calm and in control while all hell is breaking loose around them. They are often the ones taking charge during a code blue or other emergency. They can get intravenous access, intubate a patient, perform all kinds of heroic medical procedures where other lower medical life-forms have failed. They also have access to ALL the drugs, and know exactly how much to give you to make you go to sleep, or stay awake but become relaxed and comfortable.
The fundraiser through a commercial fundraising site was organized by the mother’s colleagues (possibly without her knowledge). A link was shared in another group and multiple fellow physicians laid shame. Shortly after that the fundraiser was paused my guess is that either the mom requested that or the physician who started it got sick of hearing people complain (and probably realized that was anything but helpful for her colleague) or some combination of the above.
@Curiosum
I’ve been watching everyday for an obit and haven’t found one yet. I’ll keep looking. Someone started a Fund Me page that the site has closed down.
. He got immersed in something else.They seized a half full glass from the coffee table, I hope they tested him, too.
I don't have any small kids to keep an eye on. But I have an older pup. I know where she is at all times, kind of like an automatic radar, just that I am aware when she goes out to pee, when she disappears for a few minutes it's like hearing the kids go silent, you know they're up to something. It's not as though I lose my concentration on my hobbies, my chores, my reading, my gardening. Just that when you love someone, or some furbaby they are just part of you, an extension, it feels like part of my body is missing if she wanders away. I can't imagine losing track of my pup for 3 minutes.I don't think he figured anything about the iPad. I think he just plain forgot she was out there at all
ETA: He was inside in the a/c. How hot it was outside probably wasn't even on his mind.
MOO IMO
We are all different and have different levels of things on our minds. And different cognitive abilities. In the last month I’ve accidentally lost track of not only my own dogs but a dog I was sitting. And I loooovvve these dogs and have never done that before. And when my kids were little I accidentally left one of them in the car for ten minutes after grocery shopping and the other one snuck out of the house during nap time!
There's something wrong with routinely making your kids stay in the car. In their own driveway or garage. It seems like he knew he had to keep them alive, but didn't really want anything to do with them.
I totally agree!!
Yeah I don't believe any of this was accidental or unintentional. He used the car as a babysitter, because his hobbies and 'me time' were more important than being a parent. It was only a matter of time before one of his kids died.
In her text messages to him she made it clear that she knew he left the girls in the car.
Mother's & Father's Texts. When? Where?
sbm @NuttMegg Thx for your post.
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If MSM quote of LE's complaint's quote of text* is accurate, is a bit unusual that TEXT has full sentences, std. grammar, NO abbreviations? Maybe w med training & experience, she maintains calm demeanor regardless of circumstances?
And HIS responding texts, w no abbrev's, etc?
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HOW did they go to hosp? Why text in transit?
A. Did both Mo. & Fa. ride in AMBU. TOGETHER?
If so, is it likely she since that text* in ambu, w him right there? Unless one parent was in ambu med bay & other in front cab, they could talk or whisper to ea other, so why text?
B. SEPARATELY, w Mo. in ambu & Fa. driving car?
Or would she have been focussing only on dau, perhaps offering guidance, wanted or unwanted, to EMTs?
C. If they went to hosp together in ONE CAR then why TEXT instead of talk? Unless they had dau(s) w them?
D. Other way to hosp, e.g., Uber, neighbor, relative? Together or separately?
Both ^ points puzzle me.
Maybe or likely because I'm the only person left in the US who doesn't text.
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* "The interim complaint also shows Scholtes received text messages from his wife while their daughter was being taken to the hospital stating: “I told you to stop leaving them in the car, How many times have I told you?” "
"He responded, “Babe, I’m sorry!” She then said “We’ve lost her, she was perfect,” and he responded by texting “Babe our family. How could I do this? I killed our baby, this can’t be real.” "
From Father may have been distracted by PlayStation when toddler died in hot car
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Yeah, I have ADHD that was not treated until I was in my late thirties. I do not have kids, but I have had dogs most of my adult life, and I never, ever, left them in a car like that. And every time I have been a caretaker for a young child, I have been hyperaware of where they are and if they're safe. Why? Because I give a bleep about them and I desperately want them to be okay, especially on my watch.
www.insideedition.com
An amazing father doesn't habitually, knowingly, put his kids at risk like that."I heard the most horrible screams I've ever heard in my entire life," neighbor Dalia Zimmerman tells Inside Edition.
"He's an amazing father. This was a big mistake and I think that this doesn't represent him," Erika said at the court hearing. "No one understands how great of a tragedy this is more than myself, my remaining two daughters, and Christopher."
Christopher has pleaded not guilty to second-degree murder.
Woman Asks for Husband to Be Freed in Child Hot Car Death Case
Christopher Sholtes drove home with his daughter, Parker, asleep in the car. He told police he did not want to wake her so he left her in the vehicle with the engine on and the air conditioner running.
