The "(depending on what really happened)" referred to whether or not they lost their mum for good in case she is dead. If they lost their mum it is a tragedy of course.
perhaps the difficulty is in the translation.
'whether or not they lost their mum for good'..
Their father was charged with the murder of their mother... you'd have to say, in regard to Tania , that means permanent loss, gone, not coming back, dead, ihre Mutter wird ermordet und ihr Körper versteckt.
That
is what happened . There is no dispute, or alternative explanation or conclusion. Tania is dead, her body was hidden somewhere, the South Au Police were convinced beyond all doubt, so convinced are they that Tania is dead, and that her husband is the murderer, a bunch of them flew and then drove 1500 klms thru the outback desert to charge and arrest him .
That is not common , in Au. That takes a heavy direction from the top tier of Policing to undertake and a good look at the budget, and rounding up personnel to achieve the aim.
And the SA police don't appear to have made a mistake in this.. Since she left the Adelaide market at sunset that night, she has not used her bank card, her credit card, her Medicare card, her passport, her phone ( still missing presumably buried with the body ) her Myer card, her Qantas card, her Emirates card , her JetStar card.
She has not turned up for the compulsory vaccinations of her own children, nor their first day at School of the Air, nor has she contacted her parents, her brother, or her two young sons. At All. She has not replied to any email, text or letter. She has not purchased any clothing, shoes, underwear, or had a haircut, a manicure , a pedicure anywhere in Australia since that night .
She has not had any dental work of any nature done, and she hasn't had a pap smear test, nor a yearly checkup due since her car accident 8 years ago. She hasn't had the flu and required any antibiotics.
She isn't taking any contraceptives, and she hasn't turned up anywhere for a pregnancy test.
She hasn't eaten out anywhere and used her credit card or EFTPOS . She hasn't purchased any groceries with EFTPOS, and she hasn't filled any car she may have bought, with fuel. She hasn't renewed her drivers licence. She hasn't placed a bond on a unit to live in, or a house. Or rented anything..
These things are all the traces each of us leave every day of our lives . Of Tania, there are none whatsoever. 'In case she is dead' is not feasible.