Not sure if this has been shared yet, but I just spotted it in the Weekend Australian.
http://m.theaustralian.com.au/news/opinion/apathy-can-cost-lives/story-e6frg7g6-1226374769045
Apathy can cost lives
Ruth Ostrow
June 02, 2012 12:00AM
I REMEMBER walking in the streets of New York with my parents many years ago, when I was girl. We arrived at Times Square. There was a man on top of another, a knife was drawn and about to be plunged. A crowd had gathered but no one did anything. "C'mon," said my father as I implored that we do something. Even at 12 I knew that to do nothing was wrong.
But my father did not stop, pulling Mum and me by the hands. "This isn't Australia," he said. "If we interfere we could get stabbed or shot ourselves."
That was my first lesson in social responsibility - or lack thereof. All of which came back recently when reading reports related to the murder of Allison Baden-Clay. I was most disturbed by news that neighbours heard bloodcurdling screams the night she disappeared, but did nothing. One allegedly even said they would call the police but went inside and didn't.
Neighbours now say they feel bad about it. I can't stop wondering how things might have been different if someone had tried to help even in the most basic way.
I also can't help reflecting on a story I read in the papers a year or so ago about an apartment block in the US. Neighbours above and below could hear someone getting brutally murdered, but did nothing. "I thought it was a dog," one of them declared.
I'm not sure how I would react if I saw a crime being committed in front of my eyes. I certainly know many good samaritans are indeed killed, or held liable for what then transpires.
But I can say for certain, 100 per cent, that I would call the police if I heard a bloodcurdling scream from upstairs on in the street.
I guess people figure they could be called as witnesses, and someone nasty might threaten them. But in my case the reaction to a guttural, desperate scream would be immediate and would allow no time for reflection.
I have gotten out of cars and rushed across highways several times to save birds or wounded animals, especially when I lived in Byron Bay - without heeding the danger of being squashed. Later I have wondered where my head was.
But I think such a flood of protective hormones and emotions comes from normal human instincts. To me it seems abnormal to listen to distress and contemplate one's own safety. Or worse, be indifferent to the screams because there's something good on television, or dinner is ready.
If those cries were indeed from Allison and something could have been done, then shame on humanity that it wasn't.
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